How to create lasting change for stubborn people

05/30/24 • 51 min

With all the uncertainty that this life has to offer, the one thing that we can count on is the inevitably of change. There’s something about intentionally changing to a new default that can feel like a mini death to our mind and body.

And for stubborn people getting out of our own way is incredibly difficult. While all growth is change, not all change results is growth, so it may require more specific input to yield the output you desire. This week the ladies are here with just the strategy you have been looking for to change your life. With “The 7 Agents of Change”, you’re presented with a step-by-step guide that you can use to initiate and implement changes in your daily life. Not only are you getting a breakdown during the episode, but you’ll also be able to pre-order the “7 Agents of Change” pack which will do an even deeper dive.

Watch the conversation on YouTube: https://youtu.be/gZbX-alfzqY

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7 Agents of Change Pack: http://triggeredafevents.com

KEY POINTS & QUOTES:

“The only constant in the world is change.”
“If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.”
Finding the root cause of why you behave a certain way can help you know how to strategize.
Choose a new default before you are triggered for a better, healthier response.
You must first acknowledge and accept that you need to make a change.
You need a game plan to change more efficiently and effectively.

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluenation.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/alechiareese

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/in/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

RESOURCES:

For more info, visit: http://triggeredafpodcast.com

http://triggeredafevents.com to pre-order “The 7 Agents of Change” pack

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Watch the conversation on YouTube: https://youtu.be/gZbX-alfzqY

SPONSORED BY:

7 Agents of Change Pack: http://triggeredafevents.com

KEY POINTS & QUOTES:

“The only constant in the world is change.”
“If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.”
Finding the root cause of why you behave a certain way can help you know how to strategize.
Choose a new default before you are triggered for a better, healthier response.
You must first acknowledge and accept that you need to make a change.
You need a game plan to change more efficiently and effectively.

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluenation.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/alechiareese

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/in/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

RESOURCES:

For more info, visit: http://triggeredafpodcast.com

http://triggeredafevents.com to pre-order “The 7 Agents of Change” pack

Like what you're hearing? Follow Triggered AF and share the love!

IG: instagram.com/triggeredafpc

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YouTube: youtube.com/channel/@triggeredafpodcast

Triggered AF Podcast is produced by Triggered Media Group.

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Tools to make your marriage work after your “Wedding Day”

Just about every married couple will tell you that marriage is hard work. Nowadays, it seems as though the emphasis is on the wedding and not so much on the subsequent days, months and hopefully years.

The perfect dress, the lavish venue and the overpriced food can easily overshadow the real preparation that is needed for a lasting marriage. You know we like to go straight to the source! We are joined this week by Dani’s husband, real estate investor, entrepreneur and co-founder of Fly Supply Clothing, Reginald Bourdeau. The newlyweds are here to offer a bit of transparency into what married life has been like for them after the honeymoon. From why it’s important NOT to pick your battles to how couples can set healthy boundaries to thrive, this episode is a masterclass in making your marriage not just work but flourish. Tap into this week’s episode for an open and honest conversation about love and marriage. The perfect marriage doesn’t exist. Your union is yours to discover and uncover over and over again so that you may fall in love over and over again. May the odds forever be in your favor.

SPONSORED BY:

Dating Well AF Course, visit to learn more: http://datingwellaf.com

KEY POINTS & QUOTES:

I am not responsible for your happiness. I am here to add to it, to make you happier.
Having grace for your partner is essential to making things work.
You have to get comfortable with tough, uncomfortable conversations.
Intimate partners are often a mirror that we can use to heal and grow if we allow it.
Learning to raise your emotional IQ will help save your marriage time and time again.
Teaching children confidence and self esteem will enable them to show up as themselves early and often.

CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST

Reginald Bourdeau

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/reginaldbourdeau/

Website | https://flysupplyclothing.com

Podcast | https://4qtrs.media

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/4qtrs-podcast/id1687284460

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluenation.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/alechiareese

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/in/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

RESOURCES:

For more info, visit: http://triggeredafpodcast.com

Like what you're hearing? Follow Triggered AF and share the love!

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Top Tools to Overcome a Fear of Judgment & Failure

The fear of failure is so often confused with the fear of judgment. Many people believe that the reason their life didn’t turn out the way they imagined is due to fear of failure. But what if we told you that it’s actually the fear of judgment that holds countless people back?

From the time we are in utero, we are picking up language and behaviors, which ultimately wires our brain to think a certain way. While trauma has its place, it’s often our conditioning that hinders our ability to create the life we want. Our guest, Managing Partner at 1888 Ventures, Charles Robinson, joins us to discuss how to free yourself from the shackles of not only other people’s opinion but your own perception of what it takes to achieve greatness. In a world where it’s easier to theorize than to take action, it can be more difficult to take the necessary steps to become the best version of yourself. As morbid as it may sound, we all have a one way ticket out of here and we don’t know when the ticket will be called. How bad do you really want it? What are you willing to sacrifice? Also, respectfully, F anyone who tries to stand in your way. Tap in to this week’s episode to learn how to change your inner critic to your inner champion who gets shit done.

Watch the conversation on YouTube: https://youtu.be/6QJ9Rzc_M6o

SPONSORED BY:

7 Agents of Change Pack, visit to learn more: http://triggeredafevents.com

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