This Will Get Messy

Welcome back to This Will Get Messy.
Mars is adjusting to corporate life and carrying on with her little life misfortunes... She got bitten by a spider all over her neck but she couldn’t care less because she unexpectedly went to Taylor Swift’s Eras Tour! In the meantime, Roberto got a haircut and is being compared to Travis Kelce (he really does look like Kelce). Roberto signed up to the gym with his parents and, surprisingly, his parents are still going.
Today, Roberto chose to centre the conversation around asking questions, in particular the tricker ones. Roberto is a conversation person by default so to him asking questions has become a habit. He asks questions to hear people’s perspectives and to get to know people better. On the other hand, Mars plays out the situation in her brain prior to asking. Tune into this episode to listen to your hosts chat about asking questions, navigating conversations, fun versus serious chats, a polarised world with cancel culture, friendship feedback reviews, confrontational talks, and setting boundaries.
So which person are you: do you think before asking a hard question or do you just go for it? Drop your answer on our socials.

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Welcome back to This Will Get Messy.
Roberto is old, soon, and taking his haircare routine very seriously. He’s also just finished his barista course folks (applause)! Meanwhile, Mars’ flat head is preventing her from trying the shaved head look whilst she grows out her layers. She’s fresh off a revitalising visit from her cousin / sister / bestie but a little sad that it was so short.
Birthdays, whether you love them or hate them, are definitely days laden with societal expectation. For your hosts who have family and friends all over the world, it isn’t often a day that they can bring everyone together and honestly even if they could, they probably wouldn't! Tune in to this week’s conversation about birthday plans, combining friend groups, avoiding hosting, bad birthday memories, reliance on Facebook for birthday wishes, gifting experiences over material things, and setting goals on your birthday instead of New Years. Ultimately though listeners, birthdays are about how you celebrate yourself rather than whether people are celebrating you. But just know, whether it be your birthday or not, we are grateful for you. <3

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Welcome back to This Will Get Messy.
Roberto is officially in Europe and has been stuffing his face full of Pasteis de Nata in Portugal. Meanwhile Mars was missing Roberto given she couldn’t get a text back whilst she was warding off men at the pub.
This week your hosts dive into the art of transforming frustration into fuel for positive change. With life’s demands tugging at every corner, they explore the importance of shifting focus from work to what truly matters. Tune in as they discuss the cathartic power of ranting—because sometimes, letting it all out is the only way to keep your sanity intact. Discover why having a sounding board for your rants can make all the difference, and how to channel that frustrated energy into personal projects that ignite your passion. Join the conversation about navigating exhaustion and prioritising what really counts in our chaotic lives.

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Welcome back to This Will Get Messy.
Mars is wishing she was in Kenya in an infinity pool but her reality is that puffer jacket season is almost here in the UK and it’s cheaper to fly to Spain for a weekend than take the train to Manchester for the weekend. Roberto is dealing with a little bit of stress as his time at home comes to a close and his new adventure begins. Having no full time job means he’s not been having regular weekend rests and is burning out a little, but at least he’s been eating all the foods he soon won’t be able to eat!
In this episode, Roberto and Mars dive into punctuality—or the lack thereof! This episode is about the all-too-common struggle of underestimating time and the anxiety it creates. Listen in to hear personal anecdotes about being late to a wedding and dealing with flaky friends. Your hosts also chat about the creative excuses we craft when late, the chaos of missing flights, and the frustration of being told to arrive too early. Listeners, do you consider yourself perpetually late? Share your stories with us on social media!

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Welcome back to This Will Get Messy.
Winter is kicking in for real now so Mars is thinking of her escape next summer to Tomorrowland. Until then she’s picked up her dance classes again to keep her busy. Meanwhile, Roberto’s mum is getting good at salsa and Roberto is wondering whether she will keep up the habit when he’s gone.
In an era overflowing with information, discerning truth from fiction feels increasingly daunting. This week, your hosts dive into the murky waters of misinformation, tackling everything from LinkedIn exaggerations to AI-generated explicit content. They explore the naivety of believing everything at face value, and how social media often serves as a double-edged sword—offering food recommendations while also bombarding us with clickbait and dubious marketing schemes. Expect a lively conversation about fake reviews, greenwashing, and the bizarre reality of dynamic ticket pricing. Let’s together untangle the complexities of trust in today’s hyper-connected world.

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See you next Monday!