It's Called Parenting, Not Childing: Raising Emotionally Healthy Children.
04/27/23 • 32 min
Jennifer Abbatiello is the founder of Your Transformed Family and a Certified Parent Coach. She is a mom, wife, cancer survivor, recovering perfectionist, and dominant parent. She is dedicated to helping parents feel calm, confident, and connected to their kids. Her methods come from real-life, hands on experience and today she shares this wisdom with the FIGGI community.
Episode Key Moments:
[00:20] Introduction
[02:50] Extra stressors in modern parenting and the overwhelming how-to advice that adds to the pressure.
[03:47] The anxiety and stressors placed on our children and how this affects their emotional wellbeing.
[05:28] Why Jenn chose this path and what was her breaking point that led her on this path of coaching parents.
[11:43] Parenting within our unique situations like mental illnesses and high-stress jobs.
[17:35] Should we be honest with our kids about how we are feeling?
[19:52] How to discipline our kids without making them anxious about what they did wrong.
[25:28] How to see discipline through when you're ready to give up.
[26:37] How to raise healthily balanced children when we can't always lead by example.
[31:00] Get in touch with Jenn.
Guest Details:
Jennifer Abbatiello: Website | Instagram | Facebook | Book A Call with Jenn
Jeanne Retief: FIGGI Beauty Shop | My FIGGI Life Podcast | My FIGGI Life Blog | Instagram | Facebook
EPISODE LINKS
Dr. Amelia Kelley: About | Dr. Kelley's Books | Instagram
Jennifer Abbatiello is the founder of Your Transformed Family and a Certified Parent Coach. She is a mom, wife, cancer survivor, recovering perfectionist, and dominant parent. She is dedicated to helping parents feel calm, confident, and connected to their kids. Her methods come from real-life, hands on experience and today she shares this wisdom with the FIGGI community.
Episode Key Moments:
[00:20] Introduction
[02:50] Extra stressors in modern parenting and the overwhelming how-to advice that adds to the pressure.
[03:47] The anxiety and stressors placed on our children and how this affects their emotional wellbeing.
[05:28] Why Jenn chose this path and what was her breaking point that led her on this path of coaching parents.
[11:43] Parenting within our unique situations like mental illnesses and high-stress jobs.
[17:35] Should we be honest with our kids about how we are feeling?
[19:52] How to discipline our kids without making them anxious about what they did wrong.
[25:28] How to see discipline through when you're ready to give up.
[26:37] How to raise healthily balanced children when we can't always lead by example.
[31:00] Get in touch with Jenn.
Guest Details:
Jennifer Abbatiello: Website | Instagram | Facebook | Book A Call with Jenn
Jeanne Retief: FIGGI Beauty Shop | My FIGGI Life Podcast | My FIGGI Life Blog | Instagram | Facebook
EPISODE LINKS
Dr. Amelia Kelley: About | Dr. Kelley's Books | Instagram
Previous Episode
Lessons Learned From Leaders & Bosses
Jeanne makes it clear in this episode that there are lessons to be learnt from both good and bad bosses. She speaks against the notion that there is nothing to be learnt from bad bosses. Jeanne acknowledges that we’ve all had the horrible boss that broke our souls and traumatized us emotionally. Not all leaders are made equal. However, we do learn from them all. Whether this experience was positive or negative, they did, in fact, shape us in some way.
Jeanne has been in the entrepreneurial space for over a decade, and she still holds true to these valuable lessons she learned from the leaders that shaped her into the businesswoman she is today. Not all of these experiences were positive fairy tales, and she had many days when she came home crying and dreading the fact that she needed to go back to “that place” tomorrow. However, she's learned from this. Some of these lessons were extremely hard, but this did not make them any less effective.
Here are the 5 most significant lessons she's learned from previous bosses and other leaders, good and bad, who she worked for and with in her career.
Links and Information
Jeanne Retief: FIGGI Beauty Shop | My FIGGI Life Blog | My FIGGI Life Podcast | Instagram
Blog post: 5 Leadership Lessons I Learned From Previous Bosses
EPISODE LINKS
Dr. Amelia Kelley: About | Dr. Kelley's Books | Instagram
Next Episode
Why is Double Cleansing a Skincare Game Changer?
Jeanne talks explains what double cleansing is, how it works, what it does, and why it is a skincare game changer. She explains the uniqueness of the FIGGI Beauty Double Cleanse Duo and how double cleansing has changed her skin. Get ready for some chemistry lessons.
Episode Key Moments:
[00:00] Introduction
[00:45] Why you need a beautifully clean skin and Jeanne's golden skincare rule.
[03:27] Why is there so much confusing advice on cleansing? How do we navigate this with sensitive skin?
[05:40] What is double cleansing? How does it work?
[07:53] Why do I need two separate cleansers? Why can't I use the same cleanser twice?
[09:37] How do we double cleanse?
[13:06] Why is the FIGGI Beauty Double Cleanse Duo unique?
[15:03] What has double cleansing done for Jeanne's dry and sensitive skin?
[16:07] Conclusion.
Jeanne Retief: FIGGI Beauty Shop | My FIGGI Life Podcast | My FIGGI Life Blog | Instagram | Facebook
EPISODE LINKS
Dr. Amelia Kelley: About | Dr. Kelley's Books | Instagram
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