Who Told You?
03/16/23 • 82 min
This episode focuses on the narrative we tell ourselves to create the image we want. Andre and Anitra challenge “stinking thinking” and focus on understanding our personal story through life’s truth. We learn to avoid filtering what we want rather than honoring the truth. The siblings discuss what you have to do to preserve yourself and move forward as you accept the truth. This episode examines the depth of understanding our personal narratives and fighting the internal negatives that lead us to false truth. Let’s examine our character, challenge the stories that we embellish and face the journey's authenticity. Telling your truth leads to your best self.
Memorable quotes:
- “My story isn't what I want so I create what I want.” Andre
- “I don't want everyone to see my truth.” Anitra
- “I have to tolerate the pain that comes with my truth. “ Andre
- “The narrative impacts actions and creates tangible lifestyles. “ Anitra
- “Own your chapters so others can know the depth of your story. “ Andre
- “We create these filters that make us feel safe.” Anitra
Keywords:
#MentalHealth, #therapy, #psychotherapy, #relationships, #psychology, #healing, #counseling, #ministry, #theology, #transformation, #change, #counselor, #therapist, #wholeness, #healthy, #health, #lifestyle, #mental, #emotions, #emotional, #spiritual, #minister, #christianliving, #christian, #wellness, #lifecoach, #forgiveness, #SavageSibling, #Savage, #Sibling, #Brother, #Sister, #Family, #Parent, #S2Mediaworks, #SavageSiblingsPodcast
#Narrative, #Falsenarrative, #Honoryourtruth, #Life’salarms, #Filteringtruth, #Embellishment, #Undefendedpart, #Similardepths, #Self-knowledge, #Fearofjudgment, #Self-talk, #Authenticity
Call to Action:
- Post comments! Leave us a review!
- Share your thoughts about your siblings' experiences on telling and living with your truth.
- Thoughts on living your authentic life?
- Any topics you want us to discuss?
Brutally Honest. Relentlessly Transparent. Unapologetically Authentic.
This episode focuses on the narrative we tell ourselves to create the image we want. Andre and Anitra challenge “stinking thinking” and focus on understanding our personal story through life’s truth. We learn to avoid filtering what we want rather than honoring the truth. The siblings discuss what you have to do to preserve yourself and move forward as you accept the truth. This episode examines the depth of understanding our personal narratives and fighting the internal negatives that lead us to false truth. Let’s examine our character, challenge the stories that we embellish and face the journey's authenticity. Telling your truth leads to your best self.
Memorable quotes:
- “My story isn't what I want so I create what I want.” Andre
- “I don't want everyone to see my truth.” Anitra
- “I have to tolerate the pain that comes with my truth. “ Andre
- “The narrative impacts actions and creates tangible lifestyles. “ Anitra
- “Own your chapters so others can know the depth of your story. “ Andre
- “We create these filters that make us feel safe.” Anitra
Keywords:
#MentalHealth, #therapy, #psychotherapy, #relationships, #psychology, #healing, #counseling, #ministry, #theology, #transformation, #change, #counselor, #therapist, #wholeness, #healthy, #health, #lifestyle, #mental, #emotions, #emotional, #spiritual, #minister, #christianliving, #christian, #wellness, #lifecoach, #forgiveness, #SavageSibling, #Savage, #Sibling, #Brother, #Sister, #Family, #Parent, #S2Mediaworks, #SavageSiblingsPodcast
#Narrative, #Falsenarrative, #Honoryourtruth, #Life’salarms, #Filteringtruth, #Embellishment, #Undefendedpart, #Similardepths, #Self-knowledge, #Fearofjudgment, #Self-talk, #Authenticity
Call to Action:
- Post comments! Leave us a review!
- Share your thoughts about your siblings' experiences on telling and living with your truth.
- Thoughts on living your authentic life?
- Any topics you want us to discuss?
Brutally Honest. Relentlessly Transparent. Unapologetically Authentic.
Previous Episode
Tap Out!
This episode is about knowing if you should lean in or tap out. If you find yourself in a continual cycle of indecisiveness, this episode is for you. Anitra and Andre unpack strategies for knowing how and when to move on and identifying what you learned from the experience. Join the sibling pair and reflect on times when you struggle with embracing the need to quit and when to stay the course. Life’s experiences will always beg the question, “what is my motivation for tapping out or staying?” The right answer to that question always leads to a better you.
Memorable quotes:
- What is the difference between what we expected and what happened? ~ Andre
- Success sometimes comes at the darkest time before you tap out. ~ Anitra
- There is a sensitivity to the unexpected that limits your ability to make a decision to move on. ~ Andre
- Stop complaining or wavering, ride and rest in the decision. ~ Anitra
- What is the cost of learning, the cost is investment or expense. ~ Andre
- The grass is greener where you water it. ~ Anitra
Keywords:
#MentalHealth, #therapy, #psychotherapy, #relationships, #psychology, #healing, #counseling, #ministry, #theology, #transformation, #change, #counselor, #therapist, #wholeness, #healthy, #health, #lifestyle, #mental, #emotions, #emotional, #spiritual, #minister, #christianliving, #christian, #wellness, #lifecoach, #forgiveness, #SavageSibling, #Savage, #Sibling, #Brother, #Sister, #Family, #Parent, #S2Mediaworks, #SavageSiblingsPodcast
#Tapout, #Completion, #Learningprocess, #Intuitiveresponse, #Remnantexperience, #Interdependence, #Relationshipinvestment, #Forwardthinkingmindset, #Equippedforjourney, #Self-limitedsituation, #DesertEagleExperience, #Commitment, #Valuedjourney, #Thanoseffect
Call to Action:
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- Share your thoughts about your siblings' experiences on “tapping out or leaning in.”
- Thoughts on living your authentic life?
- Any topics you want us to discuss?
CHAPTERS
00:00 - Introduction
01:00 - Sibling Check-In
05:09 - Sibling Sound-Off: What did we learn?
18:37 - Sponsorship: S2 Mediaworks
19:32 - Savage Segment: To Let Be...
26:50 - Savage Segment: An Individual Decision
41:34 - Savage Segment: Two Questions About Quitting
50:15 - Savage Segment: Snatch Or Release To Move Beyond
01:03:53 - Savage Segment: The Thanos Effect
01:05:57 - Transformational Perspective: Be Prepared To Make The Right Decision
01:13:51 - Quick Shot Segment: Tap Out or Lean In
01:21:38 - The Final Blow: Get Wisdom and Get an Understanding
01:26:06 - Closing: Thanks for joining us!
Brutally Honest. Relentlessly Transparent. Unapologetically Authentic.
Next Episode
What You Talkin' Bout, Willis?
This episode focuses on “What communication with other people taught you?” Join the humor as Andre and Anitra explore varying forms of communication among friends and family. Learn how communication impacts your relationships and the importance of understanding how to respond to different forms of communication. During this episode we discover the importance of recognizing the emotions connected with the content of communication. Let’s analyze what makes an effective communicator. Anitra and Andre share strategies to navigate through different audiences and communicate effectively.
Memorable quotes:
- “You have two ears and one mouth, so listen twice as much and talk less.” Dad Evans
- “We are not actually listening, we are thinking about our rebuttal. “ Anitra
- “A part of communication is trust. “ Andre
- “Start to think about the impact of your words on effectiveness and efficiency.” Anitra
- “External process, am I saying what they are receiving?” Andre
- “Internal process, am I communicating the honest depth of what I feel?” Andre
- “Communication is evolving and organic.” Anitra
- “Understanding the weight and gravity of what you are about to say, leads to a positive outcome.” Andre
Keywords:
#MentalHealth, #therapy, #psychotherapy, #relationships, #psychology, #healing, #counseling, #ministry, #theology, #transformation, #change, #counselor, #therapist, #wholeness, #healthy, #health, #lifestyle, #mental, #emotions, #emotional, #spiritual, #minister, #christianliving, #christian, #wellness, #lifecoach, #forgiveness, #SavageSibling, #Savage, #Sibling, #Brother, #Sister, #Family, #Parent, #S2Mediaworks, #SavageSiblingsPodcast
#Communication, #Expressivenonverbally, #Operativeunderstanding, #Gushers, #Discrepancyinmessage, #Vesselsofcommunication, #Environmentalcommunication, #ActiveListening, #Momisms, #Contextandemotional, #communication, #Externalandinternalprocessors, #Communicationdiffusion, #Connectionordisconnection, #Doublingdownonthesewords
Call to Action:
- Post comments! Leave us a review!
- Share your thoughts about your siblings' experiences with communication.
- Share strategies you or your family effectively communicate.
- Any topics you want us to discuss?
Sound Editors: Kyle Davis and Dwayne McClendon
Music: Maxwell Music
Photography: K.Cross Photography
CHAPTERS
00:00 - Introduction
01:04 - Sibling Check-In
09:22 - Sibling Sound-Off: Family Communication
23:09 - Sponsorship: S2 Mediaworks
23:49 - Savage Segment: How did you learn to communicate?
35:25 - Savage Segment: Communication Expectations
44:16 - Savage Segment: Talk Less!
51:12 - Savage Segment: Communicate via Knowing Yourself
01:03:01 - Savage Segment: Courage to use the best word!
01:16:36 - Transformational Perspective: I Said What I Said!
01:24:30 - Quick Shot Segment: Yes and...No and...
01:32:00 - The Final Blow: Communication is a Connection
01:34:36 - Closing: Thanks for joining us!
Brutally Honest. Relentlessly Transparent. Unapologetically Authentic.
The Savage Siblings Podcast - Who Told You?
Transcript
Hey. Hey , beautiful people. How are we doing? I am Antra N. Lawson storyteller, producer, educator, and content creator . He is Dr . Andre Evans. What up people pastor?
AnitraHe's an educator. He's a teacher, he's a preacher, he's a father, and he's the brother that I never wanted. We are the Savage siblings, and this is Savage Siblings podcast where we are brutally honest, relentlessly transparent, and
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