Torrid Souls

What's next in the adventures of Tori and Soul? Another booty call attempt, that's what! In our last episode, we had our first-ever booty call and it was a success (albeit with someone we already know). Well, in this episode, since we have another (rare) completely free day to ourselves, and without any "repeat-worthy" play friends available, we go one step further. This time we put out a request on our local LS website (Cafe Desire). Listen in as we open the responses, and react to what we find when people, who are completely new to us, respond thinking they are perfect to hook-up with. Some responses make us laugh out loud. Hint: Just having a penis is NOT enough. Then, at the end of this episode, Tori loses all rationale and discretion when Soul "brings" a hottie into the car with them.

Come discover your own torrid soul with us. We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. [email protected] 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls

Mentioned in this episode: Lifestyle Dating Sites SDC, SLS, Kasidie, Cafe Desire, Nerds Who Swing podcast.

See our Show Notes Page for links to all resources and music mentioned in this podcast. TorridSouls.com/9

More in-the-moment epiphanies and ah-ha moments. In this episode, it's, literally, the morning after our first-ever booty call! We are still in bed and the pillow talk gets cerebral. And once again, we get pleasantly surprised by what gems we discover about ourselves, our brains, our programming, the LGBT community and a whole bunch of other crazy profound shit. Yes, it's another "you-just-gotta-listen" kind of episode. Soul decides to try being a voyeur and then after playfully pinning their mighty playfriend down, she gets called "aggressive". Uh oh!... Or is it an Oh, yeah? Find out how it turns out! Just when we think we're all that, as a couple, we get to a whole new kind of leveling-up. Join us and discover your own torrid soul. We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. [email protected] 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls

Penises. Penes. Palos. Mangueros. Pollas. Oh My! Up until this point in our journey into CNM (Consensual Non-Monogamy) we met penis-endowed playmates at clubs, resorts, parties or events. We made our decisions primarily, in the moment, based on the appeal of the combination of appearance and personality. If things worked out we may choose to keep in touch. If not, then it ended there. Some couples, however, do what we would consider mimics "dating". They prefer to get to know one another through online profiles like Cafe Desire, Kasidie, SDC, SLS, Indulge, Quiver. They go out on "dates" to see if they click. We decided to explore this way of meeting potential playmates, and in this episode, we consider whether this is worth trying. Listen in on our candid CarClip conversations as we work through the in-the-moment insecurities that came up around this new way of navigating our hobby. Was this swinging lifestyle becoming a necessary part of our relationship? You'll hear how we get to a place of feeling reassured that, for us, our relationship will always come first (be the main focus) and anything else is only what, and when, we decide will add spice to what we already have together. Tune in to find out how oil painting is the perfect analogy for explaining all of this. Come discover your own torrid soul with us. We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. [email protected] 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls

Choosing to swing means that you have to get clear about what you want. Who are you? What kind of experience do you desire? What are you afraid of?

It's a sorting process once you've decided to open up to including others in your sexual life.

In this episode we untangle these questions and get some answers, as we talk about 3 separate lifestyle experiences we had this year. The first was at Oasis Aqualounge in Toronto. The 2nd, at Hedonism Resort in Jamaica, and the 3rd at Naughty in N'awlins. What we learned help us to realize just how empowering it can be to be clear about who we are choosing and how to get more of what we want.

Come discover your own torrid soul with us. We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. [email protected] 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls