The Power Of Choosing Yourself

12/21/20 • 18 min

A lot of the time, we can hold ourselves back in our style, business and life, because we often worry about seeking the approval of others.

The little girl inside of us is often making sure we “fit in” and are loved and accepted by our peers – so often time that can come in the form of self sabotage in making sure that our aesthetic, tastes and desire don’t seem ‘too far out there’ to others.

This is something that comes up a lot in my classes. Women share with me that their partners, friends, or family have made comments about what they wear – and instantly go from a high energy, feel good place, to one of disappointment and vulnerable.

I’m going to talk about how to embrace getting dressed for yourself and why it’s important you choose yourself over others in style (and life).

You will feel powerful when you magnify your essence in your clothing.
It’s okay that your style isn’t like everyone else’s – that’s what style is all about. Remember that. People commenting doesn’t mean anything about YOU – it’s about them. Hubby is different than me
It’s okay to set-up boundaries and tell people it’s not okay to comment. This increases you feeling empowered and embracing YOU.

Join me on Instagram @ChristieRessel, YouTube, or Facebook.

Welcome to Rise Through Style; a podcast for women stepping into their next-level selves by styling their lives, businesses, bodies, and closets. I’m Christie Ressel, image consultant, CEO, and media style expert. I help women embrace their bodies, take ownership of their desires, and create an authentic style that represents who they are. I’m here to provide you with guidance and inspiration to help you rise to your highest and best through style.

A lot of the time, we can hold ourselves back in our style, business and life, because we often worry about seeking the approval of others.

I’m going to talk about how to embrace getting dressed for yourself and why it’s important you choose yourself over others in style (and life).

You will feel powerful when you magnify your essence in your clothing.
It’s okay that your style isn’t like everyone else’s – that’s what style is all about. Remember that. People commenting doesn’t mean anything about YOU – it’s about them. Hubby is different than me
It’s okay to set-up boundaries and tell people it’s not okay to comment. This increases you feeling empowered and embracing YOU.

Join me on Instagram @ChristieRessel, YouTube, or Facebook.

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How to Show Up For Yourself When You Don't Feel Like it

Ever had a low-vibe day where your to-do list runs a mile long but all you want to-do is curl-up in a ball and watch Netflix? Sometimes they can stretch for days and then we're suddenly feeling even worse because we're mentally beating ourselves up for being lazy, not getting things done, and creating an even larger to-do list. Totally been there.

However, it's on these days that I think it's essential to show up twice as powerfully for ourselves. Really. Today, we're talking about showing up for yourself, even when you don't feel like it.

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Prepping for New Year Magic

We’re approaching the New Year, which is so exciting! The journal junkie in me is beyond pumped to write out more goals, aspirations, and visions for the New Year.

But, I also like to take time and reflect on the year past and ask myself what worked and what didn’t. I like to be mindful of where my successes were, but also where I could have improved, and what I need to let go of.

Now, of course, you can do this anytime, it doesn’t have to be the NY, but there’s something about the new year that brings this magical, fresh energy, and I’m here for it.

Grab a piece of paper and pen, because I’m going to give you some journaling prompts that I think are powerful to consider as we approach our New Year.

What was I proud of this year?
What was I disappointed with (as our disappointment can highlight areas for growth)?
What do I want more of in my life?
What will help me move into my next phase powerfully?
What did I love wearing this year? How did it make me feel
What made me feel less then? How did it make me feel?
What energy do I want to embody in my style and life for the new year?

Now, I through those closet questions in because I think a cleansing of sorts is really powerful to go through.. You always hear about the spring/fall closet clean-outs, but what about an energetic clearing of what you’re leaving behind? Our clothing is a physical representation of where we’re at and I think it’s incredible powerful to shed what no longer serves us.

And no matter where you are in your journey, no matter what road blocks you’ve encountered, where your style is at, remember – you get to refresh at any time. You always get to decide your vibe and re-calibrate to your desires as often as you like.

If you need any help with this, my Rise Through Style Society is available where we have live monthly trainings, Q&A’s, 3 programs for you to watch and absorb anytime you want to up-level your style and access to all of my past trainings as well.

Wishing you all of the love, success, happiness and abundance for 2021.

Join me on Instagram @ChristieRessel, YouTube, or Facebook.