
Tuesday Talks: Struggling to Find an Orgy? Justin’s Dilemma
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02/25/25 • 18 min
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Tuesday Talks: Struggling to Find an Orgy? Justin’s Dilemma | Episode 48
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another Tuesday Talks segment, where they tackle listener questions with honesty and humor.
This week, Justin writes in, frustrated with lifestyle dating sites and struggling to find the motivation to travel an hour each way to his nearest club. He wonders if he’ll ever experience another orgy again—or if the lifestyle is just too much work. Dan and Lacy break down the challenges of meeting lifestyle connections online versus in-person, share tips for maximizing opportunities, and offer advice on keeping the excitement alive.
Tune in for a candid discussion on making the lifestyle work for you—without burning out!
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Tuesday Talks: Struggling to Find an Orgy? Justin’s Dilemma | Episode 48
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another Tuesday Talks segment, where they tackle listener questions with honesty and humor.
This week, Justin writes in, frustrated with lifestyle dating sites and struggling to find the motivation to travel an hour each way to his nearest club. He wonders if he’ll ever experience another orgy again—or if the lifestyle is just too much work. Dan and Lacy break down the challenges of meeting lifestyle connections online versus in-person, share tips for maximizing opportunities, and offer advice on keeping the excitement alive.
Tune in for a candid discussion on making the lifestyle work for you—without burning out!
- The Swing Nation -
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Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl
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Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder!Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing
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Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder!Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing
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