
Ep. 36: Part 1: The Invisible Skill That Transforms Relationships
09/27/23 • 35 min
When you're struggling in a relationship, it's so easy to think that someone else changing their behavior will solve your problem.
What if I told you that you could cultivate an invisible skill that would actually be the thing that could change all your relationships for the better?
There is no magic pill and you can't do it overnight.
It takes self-awareness, time, practice and discipline.
I realize I'm not really 'selling' this very well, but to be honest, we live in a world that's moving too fast where so many people feel disconnected.
The promise of another quick fix is not going to solve that.
But what I know to be 100% true is that when this particular skill is cultivated, not only has it changed the quality of my client's relationships, but their life choices and the trajectory of their lives as well.
The time and dedication are well worth the effort.
Curious to hear more?
Check out "Ep 36: Part 1 The Invisible Skill That Transforms Relationships" where I break down how developing this skill can help you:
- be less reactive and more responsive in relationships
- deepen your connection with the people you care about
- initiate tough conversations
- end relationships that are harmful
Work with me: Schedule a Session
Learn about my 4 Month Mentorship: Reclaim Yourself
Audio course: Boundaries for a Better Relationship
Free Masterclass: Strengthen Your Energetic Boundaries
Website: manishatare.com
IG: @manishatare
When you're struggling in a relationship, it's so easy to think that someone else changing their behavior will solve your problem.
What if I told you that you could cultivate an invisible skill that would actually be the thing that could change all your relationships for the better?
There is no magic pill and you can't do it overnight.
It takes self-awareness, time, practice and discipline.
I realize I'm not really 'selling' this very well, but to be honest, we live in a world that's moving too fast where so many people feel disconnected.
The promise of another quick fix is not going to solve that.
But what I know to be 100% true is that when this particular skill is cultivated, not only has it changed the quality of my client's relationships, but their life choices and the trajectory of their lives as well.
The time and dedication are well worth the effort.
Curious to hear more?
Check out "Ep 36: Part 1 The Invisible Skill That Transforms Relationships" where I break down how developing this skill can help you:
- be less reactive and more responsive in relationships
- deepen your connection with the people you care about
- initiate tough conversations
- end relationships that are harmful
Work with me: Schedule a Session
Learn about my 4 Month Mentorship: Reclaim Yourself
Audio course: Boundaries for a Better Relationship
Free Masterclass: Strengthen Your Energetic Boundaries
Website: manishatare.com
IG: @manishatare
Previous Episode

Ep. 35: WHY You Lose Yourself in Relationships?
Have you ever felt so absorbed by a relationship that you lost yourself?
This can happen to anyone, but if you resonate with being highly sensitive, you might be more susceptible to it.
While there can be beauty in feeling a deep connection, when you opt to connect at the expense of losing yourself, it’s only a matter of time until you personally feel the impact, physically, psychologically or emotionally.
In this week’s episode of the Transform Your Relationship Podcast, we dig into:
- how losing yourself shows up in different types of relationships
- why HSP’s are more susceptible to losing themselves
- what you can do to start to become more aware of and shift this pattern
Work with me: Schedule a Session
Learn about my 4 Month Mentorship: Reclaim Yourself
Audio course: Boundaries for a Better Relationship
Free Masterclass: Strengthen Your Energetic Boundaries
Website: manishatare.com
IG: @manishatare
Next Episode

Ep 37: Part 2: The Invisible Skill that Transforms Relationships
We’re living in wild times and it can be challenging on any given day to navigate what’s happening in the world.
Not only are we trying to process events in the world at large, but we’re also attempting to be present and attend to our immediate relationships – it can all feel like too much some days.
It’s why I’m taking the conversation I started on the last episode of The Transform Your Relationship Podcast to the next level – all about building your inner and often invisible processing skills so you have the bandwidth to:
- explore what’s actually triggering you in a relationship that’s hidden beneath the surface
- increase your capacity to sit with discomfort so you can deepen and grow your relationships
- learn how to turn inwards for answers to your next steps vs trying to control someone else’s behavior
Work with me: Schedule a Session
Learn about my 4 Month Mentorship: Reclaim Yourself
Audio course: Boundaries for a Better Relationship
Free Masterclass: Strengthen Your Energetic Boundaries
Website: manishatare.com
IG: @manishatare
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