Beyond the kink: unseen benefits TO YOU when you serve a Femdom Mistress

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03/24/25 • 32 min

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Mistress Demi joins us today to talk about some of the things you might not think about when you serve a Mistress, Femdom and/or Goddess.
What does the submissive get out of the D/s relationship?
In previous episodes, we’ve talked a lot about the physical benefits of BDSM: stress relief, relaxation after subspace, endorphin release from pain play, etc. Today, we switch things up to have a conversation about benefits you might not have thought of.
Goddess Demi brings up a great point. A lot of her submissives are in dominant roles in the rest of their life so submission becomes a break from having to be in charge.
Some of the topics include:
Submission as a way to let go of life’s responsibilities
How working with a Pro Domme can allow the sub to explore all kinds of things (sexual and non sexual) without judgment.
Personal growth because the submissive is a reflection of his or her Domme and the sub is therefore working to make his/her Mistress proud
Greater intimacy with the primacy partner (wife or girlfriend).
Learning the importance of communication in BDSM, carries over into other areas of life.
Using BDSM kink relationships to break away from shame, guilt and the pressures of trying to conform. This is especially true for feminization and sissy training.
This wide-ranging conversation about kink and the intersection of BDSM and trust, vulnerability and discovering a sense of belonging.
Goddess Demi’s blog: Sensual Cock Tease
Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Previous Episode

Are you an alpha man who yearns to be a feminized sissy?

Are you an alpha male for much of your life - in charge at work and/or home - but you have a secret you can’t share with any of THOSE people?
Are you, perhaps, sexually submissive and feminization helps with that submissive feeling?
Are you a sissy, crossdresser or even wondering if you might be trans?
These questions inspired today’s episode we talk about power dynamics, power exchange and feminization by a Dominant Woman.
Topics include:
** What is an Alpha man?
** How common is it for an Alpha man to want to be feminized?
** What percentage of sissies that call for Femdom phone sex have an Alpha type career or job?
** Does the person who is often in control always want to be in charge?
** Are the Femdom hosts always in Domme or Mistress mode?
** What do we mean by someone who is sexually submissive?
** What does a Femdom look for in a sissy or submissive?
** What about the use of erotic humiliation when it is sweet teasing or all the way to degrading emasculation?
Both ladies emphasize that not everyone into feminization is submissive. This is especially true for those who are crossdressers or who identify as transwomen.
We also talk about some of the relationships we have with our subs and girly gurls.
How does having a close relationship with an online Mistress help with emotions like shame and loneliness?
Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Next Episode

Maybe you aren’t submissive, what now?

Today’s episode is inspired by someone who is new to phone sex and stumbled across the LDW Enchantrix Empire of adult sites. He sent an email to Ms Erika asking if he can still do a call if he’s not submissive.
That’s a great question!
It’s true that most of the LDW sites have a Femdom focus. The Weekly Hot Spot podcast concentrates on BDSM, kink, feminization, and things like sissy training.
But, do you have to be submissive to call us? The short answer is no but that answer is too short for a full podcast episode so the hosts discuss talking with people who simply call for an intimate conversation with a smart, beautiful woman.
Did you know that one of the most popular LDW sites is called VoxErotic? That means Voice Erotic or sexy voices. Which we do have no matter what we’re talking about.
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika almost take for granted that our most popular skill set includes things like being an engaging, well-rounded conversationalist. Even those who identify as submissive for the erotic roleplay don’t want to be the sub for the conversation after the play.
This is a look behind the scenes of what we do and how we do it. Candid conversation, funny stories of epic sex fails and ideas for your future call with us. Speaking of joking around about sex ... remeber sex doesn’t need to be all serious all the time - it’s fun to be frisky with friends without the Femdom focus.
Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
Vox Erotic