
23: Pain, Sacrifice, and Our New Status Symbols
08/28/23 • 35 min
Brands get lucky once, maybe twice every generation, when the rules of status change and social equity is suddenly up for grabs. Our Concept Bureau Senior Strategist Zach Lamb believes we are in the midst of one of those rare shifts right now, where we are moving from the self-indulgence of conspicuous consumption to the self-denial of what he calls “conspicuous commitment”.
Public figures are devoting themselves to difficult new modalities, diets, spiritual quests, life practices and ideologies. Your friends are going on arduous, painful, yet revelatory, psychedelic retreats. All around us, wellness brands, food brands, medical brands, lifestyle brands tell us that self-denial is the new flex.
No longer are we obsessed with flaunting material possessions and extravagant experiences; instead, we're witnessing the rise of people showcasing their unwavering dedication to self-work, vulnerability and personal growth.
In a time when nihilism is literally everywhere, when pessimism gets clicks on headlines, when post-capitalist hopelessness is a trending aesthetic on TikTok and every meme deals in absurdity, conspicuous commitment stands out.
In this episode, we also speak with W. David Marx, author of “Status and Culture: How Our Desire for Social Rank Creates Taste, Identity, Art, Fashion, and Constant Change” who has an alternative view of how status is tied to money more than ever, and what that means for an increasingly flattening culture.
If you deal in any premium or luxury category, this is a must-listen. The ways we seek to distinguish ourselves have dramatically evolved as we prioritize discipline and personal growth over material success.
That means everyone has to play by new rules.
Links to interesting things mentioned in this episode and further reading:
- Conspicuous Commitment Is the Next Era Of Status (Concept Bureau)
- Status and Culture: How Our Desire for Social Rank Creates Taste, Identity, Art, Fashion, and Constant Change by W. David Marx (Amazon)
- Money Can’t Buy Happiness. It Can’t Even Buy Status, a New Book Says. (New York Times)
- ‘The Most Measured Man in Human History’ (Vice)
- High Fidelity Society is Reorganizing the World (Concept Bureau)
- Why the Past 10 Years of American Life Have Been Uniquely Stupid by Jonathan Haidt (The Atlantic)
- Brokenism (Tablet)
- Futurist Predicts Humans Will Achieve Immortality By 2030 (IFLScience)
- How to Change Your Mind: What the New Science of Psychedelics Teaches Us About Consciousness, Dying, Addiction, Depression, and Transcendence by Michael Pollan (Amazon)
Check out our website for more brand strategy thinking, and come connect with us on Instagram and LinkedIn.
Brands get lucky once, maybe twice every generation, when the rules of status change and social equity is suddenly up for grabs. Our Concept Bureau Senior Strategist Zach Lamb believes we are in the midst of one of those rare shifts right now, where we are moving from the self-indulgence of conspicuous consumption to the self-denial of what he calls “conspicuous commitment”.
Public figures are devoting themselves to difficult new modalities, diets, spiritual quests, life practices and ideologies. Your friends are going on arduous, painful, yet revelatory, psychedelic retreats. All around us, wellness brands, food brands, medical brands, lifestyle brands tell us that self-denial is the new flex.
No longer are we obsessed with flaunting material possessions and extravagant experiences; instead, we're witnessing the rise of people showcasing their unwavering dedication to self-work, vulnerability and personal growth.
In a time when nihilism is literally everywhere, when pessimism gets clicks on headlines, when post-capitalist hopelessness is a trending aesthetic on TikTok and every meme deals in absurdity, conspicuous commitment stands out.
In this episode, we also speak with W. David Marx, author of “Status and Culture: How Our Desire for Social Rank Creates Taste, Identity, Art, Fashion, and Constant Change” who has an alternative view of how status is tied to money more than ever, and what that means for an increasingly flattening culture.
If you deal in any premium or luxury category, this is a must-listen. The ways we seek to distinguish ourselves have dramatically evolved as we prioritize discipline and personal growth over material success.
That means everyone has to play by new rules.
Links to interesting things mentioned in this episode and further reading:
- Conspicuous Commitment Is the Next Era Of Status (Concept Bureau)
- Status and Culture: How Our Desire for Social Rank Creates Taste, Identity, Art, Fashion, and Constant Change by W. David Marx (Amazon)
- Money Can’t Buy Happiness. It Can’t Even Buy Status, a New Book Says. (New York Times)
- ‘The Most Measured Man in Human History’ (Vice)
- High Fidelity Society is Reorganizing the World (Concept Bureau)
- Why the Past 10 Years of American Life Have Been Uniquely Stupid by Jonathan Haidt (The Atlantic)
- Brokenism (Tablet)
- Futurist Predicts Humans Will Achieve Immortality By 2030 (IFLScience)
- How to Change Your Mind: What the New Science of Psychedelics Teaches Us About Consciousness, Dying, Addiction, Depression, and Transcendence by Michael Pollan (Amazon)
Check out our website for more brand strategy thinking, and come connect with us on Instagram and LinkedIn.
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22: Strong Ties vs. Weak Ties in the Next Era of Brand Innovation
What happens when the world suddenly reconfigures itself around a very different kind of relationship? The last 20 years of social innovation has leaned into weak ties: distant social relationships that allowed us to trust and extract value on platforms like Yelp, LinkedIn and Facebook. But the next 20 years are already shaping up to look very different.
Strong social ties, our close-knit relationships with frequent interactions, are starting to emerge as the dominant threads of the social fabric. In this new era of increased intimacy with our immediate network, what we value and what we create move in a markedly new direction. We co-buy homes with friends, form politically aligned living communities, go deep into conversational chambers and band together in vision-led DAOs.
The way we relate to one another is more profound, but also more narrow. What we demand of our network communities, and the brand landscape in general, becomes more high stakes.
In this house episode, we’re talking to Concept Bureau’s Chief Strategist Jean-Louis Rawlence, about the huge implications for tech innovation, community building and business. When strong ties become the future of community, community becomes the new brand.
Links to interesting things mentioned in this episode and further reading:
- Why the Past 10 Years of American Life Have Been Uniquely Stupid (The Atlantic)
- We Went to Anti-Vax Burning Man (VICE News)
- Friends are buying homes together. Here's why. (NBC News)
- The New Get-Rich-Faster Job in Silicon Valley: Crypto Start-Ups (New York Times)
- Community ≠ Marketing: Why We Need Go-to-Community, Not Just Go-to-Market (Future, a16z)
- Shareholder Democracy Is Getting Bigger Trial Runs (New York Times)
- The Community Garden: The Case for Leaving FAANG Companies for Crypto (Paradigm)
- Crypto millionaires are pouring money into Central America to build their own cities (MIT Technology Review)
- The Town That Went Feral (The New Republic)
- Meet Moxie, a Social Robot That Helps Kids With Social-Emotional Learning (IEEE Spectrum)
Check out our website for more brand strategy thinking, and come connect with us on Twitter, Instagram and LinkedIn.
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24: How to Unlock Your Strategic Mind
What does it mean to be good at thinking? Or more importantly, thinking strategically?
Most people answer this question by saying that in order to be good at thinking, you have to be knowledgeable. And while knowledge is certainly a critical input for good thinking, it’s just an input. It’s not the actual practice of being able to think well.
Good strategic thinking is the culmination of mental processes that enable us to analyze, reason, solve problems, make decisions, and generate creative ideas in an efficient manner.
In other words, it’s a skill. But we don’t treat it as one.
It’s something we can get better at and refine, a muscle that we can strengthen, and yet outside of our daily work, we do very little to develop that muscle. And it’s a special muscle, because thinking strategically demands that we employ all kinds of cognitive abilities at once.
In this house episode of Unseen Unknown, Jasmine and Jean-Louis break down his steps for how to think strategically, and to keep getting better and better at it.
Don’t take your ability to think strategically for granted. Many of us only do a fraction of what is possible with our minds, but there is a lot more power available to us when we start to cultivate our thinking skills.
Links to interesting things mentioned in this episode and further reading:
- The issue at Houston Airport — Occupied time & design. (Caus)
- Episode 369: Wait Wait...Tell Me! (99% Invisible Podcast)
- The Truth Behind Japan’s “Seven Minute Miracle” (BBN Times)
- Episode 130: Diana Chapman: Trusting Your Instincts (The Knowledge Project Podcast)
- Known knowns, known unknowns, unknown unknowns & Leadership (Andrea Mantovani on Medium)
- Conspicuous Commitment Is The Next Era Of Status (Concept Bureau)
Check out our website for more brand strategy thinking, and come connect with us on Twitter, Instagram and LinkedIn.
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