
The Reforming Men Podcast
Adams, Ratliff, Reagan, Xanders
Reforming Men is dedicated to cultivating a renewed vision of Biblical masculinity, rooted in Scripture and the Westminster Standards. We desire to see men loving their wives, nurturing their children, and leading in the Church. Our mission is to encourage men to embrace their God-given roles as husbands, fathers, and leaders, by calling them to Christ-like masculinity.
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4. Men in Marriage
The Reforming Men Podcast
03/13/25 • 85 min
In this episode of the Reforming Men Podcast, hosts Ben Ratliff, Matt Adams, and Nate Xanders take a deep dive into biblical masculinity in marriage. Far from being a social contract or a modern convenience, marriage is a divine calling that requires courage, sacrifice, and godly leadership. The guys break down Westminster Confession of Faith Chapter 24.2, emphasizing God’s purposes for marriage, the necessity of male leadership, and the dangers of cultural compromise.

7. Family Worship with Matthew Everhard
The Reforming Men Podcast
04/24/25 • 68 min
Matt and Ben are joined by guest Matthew Everhard to discuss family worship in depth.

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The Reforming Men Podcast
01/04/25 • 1 min
Welcome to The Reforming Men Podcast! Launching on January 9, this podcast is dedicated to encouraging and equipping men to embrace their God-given roles as husbands, fathers, and leaders. Rooted in Scripture and the Westminster Standards, we’re here to cultivate a renewed vision of Biblical masculinity—one that is Christ-like, sacrificial, and rooted in love.

1. Introductions
The Reforming Men Podcast
01/09/25 • 53 min
In this introduction, you’ll meet your hosts—Ben Ratliff, Matt Adams, Josh Reagan, and Nate Xanders—as we share our vision for this podcast and what’s to come. We discuss our mission to help men embrace their God-given roles as husbands, fathers, and leaders while rooting ourselves in Scripture and the wisdom of the Westminster Standards.
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Meet Matt
First Pres Dillon, SC
Larger for Life podcast
Matt's Substack
Meet Josh
Westminster PCA Greenwood, MS
Meet Nate
Christ the King PCA Louisville, TN
Meet Ben
Covenant PCA Cleveland, MS
Polity Matters podcast
Pulpit Matters
The Anxious Generation
RM Facebook
RM Twitter

3. Habits of a Godly Man
The Reforming Men Podcast
02/27/25 • 78 min
Godly men don’t grow by accident. In this episode, Ben Ratliff and Matt Adams, joined by guest Stephen Spinnenweber, break down 18 Habits of a Godly Man. Rooted in 1 Timothy 4:7-8, these habits shape men to honor Christ in every area of life.
1.Worship – Commit to corporate worship, morning and evening.
2.Rest – Honor the Lord’s Day by setting aside work.
3.Work Hard – Labor diligently six days for God’s glory.
4.Read the Bible – Daily intake of Scripture is essential.
5.Pray – Fight prayerlessness and seek God regularly.
6.Meditate on the Word – Dwell deeply on biblical truth.
7.Confess Sin – Own your failures and repent.
8.Pursue Purity – Kill lust and guard your heart.
9.Sleep Well – Sleep honors God and strengthens the body.
10.Exercise – Physical discipline benefits spiritual life.
11.Eat Well – Glorify God in your diet.
12.Read Books – Grow in wisdom and knowledge.
13.Give Generously – Support the church and care for others.
14.Sing – Lead in worship with your voice.
15.Build Relationships – Invest in friendships and mentorship.
16.Provide – Take responsibility for those under your care.
17.Protect – Defend life and those entrusted to you.
18.Teach – Pass the faith to others.
Godly habits require effort, discipline, and accountability. Keep growing, keep leading, and keep passing it on.
Larger for Life podcast
Bible Reading Plans (Ligonier)
If God Already knows, Why Pray by Doug Kelly
Puritan Theology (chapter on meditation)
"A Biblical Relationship for Training Up Godliness" by Matt Adams
Provide & Protect YouTube channel

5. Marriage & a Godly Household w/ C.R. Wiley
The Reforming Men Podcast
03/27/25 • 78 min
Nate Xanders sits down with pastor, author, and cultural commentator C.R. Wiley to discuss biblical patriarchy, marriage, masculinity, and the household as a central unit of dominion and discipleship. From mutual help in marriage to the future of AI and its implications for the family, this rich and practical conversation explores the vital importance of building households that last in a world that’s falling apart.

2. Personal Piety
The Reforming Men Podcast
02/13/25 • 86 min
In this episode of The Reforming Men Podcast, Matt, Ben, and Josh dive into the foundational topic of personal piety and how it shapes biblical masculinity. They explore the sufficiency of Scripture, the necessity of the Holy Spirit, and the importance of zeal in a man’s life. The hosts discuss cultural pressures, the battle against sin, and practical ways men can grow in godliness.
Books mentioned:
A Godly Man’s Picture – Thomas Watson
The Holy Spirit – Geoffrey Thomas
Piety: The Heartbeat of Reformed Theology – Joel Beeke
Masculine Christianity – Zachary Garris
The Spirit and the Church – John Owen
The Anxious Generation – Jonathan Haidt

6. Men as Fathers
The Reforming Men Podcast
04/10/25 • 84 min
In this heartwarming and convicting episode, the Reforming Men team sits down for an extended conversation on fatherhood, one of God’s most profound and joyful callings for men. Kicking off with stories about their own children, the hosts reflect on the importance of encouraging their kids, disciplining with love, and living out the gospel in the home.
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FAQ
How many episodes does The Reforming Men Podcast have?
The Reforming Men Podcast currently has 8 episodes available.
What topics does The Reforming Men Podcast cover?
The podcast is about Reformed, Society & Culture, Presbyterian, Podcasts, Men and Masculinity.
What is the most popular episode on The Reforming Men Podcast?
The episode title '1. Introductions' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on The Reforming Men Podcast?
The average episode length on The Reforming Men Podcast is 67 minutes.
How often are episodes of The Reforming Men Podcast released?
Episodes of The Reforming Men Podcast are typically released every 14 days.
When was the first episode of The Reforming Men Podcast?
The first episode of The Reforming Men Podcast was released on Jan 4, 2025.
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