Shoulda coulda maybe
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05/21/22 • 33 min
When someone's got their panties all bunched up and you just want to run in the other direction to get as far away from their funky energy, but another part of you feels like you need to fix their energy for them and then you start wondering if perhaps it's your fault they're feeling crappy and then you spiral into looking at all the ways things are your fault and your life suddenly start looking bleak and shaky, you've fallen in their shoulda coulda maybe abyss and need to get out! 😱
We get that you have to co-exist with other people, as much as you'd prefer to just cut them out of your life and live in your pretty bubble of calm bliss where no one can dump their bad mood on you. Rather than fantasizing about dumping that person because you don't see any other way to deal with their energy that's leaked all over your energy and making you doubt yourself, imagine staying in a high vibe space EVEN IF the people around you are losing their shit!
It's possible. Ulla does it regularly and as much as it annoyed Gladys for the longest time, Gladys realized Ulla wasn't going to budge from her happy place so she decided to join Ulla and it's WAAAAYYY better here, we promise!
Best part? You can be even more supportive, loving, understanding, compassionate, empathic, and helpful from this place than when you get sucked down into other people's energetic meltdowns and make their meltdowns your own. Tune in to find out how!
PS. Subscribe to our YouTube channel here for FREE meditations that will clear out all the shoulda coulda maybe's you picked up from other people while running your errands.
Use The Reset Remedy here to calm your nervous system when your friend's shitty mood is making your mood shitty.
Get The Good Goodbye Ritual here to part ways with those old belief systems that said you had to suffer to help other people who are suffering. Not true.
Read The Good Goodbye book here to start a new chapter of life that gets to be easy, even if people are losing their shit all around you.
Shower us with some love via email at: [email protected]!
When someone's got their panties all bunched up and you just want to run in the other direction to get as far away from their funky energy, but another part of you feels like you need to fix their energy for them and then you start wondering if perhaps it's your fault they're feeling crappy and then you spiral into looking at all the ways things are your fault and your life suddenly start looking bleak and shaky, you've fallen in their shoulda coulda maybe abyss and need to get out! 😱
We get that you have to co-exist with other people, as much as you'd prefer to just cut them out of your life and live in your pretty bubble of calm bliss where no one can dump their bad mood on you. Rather than fantasizing about dumping that person because you don't see any other way to deal with their energy that's leaked all over your energy and making you doubt yourself, imagine staying in a high vibe space EVEN IF the people around you are losing their shit!
It's possible. Ulla does it regularly and as much as it annoyed Gladys for the longest time, Gladys realized Ulla wasn't going to budge from her happy place so she decided to join Ulla and it's WAAAAYYY better here, we promise!
Best part? You can be even more supportive, loving, understanding, compassionate, empathic, and helpful from this place than when you get sucked down into other people's energetic meltdowns and make their meltdowns your own. Tune in to find out how!
PS. Subscribe to our YouTube channel here for FREE meditations that will clear out all the shoulda coulda maybe's you picked up from other people while running your errands.
Use The Reset Remedy here to calm your nervous system when your friend's shitty mood is making your mood shitty.
Get The Good Goodbye Ritual here to part ways with those old belief systems that said you had to suffer to help other people who are suffering. Not true.
Read The Good Goodbye book here to start a new chapter of life that gets to be easy, even if people are losing their shit all around you.
Shower us with some love via email at: [email protected]!
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Your dream fucking sucks
Not sure if your dream sucks? Then listen in honey cuz we’re showing you how to dream soooooo big, everyone around you will start looking at their dreams and realizing they suck and want to have amazing dreams that come true just like you!
Your dreams are in your heart on purpose. They’re your GPS system to living your best life. So rather than letting them shrink into a tiny raisin of hope, let them blossom into a vineyard of abundance that overflows with the sweet nectar of a life you absolutely love. Wow...that got super cheesy super fast but we’re rolling with it cuz this is what happens when you let your dreams FLOURISH!!!
Enjoy!!!
PS. Subscribe to our YouTube channel here for FREE meditations that will clear out all the yeah buts from your wildest dreams.
Use The Reset Remedy here to calm your nervous system when all your what if's are making you feel like crap.
Get The Good Goodbye Ritual here to part ways with those old belief systems that told you making your dreams come true had to be hard work (it's a lie!).
Read The Good Goodbye book here to end the chapter of life having to be hard and start a new chapter of life getting to be easy.
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Pause on thoughts (too busy to be happy)
Everyone has time to be miserable. People always find time to feel sucky and don't make excuses for it. You never say "I don't have time to feel this bad." So why do you then not make that much time to FEEL GOOD?!?!? Why do you come up with so many excuses to delay your happiness??
We get you're busy and stressed. But being too busy to feel better each day is a wake-up call to looking at why you're not allowing happiness into your life. And while it may all relate to some childhood wounds, we're not interested in that. We want to get you feeling better right now, damn it!
So listen in as we unpack how to feel better when life's throwing a lot of shit your way and see how Gladys unravels herself from her self-induced web of grumpiness to get to the real core of what she needs to be happy in real-time!
PS. Subscribe to our YouTube channel here for FREE meditations that are so stupid easy fun you can do them while you're being too busy to be happy.
Use The Reset Remedy here whenever you want a breather from life being so annoying.
Get The Good Goodbye Ritual here for a revitalizing energetic cleanse and release.
Read The Good Goodbye book here to start a new chapter of life that gets to be easy.
Shower us with some love via email at: [email protected]!
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