Is Work-Life Balance a Myth? Redefining Success, Purpose, and Parenthood with Dr. Rana Taji

06/18/24 • 35 min

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Uncover Your Eyes: The Truth About Health & Wellness

In this inspiring episode of Uncover Your Eyes, Dr. Meenal Agarwal speaks with powerhouse optometrist and entrepreneur Dr. Rana Taji about what work-life balance really means—and why it might not exist in the way we've been told. Dr. Taji shares her journey of building a thriving eye care practice while raising a family, making career shifts in her 40s, and finally embracing a definition of success rooted in authenticity, purpose, and self-care. From shifting timelines to redefining midlife crises, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating career, parenthood, and the pressure to “do it all.”

Key Timestamps:

(00:00) Self-care is not selfish: why Dr. Taji cares for herself for her kids' sake
(01:00) The new career timeline: Why your 40s and 50s may be your most fulfilling years
(02:19) Dr. Taji’s origin story: How a compassionate optometrist inspired her career at age 12
(04:00) Redefining timelines and letting go of early-career pressure
(06:30) Raising kids, outsourcing help, and rebuilding a “village” to support your ambitions
(09:00) Success redefined: It’s not about titles or money, it’s about loving your work
(12:00) Midlife reflection: A crisis or a powerful period of wisdom and growth?
(16:30) Is balance even real? Why something always has to give—and that’s okay
(20:00) Letting go of unrealistic standards, comparison traps, and household perfection
(22:30) Social media vs. reality: Why others' timelines don’t define your success
(24:00) It’s never too late: Stories of people chasing dreams in their 40s and 50s
(27:00) Authenticity over approval: Reclaiming your identity and purpose
(30:00) The power of goals, self-compassion, and small steps toward fulfillment
(32:00) Why Dr. Taji credits her “dream team” for helping her thrive personally and professionally
(34:00) Final thoughts and where to find Dr. Taji online and in-person

Key Takeaways:

Work-life balance isn’t perfect—and that’s okay. Something always gives, but that doesn’t mean you’re failing.
Your 40s are a time for reinvention. With life experience and freedom from early-career pressure, they’re ideal for passion projects and purpose-driven work.
Authenticity wins. Success is not about doing what looks good—it's about doing what feels right and meaningful to you.
Comparison kills clarity. Don’t base your goals on someone else’s highlight reel. Define success for yourself.
You’re never too late. Whether you’re 30, 50, or 60—ambition, curiosity, and passion are always in style.

Resources & Links:

Dr. Rana Taji’s Clinic: Toronto Medical Eye Associates 1333 Sheppard Avenue East, North York, Ontario Website: www.torontomedicaleyeassociates.ca
Follow Dr. Taji on Instagram: @eyedrtaji
Follow Dr. Meenal Agarwal: @dr.meenalagarwal
Listen to Uncover Your Eyes on: Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, and all major platforms

Bio:

Dr. Rana Taji is the owner and medical director of Toronto Medical Eye Associates. A respected optometrist, lecturer, and clinical supervisor, she is also a mother of two and a strong advocate for redefining success through authenticity, flexibility, and purpose. Her journey serves as an empowering reminder that with support, passion, and grace—you truly can have it all, just not all at once.

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Dr. Rana Taji, Dr. Meenal Agarwal, Uncover Your Eyes, Work-Life Balance, Women in Healthcare, Career Shifts in Your 40s, Optometry, Purpose-Driven Work, Authenticity, Entrepreneurship, Burnout, Motherhood, Mental Health, Leadership, Female Business Owners, Self-Care, Personal Growth, Midlife Reinvention

Key Timestamps:

(00:00) Self-care is not selfish: why Dr. Taji cares for herself for her kids' sake
(01:00) The new career timeline: Why your 40s and 50s may be your most fulfilling years
(02:19) Dr. Taji’s origin story: How a compassionate optometrist inspired her career at age 12
(04:00) Redefining timelines and letting go of early-career pressure
(06:30) Raising kids, outsourcing help, and rebuilding a “village” to support your ambitions
(09:00) Success redefined: It’s not about titles or money, it’s about loving your work
(12:00) Midlife reflection: A crisis or a powerful period of wisdom and growth?
(16:30) Is balance even real? Why something always has to give—and that’s okay
(20:00) Letting go of unrealistic standards, comparison traps, and household perfection
(22:30) Social media vs. reality: Why others' timelines don’t define your success
(24:00) It’s never too late: Stories of people chasing dreams in their 40s and 50s
(27:00) Authenticity over approval: Reclaiming your identity and purpose
(30:00) The power of goals, self-compassion, and small steps toward fulfillment
(32:00) Why Dr. Taji credits her “dream team” for helping her thrive personally and professionally
(34:00) Final thoughts and where to find Dr. Taji online and in-person

Key Takeaways:

Work-life balance isn’t perfect—and that’s okay. Something always gives, but that doesn’t mean you’re failing.
Your 40s are a time for reinvention. With life experience and freedom from early-career pressure, they’re ideal for passion projects and purpose-driven work.
Authenticity wins. Success is not about doing what looks good—it's about doing what feels right and meaningful to you.
Comparison kills clarity. Don’t base your goals on someone else’s highlight reel. Define success for yourself.
You’re never too late. Whether you’re 30, 50, or 60—ambition, curiosity, and passion are always in style.

Resources & Links:

Dr. Rana Taji’s Clinic: Toronto Medical Eye Associates 1333 Sheppard Avenue East, North York, Ontario Website: www.torontomedicaleyeassociates.ca
Follow Dr. Taji on Instagram: @eyedrtaji
Follow Dr. Meenal Agarwal: @dr.meenalagarwal
Listen to Uncover Your Eyes on: Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, and all major platforms

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Previous Episode

Eyes On- The Strangers Who Save Us: An Unexpected Lesson on Mental Health at 30,000 Feet

In this heartfelt solo episode of Uncover Your Eyes, Dr. Meenal Agarwal shares a deeply personal and surprising story about an anxious plane ride that turned into a moment of mutual healing with a complete stranger. What began as a solo work trip riddled with worry turned into a powerful connection between two women quietly battling anxiety in the same row. This episode explores invisible mental health, the power of shared vulnerability, and how human connection—even for a few hours—can offer the relief we didn’t know we needed. It's a reminder that behind every composed exterior, someone may be struggling too.

Key Timestamps:

(0:00) “The scariest thing is this was all invisible.”
(0:09) Dr. Meenal shares her nerves about flying alone for the first time in 8 years
(1:06) The anxiety builds: sleepless night, flight tracking, and nervous anticipation
(1:42) Her airplane neighbor arrives—and seems kind, which eases the nerves
(2:06) A surprising mirror: her neighbor also shows signs of anxiety
(2:36) The breakthrough moment: both women admit they’re nervous
(3:06) The bond forms: from anxious strangers to open-hearted conversation
(4:06) “It was all invisible”: unpacking mental health that hides behind the surface
(4:48) Why we need to talk about it—or we risk collapsing under the weight
(5:36) A small act of kindness: her seatmate helps her navigate a vulnerable moment
(6:00) A fellow passenger had been listening—and was moved by their honesty
(6:18) These moments matter: relationships that form in the most unexpected places
(6:42) A call to connection: uplift each other, stay in touch, and say hello to the person next to you

Key Takeaways:

Mental health struggles are often invisible—until someone opens a window (literally or figuratively).
Connection doesn’t need years. Even a shared moment of vulnerability can be healing.
Everyone is carrying something. Before you judge, ask or notice—kindness changes everything.
We all need someone to help us in our time of need, even if it's just to get to the bathroom.
Stay open. You never know which brief encounter might become a lifelong friendship.

Resources & Links:

Follow Dr. Meenal Agarwal on Instagram: @dr.meenalagarwal
Subscribe to Uncover Your Eyes: Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, and all major platforms

Bio:

Dr. Meenal Agarwal is an optometrist, mom, and host of Uncover Your Eyes. Through short, powerful reflections, she explores the emotional and invisible layers of modern life, especially for healthcare professionals, parents, and women. Her mission is to create a space where truth, healing, and connection are not only welcome—but necessary.

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Dr. Meenal Agarwal, Uncover Your Eyes, Mental Health, Invisible Illness, Anxiety, Solo Travel, Airplane Anxiety, Vulnerability, Women Supporting Women, Mindset, Shared Humanity, Mental Wellness, Stranger Kindness, Stress Management, Healing Conversations, Real Talk Podcast

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Eyes On- Does Rejection Still Hurt? Here's How to Turn It Into Your Greatest Motivation

In this vulnerable and powerful episode of Uncover Your Eyes, Dr. Meenal Agarwal dives deep into the emotion we all try to avoid: rejection. From missed job opportunities to unanswered texts and childhood memories of exclusion, Dr. Meenal shares how rejection has shaped her life—and surprisingly, how it's also fueled her success. But when is rejection a motivator, and when is it just baggage? She challenges us to reflect on whether we’re doing things for ourselves, or to prove something to someone who may no longer care. This episode is a must-listen if you’ve ever felt like rejection was holding you back—or pushing you too hard.

Key Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction: Dr. Meenal reflects on why she chooses to act from joy—not to prove anything.
(00:30) We’ve all been there: childhood rejection, job rejections, and being left out socially.
(01:00) A surprising realization: How rejection was secretly motivating her career and choices.
(02:00) Does rejection fuel us in a healthy way, or keep us trapped in proving mode?
(03:06) The constant weight of feeling rejected—even in small things like unread messages.
(04:00) A mindset shift: What if we viewed rejection differently? A challenge from a powerful women's seminar.
(05:30) When rejection leads to burnout: Taking on too much just to be “seen.”
(06:30) Letting go: You don’t need to prove your worth to the people who rejected you.
(07:30) Motivation check: Are your choices rooted in love or rejection?
(08:30) The story behind this podcast: A passion project born from love—not rejection.

Key Takeaways:

Rejection Is Inevitable – From childhood to career, we all face rejection. What matters is how we respond.
It Can Be a Hidden Motivator – Rejection often fuels ambition, but it can also lead to burnout and stress.
Your Worth Isn’t Conditional – Don’t chase validation from people who’ve walked away or turned you down.
Shift the Narrative – Instead of reacting to rejection, act from a place of purpose, passion, and self-love.
Do It For You – If you’re going to launch that podcast, apply for that job, or say “yes” to an opportunity—do it because you want it.

Resources & Links:

Follow Dr. Meenal Agarwal on Instagram: @dr.meenalagarwal
Subscribe to Uncover Your Eyes on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, and all major platforms

Bio:

Dr. Meenal Agarwal is an optometrist, mother, and advocate for mental clarity, resilience, and authentic living. On Uncover Your Eyes, she blends real-life reflections with expert insights to help listeners navigate personal growth, stress, burnout, and wellness. Her mission is to help you see life more clearly—starting from the inside out.

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Dr. Meenal Agarwal, Uncover Your Eyes, Rejection, Mindset Shift, Emotional Wellness, Burnout, Self-Worth, Women’s Empowerment, Motivation, Mental Health, Life Lessons, Confidence, Self-Acceptance, Resilience, Proving Yourself, Inner Growth, Health, Wellness, Healthcare Innovations,