Till The Wheels Fall Off

TWFO Couple - Matt & Paige Robinson

Till The Wheels Fall Off (TWFO) podcast is hosted by Matt and Paige Robinson. TWFO focuses primarily on the relationship dynamics between spouses and partners of alcoholics or addicts and ways to best navigate the difficulties of codependent, addicted, unstable, and narcissistic behavior. The program is enjoyable and informative for anyone seeking self-betterment, inspiration, perspective, or direction with themes ranging from boundaries, recovery, marriage, and parenting with tons of humor built in. With over twenty years of experience in codependency recovery, addiction recovery, mental health battles, and navigating life's hurdles, the duo offers a valuable and unique perspective that is both inspiring and relatable.
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Paige's Perspective: The Silent Abuse of Addiction - What No One Wants to Admit

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01/31/25 • 19 min

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In this episode of Paige’s Perspective, we’re breaking down the excuses addicts use to justify staying the same—the guilt trips, the half-promises, and the ways they frame their struggles to keep you invested. You’ve heard it all: “In sickness and in health,” “Unconditional love means accepting me as I am,” “I’m trying! Recovery takes time!” —but what’s really happening beneath the surface? These aren’t necessarily intentional attempts to manipulate, but they are ways addicts avoid growth—and when those excuses keep you stuck in a cycle of harm, it becomes abusive.

Nobody talks about how addicts’ behaviors are often abusive. And society? It lets them off the hook, telling you to be patient, to understand, to wait just a little longer.

But here’s the truth: Addiction may be an explanation, but it’s not an excuse to keep hurting people. Abuse doesn’t have to be calculated to be real. At some point, effort needs to match impact, and words need to turn into action. In this episode, we’re exposing the stories addicts tell themselves and their partners to avoid real accountability—so you can stop getting lost in their excuses and start focusing on what you need.

Find video clips and full length video from this episode on YouTube and our other social media pages!

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Codependency Doesn't Tell the Whole Story: Why You Lose Yourself in an Addicted Relationship

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01/24/24 • 54 min

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Books like "Codependent No More" and programs like CODA or Alanon offer a lot of helpful insight on the topic of codependency. Codependency is a dysfunctional relationship pattern where one person's self-worth and identity become excessively reliant on the approval and needs of another person. Codependency does explain some of the behaviors that take place in an addicted relationship, but the story is a bit more complex than this. The "Lost" feelings that many spouses and partners have are sometimes the byproduct of abusive behaviors, gaslighting and the calculated altering of someone's reality in order to keep the addicted train rolling. That is, codependency doesn't tell the whole story and therefore focusing deeply on it as the solution will not fix the entire issue. Simply working on your codependent behaviors will not get you to your end goal of a happy and healthy relationship, nor will it address the trauma from years of abuse that is often present in addicted relationships. Just focusing on your codependency or your own issues and not acknowledging the why of these behaviors is a failure to examine the role that abuse plays in a romantic relationship. In this episode we discuss some of our own healing that was necessary due to the years of gaslighting, mistreatment, devaluing, and disregard of basic human needs in our relationship.

The Power of Feeling Seen in Relationships: Feeling Known > Knowing

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02/26/25 • 59 min

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What makes a great relationship? Is it knowing everything about your partner, or is it feeling truly known by them? In this episode of Till the Wheels Fall Off, we dig deep into what it means to be seen, heard, and understood in our closest relationships.

Drawing from personal experiences, text conversations, and research—including a study that confirms feeling known by your partner is a stronger predictor of relationship satisfaction than knowing them—we explore how genuine curiosity and active listening can transform the way we connect with our loved ones.

Paige and Matt share their own journey of rebuilding connection after years of imbalance, discussing the challenges of feeling unseen, the hesitation in opening up again, and the intentional efforts that foster emotional safety. They also break down practical ways to create deeper bonds with your partner, kids, or anyone who matters in your life.

If you’ve ever felt unheard in a relationship or struggled with getting your partner to open up, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn how shifting from trying to be interesting to being truly interested can change everything.

Merry Stressmas & Happy Holidaze!

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12/07/22 • 33 min

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You don’t want to skip this one! From difficult and hilarious family stereotypes, to the burden of gift giving, to overbooked schedules, the holidays can be STRESSFUL. Sit down with us as we tackle ways we’ve found to make the season truly enjoyable in this solution-packed episode.

Time Management

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12/02/22 • 14 min

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Where does the time go? We discuss some tips and tricks we use to juggle a marriage, family, extra curriculars, business, podcast, social media, and more!

Want a GREAT Relationship? Listen Up.

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11/30/22 • 40 min

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This episode covers some key factors that have made our relationship successful over 20 years. Whether you are struggling in a relationship, wanting to strengthen an existing one, or preparing yourself for one to come, this discussion is a can't miss!
As mentioned in the episode, be sure to check out Taylor Counseling Group. Paige and I have used TCG for quite some time now and the results are incredible. Don't wait for a problem before seeking therapy - think of it as preventative maintenance! www.taylorcounselinggroup.com

Alcohol & The Holidays

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11/23/22 • 28 min

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The holidays are a time for fellowship, family, and tradition...but it can also be the source of immense stress and unhealthy coping with alcohol. With mental health at an all-time low and alcohol intake at an all-time high, we're playing with fire as we enter the holiday season. We discuss how to question our alcohol intake and take responsibility for what enters our bodies and why. If you've ever wondered if you have a drinking problem listen and join us as we explore the fringes of addiction and stress during the holidays.

Make Money Living Your Purpose

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11/16/22 • 24 min

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Do you hate your job? Do you feel like you're not fulfilling your purpose or your talents are being wasted? Many of us struggle with the feeling that we're wasting time in our choice of career and we don't know how to get out. Join us as we discuss how to capitalize on your quirks and monetize your unique ability.

Coping With Anxiety

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11/09/22 • 26 min

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Are you anxious? What are the sources of your anxiety and how to do you cope with it? We all have different ways of coping with anxiety and managing neurotic thoughts. We discuss how we went from letting anxiety drive our lives and actions to living without it. The first episode of many on how to conquer anxiety.

Pain and the Past: How We Faced Opiates Together After Years of Sobriety

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11/13/24 • 65 min

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In this episode, we share our personal journey through Matt's recent surgery and the challenges of managing pain with opioids - his past drug of choice. This was scary, new territory for us and it's a slippery slope given the history of addiction. We discuss the emotional complexities surrounding the surgery recovery, how we planned in advance and discussed the decision to treat the pain with a dangerous substance, the accountability built into the situation, the importance of open communication, and how we navigated the fears and realities of pain management together. Opiates in an emergency setting are tricky in recovery, and we believe this conversation will be helpful and insightful for couples and individuals that are navigating difficult emotions around pain treatment in sobriety as well as those that have faced a relapse. This candid conversation highlights the significance of trust, accountability, and the growth that can come from facing difficult situations as a couple. We navigated this one successfully and we're both incredibly proud of how we faced it and we think you'll gain quite a bit from this one too if you find yourself having to go down this road.

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How many episodes does Till The Wheels Fall Off have?

Till The Wheels Fall Off currently has 175 episodes available.

What topics does Till The Wheels Fall Off cover?

The podcast is about Self Development, Addiction, Health & Fitness, Motivation, Parenting, Anxiety, Mental Health, Mindset, Depression, Self Help, Podcasts, Marriage, Inspiration, Self-Improvement, Education and Recovery.

What is the most popular episode on Till The Wheels Fall Off?

The episode title 'Merry Stressmas & Happy Holidaze!' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Till The Wheels Fall Off?

The average episode length on Till The Wheels Fall Off is 45 minutes.

How often are episodes of Till The Wheels Fall Off released?

Episodes of Till The Wheels Fall Off are typically released every 5 days.

When was the first episode of Till The Wheels Fall Off?

The first episode of Till The Wheels Fall Off was released on Sep 14, 2022.

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Till The Wheels Fall Off

TWFO Couple - Matt & Paige Robinson

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