#26 Take Your Relationship to the next Level - Dr. Jeni Lee Wahlig & Calvin Osili

07/25/24 • 126 min

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About the Speakers
Dr.Jeni and Calvin are not typical coaches; they understand what it means to be different. Identifying as a queer, trans, bi-racial, and polyamorous couple, they are dedicated relationship transformation coaches. Their mission is to end interpersonal suffering through evolved relationships and to inspire all couples to reach the highest potential in their love and lives.

Their unique relationship journey, marked by pain, struggle, conflict, and perseverance, has shaped their expertise. Their experiences include gender transition, navigating polyamory, co-parenting four children, and leaving long-term careers to follow their passions. Combined with over 20 years of relationship and personal development studies and 10 years of providing therapy, they are confident in their ability to help others achieve their relationship goals.

Jeni and Calvin's hands-on, transformational approach teaches essential skills and closely supports clients in applying them. This method empowers couples to create the extraordinary, unshakeable, and conflict-free relationships they dream of and deserve.

How to Connect with Dr.Jeni and Calvin
Request a free Call. - https://go.oncehub.com/callexploration

Visit the Website: https://www.powerfulove.com
Personal Story:
Discussion topics.
Their Troubles as a Couple early on
Dynamics when one person is not ready to do the work.
How do gender identities and pronouns play a role in their relationship dynamic?
Their signature framework for Creating extra ordinary relationships
The 3 Pillars of successful change
Why relationships move into struggle
The ONE shift that changed everything for us (and is now changing everything for our clients)
The ABCS empowering questions you need to ask your self to create change in your relationship
And the
How do they support couples who want to move from good to extraordinary in their relationships?
Guests’ Framework:
Empowered Accountability
The Five-Step Framework:
Notice what's going on within you.
Remember you can change your response.
Shift your emotional state.
Ask empowering questions.
Take action based on the empowered questions.
The ABCDs of Empowered Accountability:
Assume positive intent.
Benefit of the doubt.
Contribute to the situation positively.
Decide on a new, empowered belief.
Quotes:
"Your relationship is inviting you into your highest potential."
"You have the power and responsibility to change your relationship."
"The energy you take determines what you get back."
Show Notes:
0:01 - Introduction
2:00 - Dr. Jenni and Calvin's background
5:00 - Initial relationship struggles
10:00 - Turning points and empowered accountability
15:00 - Gender identities and pronouns in their relationship
20:00 - Open relationship dynamics
25:00 - Moving from good to extraordinary relationships
30:00 - The five-step framework
35:00 - The ABCDs of empowered accountability
40:00 - Client success stories
45:00 - Final thoughts and encouragement
Relationship advice, empowered accountability, relationship coaching, communication skills, personal growth in relationships, relationship transformation, Dr. Jenni, Calvin, open relationships.
Hashtags: #RelationshipGoals, #EmpoweredLove, #RelationshipAdvice, #PersonalGrowth, #CoupleGoals, #LoveAndGrowth, #RelationshipCoaching, #TransformYourRelationship

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How to Connect with Dr.Jeni and Calvin
Request a free Call. - https://go.oncehub.com/callexploration

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#25 Awaken the Leader With In - Martine Boily

Awaken the Leader With In
About the Speaker
Martine Boily, founder of MBL Coaching, brings over 30 years of expertise in management and leadership coaching. With a rich background in organizational and personal development, she imparts valuable knowledge to leaders and aspiring leaders alike.

Martine holds an Executive MBA in Business Administration and a multidisciplinary bachelor's degree in human resources and project management. She is also a Lean Six Sigma Green Belt, underscoring her commitment to operational excellence and continuous improvement.

Her dynamic approach, excellent teamwork, and communication skills, along with her experience in project management and process improvement, make her an invaluable team asset. Martine is renowned for her innovative thinking and openness to new ideas.

Throughout her career, she has led significant projects, honing her relational, listening, and analytical skills. She has held senior roles such as Senior Manager of National Operations and Director of Human Resources and Operations.

Martine’s goal is to smooth the leadership journey, helping leaders overcome obstacles, unlock potential, and foster team cohesion. She values authenticity, ethics, expert leadership, and consistency.

Her extensive community involvement, including work with amateur sports, childhood illness organizations, and education, has enriched her both personally and professionally. Her appointment to the Superior Council of Education highlights her commitment to giving back.

Recently named one of the Top 15 Coaches in Quebec for 2024.
Personal Story:
Martin's journey began over 30 years ago, working her way up in male-dominated sectors. She faced significant challenges but persisted to become a senior leader.
A turning point in her career came when she realized she was missing out on family life and personal satisfaction despite professional success. This led her to change her approach to leadership, prioritizing work-life balance and authenticity.
Questions Asked:
How do you help leaders balance their professional and personal lives?
What common challenges do senior executives face when they come to you?
How do you help leaders achieve their goals without working excessive hours?
What are some of the biggest mistakes you've made in your leadership journey?
What advice would you give to new leaders?
Quotes:
"You can be a leader and have an amazing life, amazing kids, and be a better parent and human being."
"Most leaders have the answers within them; sometimes, they just need someone to talk to and bring those answers out."
"Leadership can be fun; it doesn't have to be hard."
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Leadership Coaching, Work-Life Balance, Emotional Intelligence, Executive Coaching, Leadership Development
#LeadershipCoaching #WorkLifeBalance #ExecutiveCoaching #LeadershipDevelopment #EmotionalIntelligence #AuthenticLeadership #CareerSuccess #HumanLeadership
Connect with Martine
https://www.mblcoaching.net/en
https://www.facebook.com/martine.boily.79

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#27 The Secret to Creating True Fans With Laurie Hardie

About the Speaker
Laurie is a Seattle radio personality, author, Life Coach and podcast Coach. She wants women over 50 to share their brilliance and leave a legacy to be cherished for generations.
Laurie Hardie is a seasoned radio presenter with 35 plus years in the trenches of radio production.

Over 3000 episodes under her belt and on a mission to transform the broadcasting Industry with her wisdom from the school of hard knocks.

In Lauries words, there is an easy way to talk to people making them feel like you see them and appreciate them and there is a way to address your audience that makes them feel like they are not part of the conversation.

Unfortunately many of us exclude our listeners without realizing we are doing that.

The 2nd big part of what laurie does is

Helping women over 50 get their wisdom out of their head into a legacy for the next generations to come.

She has a foolproof formula to help women over 50 publish their first book.

She's produced over 3000 podcast episodes and she uses the ins and outs to help these women create a hit podcast that can generate income.

She also offers coach training to become a certified coach.

Imagine turning your life lessons into a program /Courses if you are looking to

Generate more Income and feel a calling to Coach others .

And if all the above dont light you up but you still love the Idea of building a legacy, she still helps you just Record or Write whatever you want to leave behind for the next generation. “It doesn't have to be published but it has to be written or recorded “

Today we are going to dive in and find out what 35 plus years in the trenches have taught Laurie about broadcasting and Legacy Building .

Connect with Laurie
https://www.facebook.com/laurie.hardie.7
Intsta @didnotseethatcoming
twitter: didnotseethatcoming
Personal Story
Early Inspiration: Lurie shares her journey, starting with her love for radio sparked by listening to a female DJ, Charlie Parker, who inspired her to pursue a career in radio.
Questions Asked
How to start a podcast in a way that connects with the audience personally.
The importance of speaking to one person rather than a crowd in podcasting.
Strategies for women over 50 to build legacies through various mediums like books, podcasts, and courses.
The significance of documenting one's life stories for future generations.
Guest Framework
Making Personal Connections: Lurie emphasizes the importance of addressing the audience as individuals, creating a sense of personal connection and inclusivity.
Building a Legacy: She outlines different ways women over 50 can document and share their wisdom, ensuring their stories and lessons live on.
Overcoming Self-Doubt: Lurie provides strategies for overcoming the fear of being seen and heard, encouraging women to value their experiences and share them.
Lurie leaves listeners with the final thought: "It doesn't have to be published, but it has to be written or recorded."
Quotes from the Guest
"When we talk to one person, we talk to everybody."
"There is always a way to make money when we care about people and when we care about helping people."
"Our stories matter, and the people that need us will find us."
Hashtags: #PodcastingTips #LegacyBuilding #WomenOver50 #Storytelling #RadioJourney #PersonalConnection #OvercomingDoubt #PodcastCommunity