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40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. - 127: Why Validation and Attention Seeking is F*CKING You Up! – Rick Clemons

127: Why Validation and Attention Seeking is F*CKING You Up! – Rick Clemons

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07/02/21 • 10 min

40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.

Look at me. See me. Love me. Want me. Hell just notice me. This seems to be the quest for most gay men, but it's also the quest that kicks us in the ass. Instead of posting on social media with your shirt off, or your ass half exposed, why not ask yourself this one question "Why do you need that validation?" Noting wrong with wanting to be seen and loved, but how is that helping your confidence and self-esteem in the long run? That's what we're exploring today, so buckle up and learn how to validate and love yourself.

Hey Guys, Check This Out!

Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.

Join the 40 Plus Men's Circle. Learn about about - Click Here!

Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies

P.S. get your free My Bold Life Manifesto, right here - rickclemons.com/manifesto/

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Look at me. See me. Love me. Want me. Hell just notice me. This seems to be the quest for most gay men, but it's also the quest that kicks us in the ass. Instead of posting on social media with your shirt off, or your ass half exposed, why not ask yourself this one question "Why do you need that validation?" Noting wrong with wanting to be seen and loved, but how is that helping your confidence and self-esteem in the long run? That's what we're exploring today, so buckle up and learn how to validate and love yourself.

Hey Guys, Check This Out!

Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.

Join the 40 Plus Men's Circle. Learn about about - Click Here!

Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies

P.S. get your free My Bold Life Manifesto, right here - rickclemons.com/manifesto/

You can also listen to the podcast on...

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Give me those abs, pecs, guns to hang on and that bubble butt to salivate over. Sound like a pipe dream? Or is it more of a nightmare because you just can't lose weight? Diet, diet, diet. Workout, workout, workout. Yet nothing works and it gets worse as you get older. Well, what if it wasn't that hard and it was more about losing the fat than losing the weight? Dr. Jack Kunkel, swears it's more about fat loss than weight loss, and that's why I decided to ask this straight-handsome hunk (sorry boys, he's not gay) to join us to talk about that pursuit of sexy body, or even a healthier bod by following the principles of his book "It's Fat Loss Not Weight Loss!" Now stop salivating over his picture and take a listen.

About Jack

Dr. Jack, is an Alternative Medical Doctor who provides custom and effective solutions for your body and mind by using a three-step strategic approach based on key pillars such as nutrition, exercise, and herbs & whole food supplements.

It all started long ago, out of his lifelong passion for wellness and helping everyone around him lead a healthier lifestyle. He knows how to get there because he also struggled. If he can go from a skinny-fat, broken-brained kid to an author, pro-drug-free bodybuilder, motivational speaker, and Doctor, he knows you can do it as well!

Sure, his practice is about health and wellness. But, still, he believes there's another dimension to it with unlimited potential. That is the capability to deliver a message of empowerment that shows everyone that they can live a better life if only they put their hearts and minds into it.

He aims to inspire his clients to gain courage and motivates them to chase a better and healthier future to be who they are meant to be and do what they are meant to do.

His drive and dedication were the fuel that got this dream started. Every single day he strives to put his best effort on the table, working shoulder to shoulder with his valued patients: to help them meet their own nutritional needs, fitness goals and find confidence in themselves, improving their lifestyle and habits, one day at a time.

Join him on this quest today! and learn more about the solutions he can deliver to simplify your lifestyle.

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Hey Guys, Check This Out!

Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.

Join the 40 Plus Men's Circle. Learn about about - Click Here!

Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies

P.S. get your free My Bold Life Manifesto, right here - rickclemons.com/manifesto/

You can also listen to the podcast on...

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128: Quit Bitching and Step Up To The Plate – Rick Clemons

We all complain. We all want more. We all wish it was easy. Check, check, check. But WTF happens when all you do is complain and never step up to the plate go get that home run you so desperately desire? You've got to stop the bitching and take the action. Grab your self by your man parts and hold on tight as we explore 6 ways to kick yourself in the ass and get moving towards WTF you really want out of life.

Hey Guys, Check This Out!

Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.

Join the 40 Plus Men's Circle. Learn about about - Click Here!

Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies

P.S. get your free My Bold Life Manifesto, right here - rickclemons.com/manifesto/

You can also listen to the podcast on...

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