15. From Stressed to Blessed in a Christian Home with Tessa Weenink

09/05/24 • 55 min

Veil + Armour: Holiness in Motherhood and Daily Life

From Stressed to Blessed with Christian Homemaking Expert Tessa Weenink

How can integrating chores and cheerfulness transform your home life? This episode of Veil and Armour features Tessa Weenink from Aimed at the Heart, a homeschooling mother of six children, a dairy farmer and a Christian life coach who empowers mothers through faith-filled strategies. Tessa shares her remarkable transition from finance to motherhood, emphasizing the importance of daily routines that blend responsibility with Christian joy and purpose. Learn her invaluable tips for setting up effective systems at home and preventing burnout, all while letting Jesus' love guide your journey.
This interview was recorded on May 9, 2024, the time of "May-cember:" the busyness of the end of the school year. This busyness is also seen now as we return to back-to-school mode in September! Many lessons to be learned from Tessa, including the 3 C's: Chores and Cheerfulness in a Christian Home.

Key Takeaways

Incorporating Christ into the homemaking routine involves recognizing the home as a gift from God and serving others with love and gratitude.
Creating a family culture of teamwork and harmony is essential for a well-functioning home.
Teaching children homemaking skills builds their confidence and prepares them for independent living.
The Morning High Five routine: Free resource: https://products.aimedattheheart.com/highfive
Tessa offers a homemaking course and life coaching to support moms in creating systems and habits for a well-managed home.
Keeping toys out of children's bedrooms helps promote better sleep and prevents them from hiding out in their rooms all day.
Devices should be kept in public areas of the home

00:00:19 Empowering Christian Mothers Through Life Coaching

00:08:49 From Dairy Farming to Homemaking Systems

00:19:16 Teaching Kids Household Skills

00:29:39 "Tessa's Morning High Five" and Tessa's Guide to Homemaking

00:37:27 Household Organization and Parenting Strategies

00:41:52 Teach Kids Household Skills, Spring Cleaning

00:54:51 Exploring the Feminine Genius on the next episode
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From Stressed to Blessed with Christian Homemaking Expert Tessa Weenink

Key Takeaways

Incorporating Christ into the homemaking routine involves recognizing the home as a gift from God and serving others with love and gratitude.
Creating a family culture of teamwork and harmony is essential for a well-functioning home.
Teaching children homemaking skills builds their confidence and prepares them for independent living.
The Morning High Five routine: Free resource: https://products.aimedattheheart.com/highfive
Tessa offers a homemaking course and life coaching to support moms in creating systems and habits for a well-managed home.
Keeping toys out of children's bedrooms helps promote better sleep and prevents them from hiding out in their rooms all day.
Devices should be kept in public areas of the home

00:00:19 Empowering Christian Mothers Through Life Coaching

00:08:49 From Dairy Farming to Homemaking Systems

00:19:16 Teaching Kids Household Skills

00:29:39 "Tessa's Morning High Five" and Tessa's Guide to Homemaking

00:37:27 Household Organization and Parenting Strategies

00:41:52 Teach Kids Household Skills, Spring Cleaning

00:54:51 Exploring the Feminine Genius on the next episode
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14. Josh and Lisa Canning: An Adventure of Faith with our 10 children

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Summary for Episode 14: Josh and Lisa Canning: An Adventure of Faith with our 10 children
What if you could navigate the complexities of marriage, family, and faith with wisdom and grace? Join us on the Veil and Armour podcast as we welcome Lisa and Josh Canning, Catholic parents of 10 children, who share their remarkable journey from a serendipitous meeting at a diocesan Catholic youth event to becoming pillars in their community. Their story is one of faith, love, and dedication, offering deep insights into supporting couples through mental health challenges and guiding their ten children toward Christ.
From campus ministry at York University to starring in the HGTV Canada television show "Marriage Under Construction," both Lisa and Josh's professional growth is as fascinating as it is inspiring. Hear about the story of their surprising Valentine's Day proposal during the Rosary, and the joys and trials of their 16-year marriage. Lisa opens up about her unexpected career in television and her role as a coach and business mentor, as "The Possibility Mom," balancing a large family and a career centred upon faith and family. The Cannings’ reflections on trust, gratitude, and nurturing faith within the family are both practical and heartfelt.
Discover the delicate balance of parenting within the Catholic faith, especially when dealing with mental illness in marriage. We delve into the importance of living in a state of grace and fostering genuine relationships with faith. The Cannings share their wisdom on creating a life of margin for what truly matters and offer advice on nurturing future leaders and saints through intentional family practices. Don't miss this enriching conversation that blends insights on faith, love, career, and family life.

Lisa and Josh also highlight the importance of creating margin and space for the important things in life, such as daily Mass and prayer. The Cannings share their approach to teaching their children about faith and the importance of modelling a joyful outlook and a resilient spirit in the face of challenges. They also discuss their ministry, "Persevere Together," on the Locals website which offers support and practical advice for couples navigating mental illness in their marriage and family.

Keywords
marriage, family life, TV show, career, communication, shared vision, values, well-being, faith, trust, resilience, family life, God's plan, margin, space, daily Mass, prayer, teaching children, joyful outlook, mental illness, Persevere Together

Chapter Markers

0:04. Stories of Faith and Family
8:13 Journey From Campus to TV
12:21 Navigating Marriage and Family Balance
24:52 Living With Trust and Gratitude
33:06 Nurturing Faith in Family Life
43:40 Navigating Mental Illness in Marriage
57:38 Gratitude for Family and Blessings

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16. Resilience and Faith: Rachel Wong on Christian Discernment, Mental Health and The Feminine Genius

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What happens when resilience meets faith in the face of life’s trials? This week on Veil and Armour, we welcome pioneering Feminine Genius podcaster Rachel Wong from Vancouver, B.C., Canada. Rachel shares her remarkable journey as the founder of The Feminine Genius Podcast, which she hosted from 2019 to 2022. It was a podcast that celebrated the myriad expressions of Catholic femininity. She opens up about her mental health struggles and how her unwavering faith provided guidance during tough times. Rachel also reflects on her transformative experience at World Youth Day in Panama and the lasting impact it had on her spiritual and professional endeavours, and God's calling in her life.
Have you ever felt paralyzed by the fear of making life’s big decisions? Our discussion delves into the common struggle of discerning our vocation, both within religious life and beyond. Rachel revisits her experience discerning with the Daughters of St. Paul, while Sheila shares her "Come and See" experience with the Missionaries of Charity. Together, we explore the importance of taking steps in faith, the courage to embrace the unknown, and the continuous process of spiritual growth. Rachel recalls how she learned from each and every guest on her show, each contributing to the rich dialogue of faith and the Feminine Genius.
Our conversation also touches upon the growing acceptance of conversations surrounding mental health, especially within the Catholic community. The episode also touches upon the importance of fostering a supportive and inclusive community through digital media. Join us as we continue our mission of connecting and uplifting through the power of shared stories and faith.
For resources on mental health in Canada, please seek advice and help from your doctor and local health professional in your area/city/country.
In Canada, Kids Help Phone for children and teens is available: Text 686868 (free and across Canada, based upon information found online on Sept. 11, 2024) https://www.kidshelpphone.ca
As of Sept. 11 2024, YouTube recommends this link of resources:
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Veil + Armour: Holiness in Motherhood and Daily Life - 15. From Stressed to Blessed in a Christian Home with Tessa Weenink

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Sheila Nonato00:00:19.913

Hello and Welcome to the Veil + Armour podcast . This is your host, Sheila Nonato . I'm a stay-at-home mom and a freelance Catholic journalist . Seeking the guidance of the Holy Spirit, I strive to tell stories that inspire, illminate and enrich the lives of Catholic women , to help them in living out our vocation of raising the next generation of leaders and saints .