#11 - Modern Dating In the Midst of Changing Relationship Norms

You swipe, match, chat... and then repeat. For a woman, modern dating has become a never-ending loop of potential connections. But where are all the good men? The ones that get you to stop swiping and start dreaming about a possible future together? Are women living a fairytale fantasy, looking for Mr. Perfect and ignoring Mr. Just Right? What is the real problem? The exhaustive list of demands women have, the lack of good quality male partners, or the inability to see the reality of today’s dating market? Join us to find out why is it so hard for women to find a partner willing to commit. If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message If you'd like to Buy Us A 🍸 Drink, click here: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Resources: Why Women Have S*x, by Cindy M. Meston, David M. Buss, et al. https://amzn.to/3SKY68v (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough by Lori Gottlieb https://amzn.to/47yD8xM (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Sarah's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarah_uli/ @access-vegas https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a6F3VRQSjL4 @psychacks https://youtu.be/jGY6jLY2tw4?si=lRXigqsFVFtJ3ROz @estherperel https://youtu.be/a-PDqXa_K7E?si=4TNWsgN1QBEi1ziD #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #polyamory00:00 - Intro 01:47 - What it’s like to date these days 05:33 - What is a good or hight-value man? 07:55 - Men don’t want to be monogamous anymore 09:20 - Women’s agency years 11:40 - Hypergamy: women look for men that are better than they are 18:27 - Models have the worst relationships 21:15 - What type of men choose non-monogamy 23:15 - Women ask for perfection, but don’t question their contribution to the relationship 26:55 - Would polyamory work if that was the only way to get the ideal man? 30:44 - Where are all the good men? 31:41 - Are women’s demands of men realistic? 38:17 - Do men know how to be in a relationship? 42:30 - Musical chairs game of dating 45:00 - There are no good men or women out there 46:50 - What I need vs what I offer *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.