
2. Personal Piety
02/13/25 • 86 min
In this episode of The Reforming Men Podcast, Matt, Ben, and Josh dive into the foundational topic of personal piety and how it shapes biblical masculinity. They explore the sufficiency of Scripture, the necessity of the Holy Spirit, and the importance of zeal in a man’s life. The hosts discuss cultural pressures, the battle against sin, and practical ways men can grow in godliness.
Books mentioned:
A Godly Man’s Picture – Thomas Watson
The Holy Spirit – Geoffrey Thomas
Piety: The Heartbeat of Reformed Theology – Joel Beeke
Masculine Christianity – Zachary Garris
The Spirit and the Church – John Owen
The Anxious Generation – Jonathan Haidt
In this episode of The Reforming Men Podcast, Matt, Ben, and Josh dive into the foundational topic of personal piety and how it shapes biblical masculinity. They explore the sufficiency of Scripture, the necessity of the Holy Spirit, and the importance of zeal in a man’s life. The hosts discuss cultural pressures, the battle against sin, and practical ways men can grow in godliness.
Books mentioned:
A Godly Man’s Picture – Thomas Watson
The Holy Spirit – Geoffrey Thomas
Piety: The Heartbeat of Reformed Theology – Joel Beeke
Masculine Christianity – Zachary Garris
The Spirit and the Church – John Owen
The Anxious Generation – Jonathan Haidt
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1. Introductions
In this introduction, you’ll meet your hosts—Ben Ratliff, Matt Adams, Josh Reagan, and Nate Xanders—as we share our vision for this podcast and what’s to come. We discuss our mission to help men embrace their God-given roles as husbands, fathers, and leaders while rooting ourselves in Scripture and the wisdom of the Westminster Standards.
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First Pres Dillon, SC
Larger for Life podcast
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Meet Josh
Westminster PCA Greenwood, MS
Meet Nate
Christ the King PCA Louisville, TN
Meet Ben
Covenant PCA Cleveland, MS
Polity Matters podcast
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3. Habits of a Godly Man
Godly men don’t grow by accident. In this episode, Ben Ratliff and Matt Adams, joined by guest Stephen Spinnenweber, break down 18 Habits of a Godly Man. Rooted in 1 Timothy 4:7-8, these habits shape men to honor Christ in every area of life.
1.Worship – Commit to corporate worship, morning and evening.
2.Rest – Honor the Lord’s Day by setting aside work.
3.Work Hard – Labor diligently six days for God’s glory.
4.Read the Bible – Daily intake of Scripture is essential.
5.Pray – Fight prayerlessness and seek God regularly.
6.Meditate on the Word – Dwell deeply on biblical truth.
7.Confess Sin – Own your failures and repent.
8.Pursue Purity – Kill lust and guard your heart.
9.Sleep Well – Sleep honors God and strengthens the body.
10.Exercise – Physical discipline benefits spiritual life.
11.Eat Well – Glorify God in your diet.
12.Read Books – Grow in wisdom and knowledge.
13.Give Generously – Support the church and care for others.
14.Sing – Lead in worship with your voice.
15.Build Relationships – Invest in friendships and mentorship.
16.Provide – Take responsibility for those under your care.
17.Protect – Defend life and those entrusted to you.
18.Teach – Pass the faith to others.
Godly habits require effort, discipline, and accountability. Keep growing, keep leading, and keep passing it on.
Larger for Life podcast
Bible Reading Plans (Ligonier)
If God Already knows, Why Pray by Doug Kelly
Puritan Theology (chapter on meditation)
"A Biblical Relationship for Training Up Godliness" by Matt Adams
Provide & Protect YouTube channel
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