Transforming Relationship with Emotional Savvy

EMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW

with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor

GUEST: Judy Hoberman, author of Walking on the Glass Floor on Workplace Bullying

Workplace bullying is a top cause of stress, and a leading cause of quitting. It creates a hostile and toxic environment, often because the bullies are allowed to get away with their behavior. In this episode we discuss how to effectively deal with these types of people in your workplace, so you can get on with enjoying your job, and lowering your stress levels.

Intro: Difficult People at work

How to Deal with Difficult People at Work

Judy Hoberman Pt 1 - First impressions: Important, Accurate or Not

Judy Hoberman Pt 2 - How to distance yourself from difficult people and succeed in the work world

What to do with a bully at work

More about Judy Hoberman

Judy Hoberman, President of Selling In A Skirt- International Speaker, Trainer, Coach and Mentor. Her 30 years in sales has given her both the knowledge and sense of humor about how men and women sell, work and live differently will enlighten you in learning how both genders can support each other’s successes in a more productive way.

Her audiences, from 10 to 10,000 are engaged with details wrapped in memorable stories that are easily implemented that same day. In 2016 she was a TEDx speaker talking about pre-judging people, something we all do without even thinking. She is the author of “Selling In A Skirt”, “Famous Isn’t Enough”, “Pure Wealth” and her latest book on Women Who Lead will be released shortly.

Judy’s mission...to help her clients live the S.K.I.R.T. philosophy-Standing Out, Keys to Success, Inspiring Others, Results Oriented and Time Management...while having fun.

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Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com

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YouTube: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp

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Are you emotionally safe in your relationships? You may not have been, even with your parents. In this episode, Dr. Shaler talks about how to recognize and create emotional safety.

Guest, Antia Boyd, of MagnetizeTheMan.com emphasizes that the ability--and safety--to be vulnerable in your primary relationship is paramount.

Don't miss this.

More about Antia Boyd

Antia Boyd struggled for years with fear, wasting time and attracting emotionally unavailable men before she finally broke through, hired a dating coach and met her loving, spiritual and supportive husband! She has now helped thousands of single women all over the world to start finding the right man for them to share their life with & have a loving relationship quickly without lack of trust, poor communication or old issues getting in the way for over 11+ years.

Antia studied Personality Psychology at U.C. Berkeley, has spoken at Google and on hundreds of stages and radio shows all over the world, and for over a decade studied everything that she could get her hands on in the areas of men, dating & attracting a happy, long-term & safe relationship with the right man effectively without the fear of vulnerability, sadness or anxiety. She now lives in the beautiful San Diego area of California with her open, handsome and honest husband Brody.

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Do you notice that you feel somehow obligated to meet the needs of other people? Why is that?

In this episode, we talk about that, and my guest, Filippo Voltaggio, talks about why some people find it so difficult to say "No." Recognizing that, as an adult, you can choose to change your mindsets and patterns, he talks about his work, The Recalibration.

More about Filippo Voltaggio

Filippo's work as a Life Coach, Speaker, Author, Workshop Creator and Leader, and as Host of The LIFE CHANGES Show, revolves around change, and the wholeness and expansion of The Self.

From early childhood Filippo Voltaggio never believed in pigeonholing himself into any one thing. When asked, “what he wanted to be when he grew up,” he would proclaim, “I want to be Filippo.”

From business to life coach, radio host and...

Filippo has been recognized with several awards. Most notably, he received two awards from President Barack Obama, one in his first term, “The President’s Call to Service Award,” and one at the end of his second term, “The President’s Lifetime Achievement Award.” He also received the “Master Award” from the Save The World Foundation.

Filippo's lifelong interests in the Esoteric Sciences have also lead him to pursue and achieve certifications in many of the Sciences.

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The first show! The Relationship Help Show: Move from Pain to Power is here to help you recognize and remedy relationships within yourself, and with the people in your life...especially with the relentlessly difficult people Dr. Shaler calls Hijackals®.

In this episode, the conversation is about divorce. Yes, for some people, it comes to that: divorce. And, it's a very big decision, especially if you don't clearly see and understand the traits, patterns and cycles of the difficult, toxic people, the Hijackals.

You may think that all that is going on is your fault. That's very common when you're with a Hijackal, s/he will make sure you hear constantly that everything is your fault. When you realize that's not the truth, often, there has been too much pain, and too many destructive things that have happened in your relationship. You know you cannot go back, and divorce is what's required to move forward.

Divorce is not a thing you plan on, but it sure is something you need to plan FOR.

What do you need to recognize to decide whether to stay or leave?

How do you decide what is enough? When is enough? Whether the relationship can be fixed? Or, when it's time for a divorce, or, at least, a separation? Big questions that you cannot take lightly, especially if you have children. This decision affects much in your life and planning is important.

Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor, and her guest, Dr. Karen Finn, a divorce coach, discuss what it takes to leave a relentlessly difficult person, a Hijackal®. It will help you understand your next best steps.

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Dr. Karen Finn is a divorce coach. She works with individuals who are wondering if divorce is the best answer for them and their family, who need support in navigating the divorce process, or who want guidance with everything from co-parenting to dating as they embark on their life post-divorce.

Making life decisions like these aren't easy. In fact, they're some of the most difficult you'll ever face. But you have to make a decision because if you don’t, you’re going to stay stuck in exactly the same place you are in today. And I can guess that where you are today isn’t a good place to be.

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EMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW

with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor

HOW CAN I LEARN TO TRUST? Part 2

Today. Dr. Rhoberta Shaler offers further insights into learning to trust, and learning to trust AGAIN.

Trust is such an essential element in a healthy relationship. You may have had previous experiences with folks in your life where you sadly learned you could not trust them. This tends to color your new relationships. Dr. Shaler offers insights to help you gain a new perspective on building trust, a new way of thinking about it that can offer help and hope.

If you missed Part 1, listen to Episode 33.

DO HIJACKALS BECOME WONDERFUL WHEN THEY GET A NEW LOVE?

GUEST: Bree Bonchay, MSW, LCSW

Can a toxic partner really change? A Hijackal®?

What is up with the Hijackal leaving you after being verbally and emotionally abusive, and taking up with a new partner, all sweetness and light? Can a Hijackal really change? And, that quickly?

Does a new partner bring out the best in a narcissist? It often seems that way, doesn't it? And, then, you wonder,

"If s/he can be that happy, laughing and loving, with someone new, was it me? Was I inadequate?"

And, you know what, that's exactly what the Hijackal delights in you thinking. That's because--wait for it--everything was your fault, right?

Bree Bonchay and I take a loaded psychological phrase that is really helpful in understanding why this is all so confusing and we unpack it. You'll understand better why you have the misgivings, and why and how you can set them to rest now.

In Part 2 of the interview, interesting insights into attitude and agreeableness. You'll want to hear about this agreeableness, and it's not what you think.

Very helpful interview to understand why you have such mixed emotions when leaving a Hijackal, and then, when the Hijackal finds new "supply" and seems to be so different from the person you last knew. Listen in.

Why does it seem that the Hijackal® has become an amazing, wonderful person with the new love of their life. Is it real? Today's show will help you to see what's really going on. You need to know.

Bree Bonchay is licensed psychotherapist with almost two decades of experience working in the field of mental health and trauma recovery. She specializes in helping people recover from toxic relationships, and shares her insights about Narcissistic Personality Disorder and psychopathy in her blog FreeFromToxic. Her articles have been featured in major online magazines, she is the founder World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day, (WNAAD), which is celebrated every 1st of June, and she is on the Board of Directors for The Association for NPD/Psychopathy Educators & Survivor Treatment More About Bree Bonchay, LCSW, psychotherapist

Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor, provides urgent and ongoing care relationships in crisis. She particularly helps the partners, exes, adult children & co-workers of the crazy-making, relentlessly difficult people she calls “Hijackals®.” She helps them save their sanity and stop the crazy-making. Even the United States Marines have called on her for help!

A relationship expert, mediator, speaker & author of sixteen books, Dr. Shaler consults with clients worldwide through the convenience of the internet. She is the host of two podcasts: Emotional Savvy: The Relationship Help Show, and Save Your Sanity! Help for Handling Hijackals. More About Dr. Rhoberta Shaler

CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:

Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com

Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor

Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

YouTube: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp

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