Trigger Warning: This episode discusses suicide.

Venus delves into the rarely discussed emotional aftermath of cuckolding through an unflinchingly honest conversation with John, who shares his journey from fantasy to reality – and the mental health crisis that followed.
After 20+ years of marriage, John finally revealed his deepest desire to his wife, setting them on a path neither fully anticipated. While many discussions about cuckolding focus on the erotic thrill, John describes his first real experience with brutal candor: "Fear, nausea... genuinely, just what have I done? Why have I done this to myself? It was horrifying." The raw vulnerability as he recounts coming home and breaking down in tears provides crucial perspective for anyone considering this lifestyle.
What makes John's testimony particularly valuable is the paradoxical psychology he unveils. Despite experiencing severe depression that eventually led to suicidal thoughts, he never wanted to stop – and often desired to escalate their activities. "The most warped thing about all this is that at the absolute lowest points, I wanted to continue," he explains, illuminating how the emotional struggle itself becomes intertwined with the arousal. This emotional complexity extends to feelings of sexual irrelevance that many cuckolds face: "Once your wife gets a bull that's really good at fucking her, you realize that you're not sexually valid in the same way anymore."
Through communication with his wife and developing healthier boundaries, John eventually found balance. His story serves as both caution and guidance for curious couples, highlighting the crucial importance of mental health support when exploring intense kinks. "You don't know how you're going to feel until you do it," he warns, pushing back against the "cheerleading" common in online communities.

Cuckolding-Friendly Counselors and Therapists:

American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists

National Coalition for Sexual Freedoms - Kink Aware Professionals Directory

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Becca and Drew share their 29-year journey from teenage sweethearts to a cuckolding couple, revealing how they've maintained a passionate relationship by embracing sexual exploration and open communication.
• Met as teenagers and knew early on they were into "more than just vanilla sex"
• Discovered their interest in cuckolding after a teenage incident where Drew was aroused by seeing hickeys another man had left on Becca
• Experienced their first spontaneous cuckolding encounter in a Jeep parking lot with friends watching outside
• Met their most memorable bull online who understood the psychology of everyone's roles and set a high standard
• Learning to overcome shame and judgment from others while strengthening their relationship
• Being in the lifestyle has made them both better lovers to each other
• Communication and aftercare are essential to their success
• Advice for women: do self-work to destroy societal conditioning about female sexuality
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It's another riveting episode featuring the listener confessions! This time about what it's really like to feel sexually unable to complete with black men and how that might just make things really enjoyable. Is it true that there is some sort of natural reward for admitting the truth?
Links:
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Confident Cuck joins the show to talk about the cuck experience, identifying as a cuckold, sexual denial, and advice for cucks who are stuck on the fence. He also dives into the super hot topic of re-penetration, reclamation, reconnecting, or whatever you want to call it sloppy seconds sex. Basically how hot it is to have sex with your wife after she's been with her bull!

Confident Cuck (Gianni) is a popular cuck blogger who discusses all things cuckold https://confidentcuck.wordpress.com/

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Confident Cuck - are stags really cucks? https://www.buzzsprout.com/822292/14336251-are-stags-actually-cucks
Cuck My Life Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/cuck-my-life-podcast/id1741285846
Who is your favorite bull? https://x.com/CuckoldressV/status/1803445895322828886

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