91: Debunking the Myth of Alcohol as Self-Care

02/05/25 • 15 min

What if the relaxation and deep intuitive trust you've been searching for has been inside you all along?

Welcome back to Unbottled Potential! This month, we're diving deep into connection—connection to ourselves, our friends, our family, and our romantic partners. In today's episode, we’re starting with an important conversation: the misconception that alcohol is a form of self-care.

So many of us have been led to believe that alcohol enhances our ability to celebrate, relax, and connect with others. But the truth? Alcohol disconnects us from our emotions, whether they’re joyful or challenging.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

✅ Why alcohol doesn’t help you savor a moment—it actually numbs the experience.

✅ How alcohol "pickles" both high and low emotions, keeping you from fully processing them.

✅ The impact of using alcohol as a stress management tool—and why it actually makes anxiety worse.

✅ The power of learning to sit with and process your emotions without alcohol.

✅ A simple but powerful journaling prompt ("WAIT") to help you pause and reflect before reaching for a drink.

Key Takeaways:

📌 Alcohol doesn't enhance joy—it puts a cap on it. If you've ever used alcohol to celebrate, you may have unknowingly limited your ability to fully experience happiness and success.

📌 Numbing stress with alcohol is a short-term fix with long-term consequences. Drinking as a coping mechanism only defers and intensifies the stress, making it harder to handle later.

📌 Your body was designed to handle emotions. The discomfort you feel when sitting with big emotions is just a sign that you’re re-learning a skill you were born with.

📌 Journaling can be a game-changer. The "WAIT" method—"What Am I Thinking?"—helps you process your emotions instead of avoiding them.

Journal Prompt:

What is one way I can honor my authentic self today?

Take a moment to reflect on how you can truly show up for yourself—without numbing, buffering, or avoiding.

If this episode resonated with you, I’d love to hear from you! Send me a DM on Instagram or share this episode with a friend who needs to hear it.

Resources & Next Steps:

📖 Grab a copy of my book Unbottled Potential

📩 Connect with me on Instagram @amandakuda

🎙️ Tune in next week for Part 2 of our Connection Series!

What if the relaxation and deep intuitive trust you've been searching for has been inside you all along?

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

✅ Why alcohol doesn’t help you savor a moment—it actually numbs the experience.

✅ How alcohol "pickles" both high and low emotions, keeping you from fully processing them.

✅ The impact of using alcohol as a stress management tool—and why it actually makes anxiety worse.

✅ The power of learning to sit with and process your emotions without alcohol.

✅ A simple but powerful journaling prompt ("WAIT") to help you pause and reflect before reaching for a drink.

Key Takeaways:

📌 Alcohol doesn't enhance joy—it puts a cap on it. If you've ever used alcohol to celebrate, you may have unknowingly limited your ability to fully experience happiness and success.

📌 Numbing stress with alcohol is a short-term fix with long-term consequences. Drinking as a coping mechanism only defers and intensifies the stress, making it harder to handle later.

📌 Your body was designed to handle emotions. The discomfort you feel when sitting with big emotions is just a sign that you’re re-learning a skill you were born with.

📌 Journaling can be a game-changer. The "WAIT" method—"What Am I Thinking?"—helps you process your emotions instead of avoiding them.

Journal Prompt:

What is one way I can honor my authentic self today?

Take a moment to reflect on how you can truly show up for yourself—without numbing, buffering, or avoiding.

If this episode resonated with you, I’d love to hear from you! Send me a DM on Instagram or share this episode with a friend who needs to hear it.

Resources & Next Steps:

📖 Grab a copy of my book Unbottled Potential

📩 Connect with me on Instagram @amandakuda

🎙️ Tune in next week for Part 2 of our Connection Series!

Previous Episode

90: Life Beyond Dry January

Are you wondering what life will look like beyond Dry January?

In this episode of Unbottled Potential, Amanda Kuda celebrates the courage it takes to reexamine your relationship with alcohol, even if it's not a problem. Reflecting on Dry January, Amanda offers powerful tips and introspective questions to help listeners deepen their alcohol-free journey and set themselves up for long-term success.

From celebrating your wins to addressing challenges, Amanda guides you through practical steps to uncover what’s next on your path to an alcohol-free life. She also extends an invitation to commit to a longer break and experience the life-changing potential of sustained sobriety.

[00:00 - 03:15] Celebrating Dry January Success

[03:15 - 12:30] Reflection and Inquiry: The Next Step

[12:30 - 22:00] Designing Your Dream Life Without Alcohol

[22:00 - 28:00] Your Next Challenge: Committing to the Journey

Quotes: "Reconsidering your relationship with alcohol is bold and brave—even when it's not a problem." – Amanda Kuda

"Your dream life is waiting, but alcohol is robbing you of the clarity, creativity, and confidence to get there." – Amanda Kuda

"I want you to become so authentically aligned with your life that alcohol no longer even enters the picture." – Amanda Kuda

Links:

Apply for Amanda’s coaching program, Awaken Without Alcohol, and discover how to design a life you no longer want to escape from. [Link in show notes.]
Connect with Amanda on Instagram: @AmandaKuda

Don’t Forget: If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a 5-star review and share it with someone who needs it. Be sure to tag Amanda on Instagram when you do!

Thank you for listening to the Unbottled Potential Podcast. Let’s unbottle your potential together!

Next Episode

92. Solid (Not Liquid) Bonds: Redefining Friendship Without Alcohol

Friendship isn’t about what’s in your glass—it’s about what’s in your heart. In this episode, I dive into one of the most common fears that come up when considering an alcohol-free lifestyle: Will I lose my friends? I’m here to tell you that your social life doesn’t have to take a nosedive when you stop drinking. In fact, it can deepen in ways you never imagined. I’ll share insights from my own experience, lessons from seven and a half years of coaching clients, and practical tips to navigate friendships without alcohol as the glue.

If you’re worried that giving up alcohol will make you a social outcast, this episode is for you. I’ll guide you through a mindset shift, help you take inventory of your friendships, and give you actionable steps to build deeper, more meaningful connections—without booze.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

The myth that alcohol is necessary for friendship—and why it’s time to let that go.
My own experience moving to Austin and realizing I needed new, more aligned friendships.
How alcohol keeps relationships at the surface level and prevents true connection.
A simple but powerful exercise to take inventory of what you want in a friendship.
How to shift the context of existing friendships to make space for deeper connections.
The importance of taking initiative in creating alcohol-free social experiences.
Why stepping back from certain friendships can be a natural and necessary process.
How to attract like-minded, supportive friends in alignment with your new lifestyle.

Homework for You:

Take inventory of your friendships: What qualities do you love? What qualities do you want less of?
Identify friendships where you can shift the dynamic—invite a friend to do something alcohol-free.
Step back from social situations that no longer serve you and be intentional about where you spend your time.
Put yourself in spaces where like-minded, alcohol-free or mindful people gather.

Resources & Next Steps:

Grab my book for a deeper dive into friendships, alcohol-free living, and personal growth: Get it here
Want personalized guidance? Apply for my signature coaching program, Awaken Without Alcohol: Apply here
Let’s connect on Instagram! @amandakuda

Next Week’s Episode: We’re diving into romantic relationships and how removing alcohol can shift intimacy, communication, and connection in ways you never expected. Stay tuned!

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