What You Talkin' Bout, Willis?
03/30/23 • 95 min
This episode focuses on “What communication with other people taught you?” Join the humor as Andre and Anitra explore varying forms of communication among friends and family. Learn how communication impacts your relationships and the importance of understanding how to respond to different forms of communication. During this episode we discover the importance of recognizing the emotions connected with the content of communication. Let’s analyze what makes an effective communicator. Anitra and Andre share strategies to navigate through different audiences and communicate effectively.
Memorable quotes:
- “You have two ears and one mouth, so listen twice as much and talk less.” Dad Evans
- “We are not actually listening, we are thinking about our rebuttal. “ Anitra
- “A part of communication is trust. “ Andre
- “Start to think about the impact of your words on effectiveness and efficiency.” Anitra
- “External process, am I saying what they are receiving?” Andre
- “Internal process, am I communicating the honest depth of what I feel?” Andre
- “Communication is evolving and organic.” Anitra
- “Understanding the weight and gravity of what you are about to say, leads to a positive outcome.” Andre
Keywords:
#MentalHealth, #therapy, #psychotherapy, #relationships, #psychology, #healing, #counseling, #ministry, #theology, #transformation, #change, #counselor, #therapist, #wholeness, #healthy, #health, #lifestyle, #mental, #emotions, #emotional, #spiritual, #minister, #christianliving, #christian, #wellness, #lifecoach, #forgiveness, #SavageSibling, #Savage, #Sibling, #Brother, #Sister, #Family, #Parent, #S2Mediaworks, #SavageSiblingsPodcast
#Communication, #Expressivenonverbally, #Operativeunderstanding, #Gushers, #Discrepancyinmessage, #Vesselsofcommunication, #Environmentalcommunication, #ActiveListening, #Momisms, #Contextandemotional, #communication, #Externalandinternalprocessors, #Communicationdiffusion, #Connectionordisconnection, #Doublingdownonthesewords
Call to Action:
- Post comments! Leave us a review!
- Share your thoughts about your siblings' experiences with communication.
- Share strategies you or your family effectively communicate.
- Any topics you want us to discuss?
Sound Editors: Kyle Davis and Dwayne McClendon
Music: Maxwell Music
Photography: K.Cross Photography
CHAPTERS
00:00 - Introduction
01:04 - Sibling Check-In
09:22 - Sibling Sound-Off: Family Communication
23:09 - Sponsorship: S2 Mediaworks
23:49 - Savage Segment: How did you learn to communicate?
35:25 - Savage Segment: Communication Expectations
44:16 - Savage Segment: Talk Less!
51:12 - Savage Segment: Communicate via Knowing Yourself
01:03:01 - Savage Segment: Courage to use the best word!
01:16:36 - Transformational Perspective: I Said What I Said!
01:24:30 - Quick Shot Segment: Yes and...No and...
01:32:00 - The Final Blow: Communication is a Connection
01:34:36 - Closing: Thanks for joining us!
Brutally Honest. Relentlessly Transparent. Unapologetically Authentic.
This episode focuses on “What communication with other people taught you?” Join the humor as Andre and Anitra explore varying forms of communication among friends and family. Learn how communication impacts your relationships and the importance of understanding how to respond to different forms of communication. During this episode we discover the importance of recognizing the emotions connected with the content of communication. Let’s analyze what makes an effective communicator. Anitra and Andre share strategies to navigate through different audiences and communicate effectively.
Memorable quotes:
- “You have two ears and one mouth, so listen twice as much and talk less.” Dad Evans
- “We are not actually listening, we are thinking about our rebuttal. “ Anitra
- “A part of communication is trust. “ Andre
- “Start to think about the impact of your words on effectiveness and efficiency.” Anitra
- “External process, am I saying what they are receiving?” Andre
- “Internal process, am I communicating the honest depth of what I feel?” Andre
- “Communication is evolving and organic.” Anitra
- “Understanding the weight and gravity of what you are about to say, leads to a positive outcome.” Andre
Keywords:
#MentalHealth, #therapy, #psychotherapy, #relationships, #psychology, #healing, #counseling, #ministry, #theology, #transformation, #change, #counselor, #therapist, #wholeness, #healthy, #health, #lifestyle, #mental, #emotions, #emotional, #spiritual, #minister, #christianliving, #christian, #wellness, #lifecoach, #forgiveness, #SavageSibling, #Savage, #Sibling, #Brother, #Sister, #Family, #Parent, #S2Mediaworks, #SavageSiblingsPodcast
#Communication, #Expressivenonverbally, #Operativeunderstanding, #Gushers, #Discrepancyinmessage, #Vesselsofcommunication, #Environmentalcommunication, #ActiveListening, #Momisms, #Contextandemotional, #communication, #Externalandinternalprocessors, #Communicationdiffusion, #Connectionordisconnection, #Doublingdownonthesewords
Call to Action:
- Post comments! Leave us a review!
- Share your thoughts about your siblings' experiences with communication.
- Share strategies you or your family effectively communicate.
- Any topics you want us to discuss?
Sound Editors: Kyle Davis and Dwayne McClendon
Music: Maxwell Music
Photography: K.Cross Photography
CHAPTERS
00:00 - Introduction
01:04 - Sibling Check-In
09:22 - Sibling Sound-Off: Family Communication
23:09 - Sponsorship: S2 Mediaworks
23:49 - Savage Segment: How did you learn to communicate?
35:25 - Savage Segment: Communication Expectations
44:16 - Savage Segment: Talk Less!
51:12 - Savage Segment: Communicate via Knowing Yourself
01:03:01 - Savage Segment: Courage to use the best word!
01:16:36 - Transformational Perspective: I Said What I Said!
01:24:30 - Quick Shot Segment: Yes and...No and...
01:32:00 - The Final Blow: Communication is a Connection
01:34:36 - Closing: Thanks for joining us!
Brutally Honest. Relentlessly Transparent. Unapologetically Authentic.
Previous Episode
Who Told You?
This episode focuses on the narrative we tell ourselves to create the image we want. Andre and Anitra challenge “stinking thinking” and focus on understanding our personal story through life’s truth. We learn to avoid filtering what we want rather than honoring the truth. The siblings discuss what you have to do to preserve yourself and move forward as you accept the truth. This episode examines the depth of understanding our personal narratives and fighting the internal negatives that lead us to false truth. Let’s examine our character, challenge the stories that we embellish and face the journey's authenticity. Telling your truth leads to your best self.
Memorable quotes:
- “My story isn't what I want so I create what I want.” Andre
- “I don't want everyone to see my truth.” Anitra
- “I have to tolerate the pain that comes with my truth. “ Andre
- “The narrative impacts actions and creates tangible lifestyles. “ Anitra
- “Own your chapters so others can know the depth of your story. “ Andre
- “We create these filters that make us feel safe.” Anitra
Keywords:
#MentalHealth, #therapy, #psychotherapy, #relationships, #psychology, #healing, #counseling, #ministry, #theology, #transformation, #change, #counselor, #therapist, #wholeness, #healthy, #health, #lifestyle, #mental, #emotions, #emotional, #spiritual, #minister, #christianliving, #christian, #wellness, #lifecoach, #forgiveness, #SavageSibling, #Savage, #Sibling, #Brother, #Sister, #Family, #Parent, #S2Mediaworks, #SavageSiblingsPodcast
#Narrative, #Falsenarrative, #Honoryourtruth, #Life’salarms, #Filteringtruth, #Embellishment, #Undefendedpart, #Similardepths, #Self-knowledge, #Fearofjudgment, #Self-talk, #Authenticity
Call to Action:
- Post comments! Leave us a review!
- Share your thoughts about your siblings' experiences on telling and living with your truth.
- Thoughts on living your authentic life?
- Any topics you want us to discuss?
Brutally Honest. Relentlessly Transparent. Unapologetically Authentic.
Next Episode
The Gap Season
This episode looks at the idea of taking a beat to get revelation on where you are in life. Are you in a season where you just need to stop and regroup? Andre and Anitra discuss the necessity for taking time to find your true self without getting caught up in distractions. The siblings explore how you can focus on processing your experiences and opportunities to stop and assess. Let’s discover how a Gap Season helps you break down who you are and shed traits that don’t serve you and your future and help to develop your individual purpose. How can you use the Gap Season to develop and plan for the life you want to have rather than return to what is comfortable? This episode will leave you with ways to prevent or overcome self-defeating patterns. Listeners will have a clear picture of how they can prepare for a Gap Season and successfully come out of a Gap Season ready to move forward to true purpose.
Memorable quotes:
- Breaks are about restoration, gap seasons are about revelation ~ Andre
- Don’t get lost in this physical journey; Where’s Waldo, to find your-self. ~ Andre
- You have just enough knowledge to hurt yourself. ~ Dad Evans
- Pandemic was a giant gap season. ~ Mom Evans
- Take time to decompress from the grind. The decompression moves into the transition ~Andre
- Let me investigate what I have been taking in and making the necessary adjustment. ~ Anitra
- Retool and realign, find the space to create in preparation for the next season. ~ Anitra
- A perfectionism will paralyze you and keep you from making the transition. ~ Anitra
- People sometimes look for distractions rather than self-improvement. ~ Andre
- Gap seasons are not linear, but are a ladder to God’s purpose for you. ~ Andre
Keywords:
#MentalHealth, #therapy, #psychotherapy, #relationships, #psychology, #healing, #counseling, #ministry, #theology, #transformation, #change, #counselor, #therapist, #wholeness, #healthy, #health, #lifestyle, #mental, #emotions, #emotional, #spiritual, #minister, #christianliving, #christian, #wellness, #lifecoach, #forgiveness, #SavageSibling, #Savage, #Sibling, #Brother, #Sister, #Family, #Parent, #S2Mediaworks, #SavageSiblingsPodcast, #GapSeason, #SiftingProcess, #RetoolandRealign, #Answertheinnercritic, #DecompresstoTransition, #GapSeason:ALaddertoGodsPurpose
Call to Action:
- Post comments! Leave us a review!
- Share your gap season stories!
- Any topics you want us to discuss?
Sound Editors: Kyle Davis and Dwayne McClendon
Music: Maxwell Music
Photography: K.Cross Photography
CHAPTERS
00:00 - Introduction
01:48 - Sibling Check-In
04:10 - Sound Off Segment: What is a gap season?
16:04 - Sponsorship
16:49 - Savage Segment: Taking a chance on myself
26:28 - Savage Segment: The Sifting Process
36:28 - Transformational Perspective: Is it just an excuse to procrastinate?
46:58 - Quick Shot Segment: Good Gap or Totally Wack?
54:45 - The Final Blow: The Gap Season is the ladder to your destiny
56:00 - Closing: Thanks for joining us!
Brutally Honest. Relentlessly Transparent. Unapologetically Authentic.
The Savage Siblings Podcast - What You Talkin' Bout, Willis?
Transcript
Hey, hey , beautiful people. How are we doing ? I am atra in Lawson storyteller, producer, educator, and content creator. He is Dr . Andre Evan.
AndreWhat's Good
AnitraHe's a father, a pastor, author, preacher, teacher, and most importantly, the brother that I never wanted. We are Savage siblings, and this is the Savage Siblings Podcast, where we are brutally h
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