EP 28 The Art of One Way Conversations
06/16/23 • 25 min
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Understanding One-Way Conversations in Dementia: Communicating Beyond Words
Ken shares how he has adapted to communicating with his non-verbal wife, Shanna, who has Alzheimer's disease.
Ken discusses the different stages of Shanna's verbal decline and reveals how he has learned to read her body language and facial expressions to maintain a deep connection.
Through personal anecdotes and lessons learned over a 12-year journey, Ken aims to provide hope and practical advice for caregivers of loved ones with dementia. The episode emphasizes the importance of staying connected beyond words, using a spiritual or higher power as guidance, and not letting the disease define the relationship.
00:00 Introduction: Struggling to Communicate
00:37 Welcome to the Surviving Alzheimer's Podcast
01:13 Mastering One-Way Conversations
02:50 Listener Comment and Appreciation
03:54 Understanding Alzheimer's Impact on Communication
07:03 Shanna's Journey: A Timeline
10:45 Adapting to Non-Verbal Communication
13:07 The Sixth Sense of Communication
16:15 Reflecting on the Journey
18:57 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
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Send Ken a Text Message about the Podcast
Understanding One-Way Conversations in Dementia: Communicating Beyond Words
Ken shares how he has adapted to communicating with his non-verbal wife, Shanna, who has Alzheimer's disease.
Ken discusses the different stages of Shanna's verbal decline and reveals how he has learned to read her body language and facial expressions to maintain a deep connection.
Through personal anecdotes and lessons learned over a 12-year journey, Ken aims to provide hope and practical advice for caregivers of loved ones with dementia. The episode emphasizes the importance of staying connected beyond words, using a spiritual or higher power as guidance, and not letting the disease define the relationship.
00:00 Introduction: Struggling to Communicate
00:37 Welcome to the Surviving Alzheimer's Podcast
01:13 Mastering One-Way Conversations
02:50 Listener Comment and Appreciation
03:54 Understanding Alzheimer's Impact on Communication
07:03 Shanna's Journey: A Timeline
10:45 Adapting to Non-Verbal Communication
13:07 The Sixth Sense of Communication
16:15 Reflecting on the Journey
18:57 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
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EP 27 The Miracle of Music
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The Transformative Power of Music in Alzheimer's Care
Ken discusses the transformative and restorative power of music in Alzheimer's care, drawing from his 12-year journey with his wife Shanna. Ken shares personal anecdotes about how music has helped him and Shanna stay connected, even amidst her battle with dementia.
He highlights the impact of music therapy, background music in care facilities, and shares tips on using music to create a peaceful environment and lasting memories. The episode also features listener comments and insights on the benefits of integrating music into caregiving routines.
00:00 Introduction: Easing Frustration and Reliving Memories
01:04 Episode 27: The Miracle of Music
01:56 Listener's Comment: A Touching Review
02:56 The Power of Music in Dementia Care
03:09 Personal Stories: Music in Our Lives
04:26 Transformative Power of Music
06:01 Music in Memory Care Centers
11:41 Creating Musical Memories at Home
12:45 Special Songs and Lasting Memories
14:54 A Song for Shanna
16:07 Music's Role in Memory Care
16:51 Dancing Through the Years
18:16 Music Therapy Sessions
19:59 Playing Together
22:18 Special Moments with Music
23:27 Using Music to Connect
24:42 Practical Tips for Music Use
26:14 Invitation to Share Experiences
26:43 Upcoming Episodes and Farewell
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EP 29 Lessons in Triggers and Healing
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Healing our Triggers: The Parable of the Pool
Ken Cardita shares a heartfelt story called 'The Parable of the Pool.' Ken recounts his journey of caring for his wife, Shanna, who was diagnosed with Alzheimer's in 2017. Despite initial resistance, Ken decides to build a pool for Shanna, honoring a promise he made 30 years ago.
Throughout the episode, he illustrates how untreated triggers can cause emotional damage and emphasizes the importance of prioritizing a loved one’s desires over personal fears and logic. Ken also discusses the emotional ups and downs they faced, how the pool became a source of joy and connection, and the lessons he learned about addressing triggers and reprogramming negative emotions. He concludes by announcing upcoming training materials and coaching opportunities to help others in similar situations find peace and healing.
00:00 Introduction: Overcoming Emotional Triggers
00:36 Welcome to the Surviving Alzheimer's Podcast
02:46 Listener Comment: A Shared Journey
03:49 Background: The Parable of the Pool
09:02 The Pool Dilemma: A Source of Frustration
13:39 Decision to Build the Pool
17:51 Building the Pool: A Gift of Love
19:25 Cherished Memories and Lessons Learned
25:50 The Pool After Shanna's Move to Memory Care
28:20 Final Reflections and Moving Forward
31:12 Upcoming Resources and Closing Remarks
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