FINGERING 101: how this old-school 3rd base can become your favorite sex act.

05/12/23 • 16 min

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What do Scarlett Johnasson, Angelina Jolie, Reese Witherspoon, Mila Kunis, Keira Knightley and a finger have in common? They’ve all been in SEXY SEXY movie scenes featuring 3rd base. Hollywood has done a damn good job at showing this sexy sex act for years–Mad Men, Fear, The Duchess, After Sex and more. But when most of us think of fingering, we may harken back to a time when our teenage partner acted like their finger was a tiny wiener. For a lot women, our early fingering experiences were just not good. Ah, but that can change. Fingering can be hot. FLAMEADO hot. It can actually become your preferred sex act, because it can be done anywhere, by anyone, and you don’t have to worry about STDs. In this episode, hear all about fingering and how it's not just for horny, inept teenagers anymore.

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