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310: Overcoming Trauma with Mindfulness – Dr. Jason Durant
40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.
01/03/25 • 42 min
- All research is me-search.
- We are who we are because of our trauma.
- And yes, a boy from rural NY can grow up to be an amazing gay man
Join us as we uncover this tale of resilience, wisdom, and finding hope against all odds.
About Jason
Dr. Jason Durant is a gay man, psychologist, and author living in Manhattan and Hillsdale, NY. Dr. Durant’s life experience growing up as a gay kid on a farm in rural New York State provided fodder for both laughter and tears. His progression through life and his work as a psychotherapist offer him a unique perspective on life as gay man learning to live with the trauma of growing up as an isolated queer kid.
His adventures in San Francisco’s bohemian enclaves of the Castro, the Mission District and in the hills of Northern California’s golden triangle bend the narrative of the traditional healing story into a winding tale built on learning self acceptance through self exploration, music, and even psychedelics. Taken together, this unique and inspiring story was lived by only one person, just as all lives are and this is why he is the man best situated to tell this story.
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Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk Community Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies
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Dear Black Gay Men – Jai The Gentleman
40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.
02/21/25 • 52 min
- How black men get lost in the sauce and learn to hide their truth
- Gain a glimpse into most inspiring lessons Jai learned from his family to make him the gay man he is today
- Discover how create spaces where everyone is included - regardless of their skin color
About Jai The Gentleman
Under the visionary leadership of host and founder Jai The Gentleman, the Dear Black Gay Men podcast has gained a loyal and growing audience across the nation, with each episode offering a candid, humorous, and always insightful look at life through the lens of Black queer identity. Dear Black Gay Men emerged as Jai’s love letter to every hopeful single who yearns for genuine connection and understanding. Jai amplifies the voices and experiences of Black gay men through raw, authentic content and conversations free from taboo, and his national platform has become a trusted space where no topic is off-limits, fostering open discussions on everything from love and relationships to mental health, identity, and self-empowerment.Connect With Jai The Gentleman
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Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk Community Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies
307: How Gay Camping Helps You Overcome Social Anxiety & Embracing Mistakes – Upton Rand
40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.
12/13/24 • 37 min
- How he overcame social anxiety and found his way back to living boldly.
- The powerful lesson he's learned about embracing mistakes and turning them into growth.
- How he developed a "step through and keep going" mentality that keeps him moving forward, no matter what.
Tune in for a dose of inspiration, laughter, and practical advice to take on life with confidence!
About Upton
Upton Rand is an adventurer, storyteller, and the author of “Gay Campgrounds: The Ultimate Gay Camping Travel Guide.” Blending humor with heartfelt experiences, Upton’s book is part travel guide, part hilarious memoir, capturing the wild and wonderful world of gay camping. He shares misadventures that range from wrestling uncooperative tents to witnessing drag queens having dance-offs with confused deer, all while providing valuable insights into the LGBTQ+ camping community. A passionate advocate for health and wellness, Upton is committed to promoting safe and informed experiences within the community. He’s a strong supporter of PrEP and the U=U movement (Undetectable = Untransmittable), breaking down important research in an accessible and entertaining way within his book. Additionally, a portion of his book sales is donated to the Cleveland AIDS Task Force, reflecting his dedication to giving back. Whether he’s encouraging a generation to step away from dating apps and reconnect face-to-face or sharing laughter-filled anecdotes from his journeys, Upton brings warmth, humor, and inspiration to every conversation.Connect With Upton
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Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk Community Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies
190: The New Masculine For Gay Men – Travis Stock
40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.
09/16/22 • 43 min
About Travis
Travis helps you find what creates balance in your life by first seeking acceptance of what is. He helps you connect to your truth in the moment, so that it becomes clearer how to be in alignment with your personal, professional, and relationship goals. He doesn't claim to know all the answers, nor do he feel fit to give you advice for your life. But that is directly in line with his coaching philosophy: You actually have all the answers! Don't trust that? Good, he likes the challenge of connecting you to your own wisdom! One of his favorite areas to explore is the balance between masculine and feminine energies in each of us, regardless of gender, and he believes in the importance of nurturing a relationship with both types of energy to create a sense of wholeness. Some other areas he is fascinated by include emotions, the LGBT community, transformation of trauma and shame, interpersonal relationships, the divine masculine, and living open-heartedly.Connect With Travis
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Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus Men's Circle. Learn about about - Click Here! Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies P.S. get your free My Bold Life Manifesto, right here - rickclemons.com/manifesto/You can also listen to the podcast on...

Making Multigenerational Work Environments Work - Adam Lippin
40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.
10/25/19 • 19 min
Imagine you own a business, or for that matter work in a business, and you are the oldest guy in the group. You try to figure out how to relate to the Gen Z's and Millennials but it is a constant struggle. And, while that's all happening, you want to learn from them and want them to learn from you, but man that generational gap can be really a challenge. So what's a guy to do?
Startup founder of the HearMe.app, Adam Lippin works with a team of 19-25 yr old's where he feels challenged to check his own insecurities of being over 50 and and a "tech leader" in an industry that worships young entrepreneurs. How do he face it with bravery and curiosity? What can he learn, be open to, and what does he just need to accept in the face of ageism (real or perceived)? We explore all of this today.
About Adam
Adam believe deeply in the transformative power of authentic communication. He has founderd and is the CEO of two emotional wellnescompanies that directly address this. Hearme.app and Cuddlist.com
Hearme.app gives you instant access to confidential trained Listeners who can help you work through your problems, get unstuck, share your feelings or just renew your faith in humanity. Get a real connection and someone to talk/text/video chat with just when you need it.
Cuddlist: We are the leader in the emerging field of Trust Based TouchTM in the Health Care/Wellness field. Cuddlist has been featured in Forbes, NY Times, Fox News, Cheddar, Washington Post among hundreds of publications.
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Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies
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198: Up Your Cocksmanship – Susan Bratton
40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.
11/11/22 • 58 min
About Susan
Susan Bratton "Intimacy Expert to Millions" is a champion and advocate for all those who desire intimacy and passion their whole life long. She is co-founder and CEO of two corporations: Personal Life Media, Inc., a publisher of heart-connected lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills and The20, LLC., a manufacturer of organic and botanical supplements that enhance sexual vitality. A best-selling author and publisher of 34 books and programs including Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, Ravish Him, Steamy Sex Ed, The Passion Patch, Hormone Balancing, and Hot To Trot. Susan has been featured in the New York Times and on CNBC and the TODAY Show. She makes frequent appearances on ABC, CBS, The CW, Fox and NBC.Connect With Susan
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Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies P.S. get your free My Bold Life Manifesto, right here - rickclemons.com/manifesto/You can also listen to the podcast on...

299: How to move from apathy, empathy, and Into action – Darren Calhoun
40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.
10/18/24 • 42 min
- We explore apathy and empathy and how to become more of the latter
- Learn how to utilize the pause in all situations
- Uncover the means for seeing each other as gay men for who we truly are
About Darren
Darren Calhoun (he/him) is a justice advocate, worship leader, and artist based out of Chicago. He works to bridge connections between people of differing perspectives through story and relationship. Darren brings with him an intentional focus on communities being inclusive as an authentic reflection of God’s love and justice. Lastly, Darren is a neurodivergent extrovert who loves hugs.
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Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk Community Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies
192: Combating “Button Pushing” Syndrome – Rick Clemons
40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.
09/30/22 • 10 min
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081: Why your mindset makes the day, every day of your life – Tomi Dagan
40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.
07/10/20 • 34 min
Mindset, mindset, mindset. It seems to be all we hear about these days. So it's either a crock of crap, or a load of wisdom. The latter seems to be more spot on for us guys over 40. With the pressures of work, health, family life or being single, and the drive to be successful, it's our mindset that can either make or break us.
Coach Tomi Dagan joins me today to explore why men don't allow shifting their mindset to be a key critical factor when the crap of life gets in their way. You'll learn two critical questions to ask yourself to help shift the shit of life. And, trust us when we say, this wisdom will only come to you when you are ready to receive it.
About Tomi
Tomi is a result-oriented coach who brings compassion, patience, and lots of support! His clients experience impactful change, feel more confident, energized, and motivated to overcome hardships they are dealing with. His clients break old habits, adopt new forward-leading behaviors, improve confidence and self-efficacy, and get EXCITED about life again!
UC Berkeley Alumni -Trained and Certified Coach ICF, ILCC. Tomi has worked with hundreds of clients from all over the world. He loves people and is eager to help as many people as he can to live a happier more exciting life!
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Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.
Join the 40 Plus Men's Chat's. Learn about about - Click Here!
Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies
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221: Wil Fisher – Embracing your deeper self as a gay man
40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.
04/21/23 • 39 min
About Wil
Wil Fisher is best known as the host of the “Queerly Beloved” podcast, and as the founder of his life coaching business, WillFully Living. Currently residing in sunny San Diego, Wil offers healing and transformation work through one-on-one coaching, classes, and in-person retreats. Prior to his time is San Diego, Wil lived on the east coast where he received his MA in applied theater from City University of New York, and founded a company called Man Question, which offers theater-based facilitation to help folks explore their relationship to masculinity and manhood. He presented this work to a range of audiences from college universities to men at a maximum-security prison. His final acts before leaving the east coast included serving as the Executive Director of Easton Mountain, an LGBTQ Spiritual Retreat Center, and performing his solo show, "Of and On Again" a story about his relationship with gender and his drag alter ego.Heart Live Retreat
Hearts Live! A retreat for GBTQ men on August 11-14th in California. Hearts Alive is a retreat for like-minded GBTQ men to come together, away from their default worlds, to reflect on their lives, connect with their hearts, do some powerful transformational work and boldly step into a more expressed and authentic version of themselves. We’ll look at the areas of our lives where we aren’t showing up in the most aligned ways and we’ll discover strategies to shift that. Our time together will be nourishing and joyful as we playfully grow connections with each other and form loving, heart-centered community.Connect With Wil
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Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies P.S. get your free My Bold Life Manifesto, right here - rickclemons.com/manifesto/You can also listen to the podcast on...
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How many episodes does 40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. have?
40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. currently has 325 episodes available.
What topics does 40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. cover?
The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Podcasts and Sexuality.
What is the most popular episode on 40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.?
The episode title '310: Overcoming Trauma with Mindfulness – Dr. Jason Durant' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on 40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.?
The average episode length on 40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. is 28 minutes.
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Episodes of 40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. are typically released every 7 days.
When was the first episode of 40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.?
The first episode of 40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. was released on May 15, 2019.
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