You Won't Let Me Be Great

02/16/23 • 91 min

This episode is about establishing your greatness. Siblings find themselves competing for greatness in their family. Are there people in your life who diminish your greatness? Are you allowing comparison to rob you of all joy? If so, you will find nuggets of wisdom in this episode. Anitra and Andre discuss sibling comparisons and learn to define their greatness apart from others. Let’s identify what keeps us from reaching our greatness and how to disconnect from that situation. This episode encourages you to embrace the process of determining your greatness within yourself and the community.
Quotable Moments:

Choose what is valuable and relevant to your future self. ~ Andre
Don’t let extrinsic factors that you perceive as necessary set your standard. ~ Anitra
Who I am, not what I have, defines my greatness. ~ Andre
You might discover the deadweight to greatness is actually you. ~ Anitra
We all should embrace our uniqueness at our earliest opportunity. ~ Brain Cuban
Learn what to give permission in your life to move forward in greatness. ~ Andre

Sound Editors: Kyle Davis and Dwayne McClendon
Music: Maxwell Music
Photography: K.Cross Photography

Keywords:

#MentalHealth
#therapy
#psychotherapy
#relationships
#psychology
#healing
#counseling
#ministry
#theology
#transformation
#change
#counselor
#therapist
#wholeness
#healthy
#health
#lifestyle
#mental
#emotions
#emotional
#spiritual
#minister
#christianliving
#christian
#wellness
#lifecoach
#forgiveness
#SavageSibling
#Savage
#Sibling
#Brother
#Sister
#Family
#Parent
#S2Mediaworks
#SavageSiblingsPodcast
#Podcast
#Sustainable Greatness
#Sibling comparison
#Being pigeonholed
#Environmentally vibes
#Plateaued connections
#Stagnate situation
#Life’s algorithm
#Find your community
#Mindset to be great
#Hear connections
#Discerning connection

Link to resources:

Genesis 1: Focus on “let” giving permission, allow to exist (level of greatness)
Brian Cuban Story: https://briancuban.com/

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Choose what is valuable and relevant to your future self. ~ Andre
Don’t let extrinsic factors that you perceive as necessary set your standard. ~ Anitra
Who I am, not what I have, defines my greatness. ~ Andre
You might discover the deadweight to greatness is actually you. ~ Anitra
We all should embrace our uniqueness at our earliest opportunity. ~ Brain Cuban
Learn what to give permission in your life to move forward in greatness. ~ Andre

Sound Editors: Kyle Davis and Dwayne McClendon
Music: Maxwell Music
Photography: K.Cross Photography

Keywords:

#MentalHealth
#therapy
#psychotherapy
#relationships
#psychology
#healing
#counseling
#ministry
#theology
#transformation
#change
#counselor
#therapist
#wholeness
#healthy
#health
#lifestyle
#mental
#emotions
#emotional
#spiritual
#minister
#christianliving
#christian
#wellness
#lifecoach
#forgiveness
#SavageSibling
#Savage
#Sibling
#Brother
#Sister
#Family
#Parent
#S2Mediaworks
#SavageSiblingsPodcast
#Podcast
#Sustainable Greatness
#Sibling comparison
#Being pigeonholed
#Environmentally vibes
#Plateaued connections
#Stagnate situation
#Life’s algorithm
#Find your community
#Mindset to be great
#Hear connections
#Discerning connection

Link to resources:

Genesis 1: Focus on “let” giving permission, allow to exist (level of greatness)
Brian Cuban Story: https://briancuban.com/

Call to Action:

Post comments! Leave us a review!
Like, subscribe and share with your favorite savage sibling!
Share your thoughts on how you define your greatness.
Share your sibling shadow stories.
Any topics you want us to discuss?

Brutally Honest. Relentlessly Transparent. Unapologetically Authentic.

Previous Episode

I Wish I Was A Little Bit Taller

Join us for an exploration of identity and commitment to the wishlist of life! How do you use your character traits and values to grow or reach your dreams? As “purposed” people we need reminders that we can always redefine and evolve in our life’s journey. This episode focuses on learning how to be resourceful and maximize your day-to-day opportunities. If you constantly make a wish list, but never move forward, this episode will help you turn your wish into reality. Are you ready to take a risk on yourself or do you find that you are sabotaging your opportunity? This episode will unpack real ways you can move forward or “grow taller”.
Quotable Moments:

“When the wishing gets real, you start to get taller.” Anitra
“The moment you don’t walk into these opportunities, you lose your sense of self. “ Andre
“When you know who you are, it will inform your wish list.” Anitra
“I'm trying to be the first best me, by practicing authenticity.” Andre

Sound Editors: Kyle Davis and Dwayne McClendon

Music: Maxwell Music

Photography: K.Cross Photography

Keywords:

#TransformativeExperience
#Redefine
#Evolve
#Authenticity
#Self-evaluation
#Sabotagingopportunity
#Identity
#Existential
#Boundaries

Call to Action:

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Brutally Honest. Relentlessly Transparent. Unapologetically Authentic.

Next Episode

Tap Out!

This episode is about knowing if you should lean in or tap out. If you find yourself in a continual cycle of indecisiveness, this episode is for you. Anitra and Andre unpack strategies for knowing how and when to move on and identifying what you learned from the experience. Join the sibling pair and reflect on times when you struggle with embracing the need to quit and when to stay the course. Life’s experiences will always beg the question, “what is my motivation for tapping out or staying?” The right answer to that question always leads to a better you.

Memorable quotes:

What is the difference between what we expected and what happened? ~ Andre
Success sometimes comes at the darkest time before you tap out. ~ Anitra
There is a sensitivity to the unexpected that limits your ability to make a decision to move on. ~ Andre
Stop complaining or wavering, ride and rest in the decision. ~ Anitra
What is the cost of learning, the cost is investment or expense. ~ Andre
The grass is greener where you water it. ~ Anitra

Keywords:

#MentalHealth, #therapy, #psychotherapy, #relationships, #psychology, #healing, #counseling, #ministry, #theology, #transformation, #change, #counselor, #therapist, #wholeness, #healthy, #health, #lifestyle, #mental, #emotions, #emotional, #spiritual, #minister, #christianliving, #christian, #wellness, #lifecoach, #forgiveness, #SavageSibling, #Savage, #Sibling, #Brother, #Sister, #Family, #Parent, #S2Mediaworks, #SavageSiblingsPodcast

#Tapout, #Completion, #Learningprocess, #Intuitiveresponse, #Remnantexperience, #Interdependence, #Relationshipinvestment, #Forwardthinkingmindset, #Equippedforjourney, #Self-limitedsituation, #DesertEagleExperience, #Commitment, #Valuedjourney, #Thanoseffect

Call to Action:

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CHAPTERS

00:00 - Introduction

01:00 - Sibling Check-In

05:09 - Sibling Sound-Off: What did we learn?

18:37 - Sponsorship: S2 Mediaworks

19:32 - Savage Segment: To Let Be...

26:50 - Savage Segment: An Individual Decision

41:34 - Savage Segment: Two Questions About Quitting

50:15 - Savage Segment: Snatch Or Release To Move Beyond

01:03:53 - Savage Segment: The Thanos Effect

01:05:57 - Transformational Perspective: Be Prepared To Make The Right Decision

01:13:51 - Quick Shot Segment: Tap Out or Lean In