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Throuple Talk Podcast

Throuple Talk Podcast

Throuple Talk Podcast

Throuple Talk’s mission is to unite throuples around the world and to bring help, hope, and community to those in egalitarian plural relationships by sharing the wisdom we've gathered as a result of our personal, real-world experience, as well as interviews with our guests. Whether you're already in a polyamorous relationship or still dipping your toes in the water to see if polyamory is right for you, we hope you find our podcast to be your go-to resource for information and encouragement.
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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best Throuple Talk Podcast episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to Throuple Talk Podcast for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite Throuple Talk Podcast episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

Throuple Talk Podcast - #20: Enforced Monogamy: Cure to Male Violence?
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12/06/23 • 41 min

Jordan Peterson has voiced very strong opinions on why he believes polyamory and other non-monogamous relationships are not healthy for society, proposing in interviews with Joe Rogan and Chris Williamson that modern society should double down on the commitment to enforced monogamy, which is to reward those who embrace monogamy and shame those who do not.

In this episode, we point out how the reasoning behind these assertions is not fully informed and share why our polyamorous throuple relationship works so much better for everyone in our home, particularly since Char and Liv are bisexual. With others, including Stirling Cooper, publicly vocalizing similar sentiments in desiring a polygamous family structure, it is clear that the tides are turning to a society where family dynamics are becoming more varied to meet the unique needs and desires of the individuals in each home, and should therefore be accepted and respected.

Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more insights into our polyamorous life. 👍🔔📝

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Time Stamps

00:00 - Intro

00:18 - Enforced Monogamy is not working for our society

01:29 - Punishing non-monogamous people for being different

02:09 - Polyamory being confused with promiscuity

07:26 - Patriarchal secular polygamy vs polyamory

09:25 - Violence on societies with more men than women and the role of monogamy in reducing violence

10:30 - Women’s responsibilities to reduce male violence

12:09 - Freedom of choice of relationship

13:53 - Enforce monogamy standards to keep young male aggression under control

18:29 - Equality of outcome valid except for sexuality and relationship?

23:02 - Women’s Hypergamy naturally leads to genetic non-monogamy

28:04 - Relationship free market can get you a better partner

29:06 - Natural selection leads to polyamory, fighting natural biology with enforced monogamy

32:05 - Raising children in polyamorous families vs raising them by monogamous single moms

34:27 - Polyamory is going to happen regardless of society’s level of comfort or approval

39:50 - Conclusion

#throuple #polyamory #polyamorousrelationship #polyamorous #polyamorousthrouple

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Throuple Talk Podcast - #22: I Swiped Right on a Couple! What Now? Part 1 of 2
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12/11/23 • 28 min

When you’ve met an amazing couple and want to date one or both of them, it is important to know what questions you should ask and what to be aware of before you get in too deep. Do they date separately or only together? Do one or both have veto power? Is their relationship solid, or are they looking for someone to “spice things up”?

In this episode, Liv gives her tips for how to date a couple and shares her experience of starting a relationship with Josh and Char and tells what she saw as the initial indicators that this could be a beautiful polyamorous throuple relationship. If you are considering dating a couple, be sure to tune in to this podcast!

If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message

👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk

Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link)

Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1

Time Stamps

00:00 - Intro

04:32 - Polyamory red flag: couples who only date together

05:26 - Have well written profiles while dating online

06:15 - Beware of people who just want to sext

08:41 - Things to ask a couple when you start dating them

10:42 - Ensure everyone is engaged and committed to being in a throuple

11:52 - Green flag: Polyamorous couples with well behaved children

13:17 - Transitioning from consensual non-monogamy to polyamory

15:17 - Never say never

16:01 - Sexual compatibility and chemistry as a throuple

18:03 - Find partners who are warmhearted and kind

19:52 - Transitioning from monogamy to polyamory

23:39 - Liv's advice for solo poly individuals wanting to join a couple

25:48 - The power of the law of attraction when dating online

27:17 - Closing

27:37 - Outtakes

*We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.

#polyamory #datingtips #throuple

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When you look at the culture around us, it is clear that monogamy is not working for many people. In this episode, we share why egalitarian plural marriage works so well for our polyamorous throuple and why we think that egalitarian polygamy is going to gain popularity as a very desirable relationship dynamic.

If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 Time Stamps 00:00 - Intro 00:02 - Women are making society polygamist 02:06 - Women mate hypergamously while men are not enough in relationships 05:00 - There is a lack of strong successful men 07:16 - The top performing men will get more and better quality female partners 11:44 - Women make the choices in relationships and they chose polyamorous throuples 13:34 - This is doomsday for men who refuse to do the relationship work 14:31 - Your neighbors are poly | We are everywhere 15:43 - Join our private FB group Throuple Talk Connection Hub 15:56 - Conclusion | CTA *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites. #polygamy #polyamory #podcast

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As an established polyamorous throuple, we know that in the early stages of starting a throuple, it is natural to fear that you may be replaced and to feel insecure about the depth of connection your partner is experiencing with another person. If you are experiencing these things, this episode is for you! In this episode, we offer our personal stories, practical tips, and insights on overcoming the fear of loss as we delve into societal conditioning, personal insecurities, and the challenges of balancing multiple partners' needs and desires. Join our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk . References: Polysecure by Jessica Fern https://amzn.to/3QHPI71 (*Amazon Affiliate Link) 00:00 - Intro 00:26 - It's not strictly related to romantic relationships 02:23 - Relationship changes when you become a parent 04:50 - Polyamory and loss of original relationship 06:15 - Entering a triad as the additional partner to a preexisting couple 08:00 - How do you find happiness when you have to deal with change 11:43 - How to deal with feeling excluded and dealing with comparisons and keeping score 15:00 - Accept that monogamous structures don’t apply to polyamory 19:00 - Focusing on what you gain versus what you are missing 23:00 - Security within polyamory is a personal responsibility 24:48 - Facing the fear of coming out as polyamorous within a monogamous relationship 31:00 - Missing that poly something within monogamy and dealing with it 32:35 - In polyamory you’re not supposed to be everything for your partners 34:35 - Understanding what we can provide to a partner and what it not within our wheelhouse 36:00 - We’re trying to be everything for a partner because societal expectations and we fail 38:00 - We’re missing on the relational support within a tribe and community 39:24 - Wrapping up and next episode Unwiring Hardwired Monogamy #Podcast #throuple #polyamory #coupletothrouple #egalitarianpluralrelationship *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.

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Tyler, Crystal, and Robin are a polyamorous “V” MFM triad with Crystal as the hinge partner, who all live and raise children together. Listen in to hear how their relationship dynamic works so well for each of them and why, knowing what they know now, none of them would choose a different family structure. Their beautiful story of deep, abiding love, coupled with resilience and commitment to personal growth, is sure to be an inspiration.

Join our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611

If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message

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✨ Exciting Announcement: Women’s Throuple Retreat! ✨

We’re thrilled to introduce the first-ever relationship retreat exclusively for women in throuples! Join us April 11-13, just outside Austin, TX for a transformative weekend focused on deepening your connection, fostering community, and prioritizing your relationship in a peaceful, luxury “glamping” retreat setting.

💖 Why Attend?

✔ Deepen your bond with the woman you love.

✔ Connect other women in throuples who truly understand your journey.

✔ Strengthen your relationship with meaningful workshops led by us & special guests, Dr. Rachael Meir and her wife, Kasey.

✔ Enjoy activities like yoga, fire pits, hiking trails, and more at a beautiful spiritual retreat center.

✔ Experience a small, intimate setting (only 12 spots - 6 dyads - total!)—and we have just ONE spot left!

✨ Register before February 12 for an early-bird discount! ✨

🔗 Join our private Facebook group, Throuple Talk's Connection Hub, for details & booking: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611

💡 Watching after the event? Sign up to be notified of future retreats and special offerings!

If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk

#ThroupleTalk #WomenInThrouples #RelationshipRetreat #LGBTQCommunity

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Has your monogamous partner expressed that they are polyamorous or want to practice polyamory? Did this revelation come as a shock to you? If so, you have just been “polybombed”. . Have you discovered you are polyamorous while in a monogamous relationship and are now considering coming out as poly to your partner? This experience can often be overwhelming and leave both partners feeling like they have no one who understands, and we are on a mission to provide hope and guidance during this challenging and confusing time. . In this episode, we're talking about polybombing. We discuss the different ways of responding to a polybomb and recommend some immediate positive action steps you and your partner can take to help you successfully navigate the path forward. .

Remember to subscribe to our channel to stay updated with our latest content. Thank you for joining us on this journey towards understanding and acceptance.

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Resources:

Polysecure by Jessica Fern https://amzn.to/47ldlZE (Amazon affiliate link*)

⁠ @estherperel ⁠ https://youtu.be/MoZPZlygxJI?si=KaBE55JyCMwUSjHS ⁠ @TealSwanOfficial ⁠ https://youtu.be/RYRY3ehBHz0?si=eJyp4LkNWu99OsfV https://youtu.be/QKgDZDFOXEg?si=jDDAwZGg5josIc5o

. Time Stamps 00:00 - Intro 00:37 - What is Polybombing 01:47 - Your options if you’ve been polybombed 07:30 - Polybombing = earth-shattering experience 12:30 - Throuple Talk’s experiences with polybombing 26:09 - What to do if you’ve been polybombed 35:13 - Resources 37:34 - Outtakes . #polyamory #nonmonogamy #podcast *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.

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You swipe, match, chat... and then repeat. For a woman, modern dating has become a never-ending loop of potential connections. But where are all the good men? The ones that get you to stop swiping and start dreaming about a possible future together? Are women living a fairytale fantasy, looking for Mr. Perfect and ignoring Mr. Just Right? What is the real problem? The exhaustive list of demands women have, the lack of good quality male partners, or the inability to see the reality of today’s dating market? Join us to find out why is it so hard for women to find a partner willing to commit. If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message If you'd like to Buy Us A 🍸 Drink, click here: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Resources: Why Women Have S*x, by Cindy M. Meston, David M. Buss, et al. https://amzn.to/3SKY68v (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough by Lori Gottlieb https://amzn.to/47yD8xM (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Sarah's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarah_uli/ @access-vegas https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a6F3VRQSjL4 @psychacks https://youtu.be/jGY6jLY2tw4?si=lRXigqsFVFtJ3ROz @estherperel https://youtu.be/a-PDqXa_K7E?si=4TNWsgN1QBEi1ziD #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #polyamory00:00 - Intro 01:47 - What it’s like to date these days 05:33 - What is a good or hight-value man? 07:55 - Men don’t want to be monogamous anymore 09:20 - Women’s agency years 11:40 - Hypergamy: women look for men that are better than they are 18:27 - Models have the worst relationships 21:15 - What type of men choose non-monogamy 23:15 - Women ask for perfection, but don’t question their contribution to the relationship 26:55 - Would polyamory work if that was the only way to get the ideal man? 30:44 - Where are all the good men? 31:41 - Are women’s demands of men realistic? 38:17 - Do men know how to be in a relationship? 42:30 - Musical chairs game of dating 45:00 - There are no good men or women out there 46:50 - What I need vs what I offer *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.

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Throuple Talk Podcast - #10 - Exploring Sexual Variety in Polyamorous Triads
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10/24/23 • 42 min

You've likely heard the saying, "Variety is the spice of life!", but when it comes to sexuality, variety is often frowned upon. In this episode, we get into the spiciness that comes from embracing sexual variety, particularly within our polyamorous throuple. . In this episode, we share how challenging outdated societal norms has increased our sexual chemistry, strengthened our relationships, and resulted in higher satisfaction both in ourselves and each other. .

Remember to subscribe to our channel to stay updated with our latest content. Thank you for joining us on this journey towards understanding and acceptance.

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👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk

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Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link)

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Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1

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. Resources: - Pusssy, by Regena Thomashauer and Hay House https://amzn.to/46hAprq (*Amazon Affiliate Link) - Taking Segsy Back, by Alexandra H. Solomon PhD, Lori Brotto PhD, et al. https://amzn.to/3ubKpFi (*Amazon Affiliate Link) - Living An Orgazzmic Life, by Xanet Pailet, Emily Morse https://amzn.to/3ugL0FY (*Amazon Affiliate Link) - The State of Affairs by Esther Perel https://amzn.to/3QKSecQ (*Amazon Affiliate Link) - Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel https://amzn.to/3sz6duf (*Amazon Affiliate Link) - The Ethical Sluuut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy https://amzn.to/3SFHUFB (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Time Stamps: 00:00 - Intro 00:25 - Is variety the spice of life? 03:08 - Polyfidelity, how polyamory and monogamy come together 07:27 - Char’s ways of keeping the relationship fresh 10:00 - Exhibitionist and voyeur aspect of a throuple dynamic 18:45 - Esther Perel and her books on keeping desire fresh in a LTR 19:25 - Liv’s ways of keeping the relationship exciting 23:00 - Demonizing the desire for sexual satisfaction 23:55 - How sex is perceived around the world 26:30 - Taboos and purity culture 31:15 - Escaping sexual oppression 38:15 - Arguments against polyamory never touch on sexuality 41:03 - Outro 41:32 - Outtakes . #polyamory #throuple #podcast . *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.

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How many episodes does Throuple Talk Podcast have?

Throuple Talk Podcast currently has 56 episodes available.

What topics does Throuple Talk Podcast cover?

The podcast is about Society & Culture, Podcasts and Relationships.

What is the most popular episode on Throuple Talk Podcast?

The episode title '#51 - How To Let Go of the Old To Embrace the New | Changing Relationships To Become A Throuple' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Throuple Talk Podcast?

The average episode length on Throuple Talk Podcast is 36 minutes.

How often are episodes of Throuple Talk Podcast released?

Episodes of Throuple Talk Podcast are typically released every 4 days, 18 hours.

When was the first episode of Throuple Talk Podcast?

The first episode of Throuple Talk Podcast was released on Aug 20, 2023.

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