57-Resilience and High-Conflict Co-Parenting: Marisol's Journey Through Adversity
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02/26/25 • 35 min
Navigating the stormy seas of high-conflict co-parenting is no easy feat, and today I have Marisol sharing her compelling journey. Imagine juggling not one, but two custody and child support cases, all while facing the emotional upheaval of multiple court hearings and even bankruptcy. Marisol's story is a testament to resilience, offering listeners a raw glimpse into the challenges of dealing with high-conflict co-parents and the emotional toll such situations take on both parents and children.
Our conversation takes a deep dive into the heart-wrenching realities of domestic violence and its impact on custody arrangements, especially during sensitive times like holidays. Marisol opens up about the struggle to prioritize her children's needs over lingering resentment, a challenge many in similar situations will resonate with. We explore the often toxic dynamics where manipulation and abuse make cooperation seem impossible, and Marisol bravely discusses personal experiences of verbal abuse and stigma, highlighting the emotional distress it caused for her children.
We wrap up with empowering strategies for co-parents to focus on their children's futures amidst adversity. Marisol shares invaluable insights on navigating these difficult dynamics, emphasizing the importance of strategic decision-making to create a nurturing environment. Join us for this eye-opening episode as we uncover ways to safeguard relationships with children, offering hope and guidance for those tackling the complexities of high-conflict co-parenting.
Marisol's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marisolvasquez
Marisol's 1in3 profile: https://www.1in3podcast.com/guests/marisol-vasquez-ms/
https://marisolvasquezofficial.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/marisolvasquezofficial/
https://www.instagram.com/marisolvasquezofficial/
https://www.facebook.com/groups/empoweredmomscircle
1 in 3 is intended for mature audiences. Episodes contain explicit content and may be triggering to some.
If you are in the United States and need help right now, call the national domestic violence hotline at 800-799-7233 or text the word “start” to 88788.
Contact 1 in 3:
- Send your emails to [email protected]
- Follow on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok @1in3podcast
- Check out the website https://www.1in3podcast.com/
Thank you for listening and please remember to rate, review & subscribe!
Cover art by Laura Swift Dahlke
Music by Tim Crowe
Navigating the stormy seas of high-conflict co-parenting is no easy feat, and today I have Marisol sharing her compelling journey. Imagine juggling not one, but two custody and child support cases, all while facing the emotional upheaval of multiple court hearings and even bankruptcy. Marisol's story is a testament to resilience, offering listeners a raw glimpse into the challenges of dealing with high-conflict co-parents and the emotional toll such situations take on both parents and children.
Our conversation takes a deep dive into the heart-wrenching realities of domestic violence and its impact on custody arrangements, especially during sensitive times like holidays. Marisol opens up about the struggle to prioritize her children's needs over lingering resentment, a challenge many in similar situations will resonate with. We explore the often toxic dynamics where manipulation and abuse make cooperation seem impossible, and Marisol bravely discusses personal experiences of verbal abuse and stigma, highlighting the emotional distress it caused for her children.
We wrap up with empowering strategies for co-parents to focus on their children's futures amidst adversity. Marisol shares invaluable insights on navigating these difficult dynamics, emphasizing the importance of strategic decision-making to create a nurturing environment. Join us for this eye-opening episode as we uncover ways to safeguard relationships with children, offering hope and guidance for those tackling the complexities of high-conflict co-parenting.
Marisol's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marisolvasquez
Marisol's 1in3 profile: https://www.1in3podcast.com/guests/marisol-vasquez-ms/
https://marisolvasquezofficial.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/marisolvasquezofficial/
https://www.instagram.com/marisolvasquezofficial/
https://www.facebook.com/groups/empoweredmomscircle
1 in 3 is intended for mature audiences. Episodes contain explicit content and may be triggering to some.
If you are in the United States and need help right now, call the national domestic violence hotline at 800-799-7233 or text the word “start” to 88788.
Contact 1 in 3:
- Send your emails to [email protected]
- Follow on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok @1in3podcast
- Check out the website https://www.1in3podcast.com/
Thank you for listening and please remember to rate, review & subscribe!
Cover art by Laura Swift Dahlke
Music by Tim Crowe
Previous Episode
56-Domestic Violence in Indian Marriages: Dr. Anisha's Journey and Insights
What if cultural traditions are quietly trapping victims in cycles of abuse? Join us as Dr. Anisha returns to "1 in 3" with a profound exploration of Indian marriage dynamics and their influence on domestic violence. Drawing from her personal experiences and her book, "The Power to Break Free: Surviving Domestic Violence, With a Special Reference to Abuse in Indian Marriages," Dr. Anisha sheds light on the pressures women face within arranged, introduced, and love marriages, and the cultural expectations that can complicate their escape from abusive relationships. Her insights provide a compelling look at the silent battles victims endure and the need for increased awareness and understanding.
Navigate the complex realities of intergenerational households, where victims often find themselves isolated in environments resistant to outside intervention. Dr. Anisha bravely shares her own journey through an abusive marriage, highlighting the struggle to seek help in a setting where family dynamics can either ignore or inadvertently support the abuser. This episode underscores the critical importance of a supportive network and how resources like journaling and pivotal literature have empowered survivors to recognize and break free from detrimental patterns of behavior.
Discover the challenges faced by domestic violence survivors, particularly those from Indian backgrounds in America, as they navigate inadequate support systems. We address the pressing need for culturally sensitive approaches within both mainstream and specialized domestic violence organizations. Through Dr. Anisha's stories of unexpected community support and the stigmas surrounding domestic abuse, we emphasize the power of listening and believing victims. By creating dialogues about healthy relationships, we aim to foster a community that empowers individuals to overcome abuse and build a future of hope.
1in3 guest profile: https://www.1in3podcast.com/guests/anisha-durve/
Nonprofit Website: https://www.power2breakfree.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/power2breakfree/
Nonprofit YouTube: https://youtube.com/@powertobreakfree
Book: https://a.co/d/iLcP73R
Workbook: https://a.co/d/8d3kjaM
Anisha's Meditation App: https://www.picosuite.com/app/bliss
Anisha's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anishadurve/
1 in 3 is intended for mature audiences. Episodes contain explicit content and may be triggering to some.
If you are in the United States and need help right now, call the national domestic violence hotline at 800-799-7233 or text the word “start” to 88788.
Contact 1 in 3:
- Send your emails to [email protected]
- Follow on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok @1in3podcast
- Check out the website https://www.1in3podcast.com/
Thank you for listening and please remember to rate, review & subscribe!
Cover art by Laura Swift Dahlke
Music by Tim Crowe
Next Episode
58-Navigating High-Conflict Co-Parenting With Marisol Vasquez: Tips for Success
Discover the art of thriving amidst the challenges of high-conflict co-parenting in this engaging episode featuring insights from Marisol, a co-parenting coach with firsthand experience. Uncover practical strategies for maintaining your identity as a parent while ensuring your kids have a balanced relationship with both parents. We delve into the importance of stepping back and letting kids navigate their time with their other parent, alongside the emotional hurdles that come with independence.
As we explore the fine line between emotional support and parental roles, Marisol encourages parents to prioritize self-worth and re-engage with their interests outside motherhood. Communicating effectively with an ex-partner is another essential aspect we cover, introducing techniques to reduce emotional upheaval during difficult discussions.
Finding a supportive community during these tough times can make all the difference; Marisol shares details about resources that uplift and empower single parents. Tune in to learn how to not just survive but flourish as a co-parent, reinforcing the message that you are not alone on this journey. Together, we can foster healthier relationships and, ultimately, a better environment for the children we love.
Marisol's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marisolvasquez
Marisol's 1in3 profile: https://www.1in3podcast.com/guests/marisol-vasquez-ms/
https://marisolvasquezofficial.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/marisolvasquezofficial/
https://www.instagram.com/marisolvasquezofficial/
https://www.facebook.com/groups/empoweredmomscircle
1 in 3 is intended for mature audiences. Episodes contain explicit content and may be triggering to some.
If you are in the United States and need help right now, call the national domestic violence hotline at 800-799-7233 or text the word “start” to 88788.
Contact 1 in 3:
- Send your emails to [email protected]
- Follow on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok @1in3podcast
- Check out the website https://www.1in3podcast.com/
Thank you for listening and please remember to rate, review & subscribe!
Cover art by Laura Swift Dahlke
Music by Tim Crowe
1 in 3 - 57-Resilience and High-Conflict Co-Parenting: Marisol's Journey Through Adversity
Transcript
Hey Marisol . Thank you so much for joining me today . I'm happy to be here . You have a strong social media presence on co-parenting , and high-conflict co-parenting specifically . So before we get into all the details of that , do you mind just giving a background on how you got started into that ?
Speaker 2So I got started because of my own
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