Behind the Scenes of a Biracial, Trans-Cis Marriage

07/27/20 • 54 min

In this beautifully candid conversation, Danielle and Cole give us insight into the lives of a Transgender-Cisgender marriage. I’ve always been curious about subcultures that are different from my own, and I’m so grateful when people are willing to graciously educate me. In this episode, we learn about proper terminology when referring to the Transgender community, what hardships they face, and how all of this affects the inside of a once-same-sex relationship.

Whether you are male, female, non-binary, LBGTQ+, or resist labels entirely, this episode will teach you about the resilience that some individuals have been forced to cultivate, just to feel like themselves.

As a biracial couple, Cole and Danielle also face a number of other obstacles that many of us will never understand first hand. They give incredible advice about how to use your voice as both an ally and an activist for civil rights, and how to not get burnt out in the process.

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How to Have a Successful Open Marriage

Over the years, I’ve become more and more exposed to a variety of alternative lifestyles, and one in particular that has continued to pop up is non-monogamy. I’ve had a lot of mixed emotions about polyamory, open relationships, etc. From judgment to awe, to gratitude, I’ve felt it all.

Sometimes I wondered, Isn’t this just a way to avoid commitment and have your cake and eat it too?

But then, on a different side of the same coin, I’ve witnessed and been a part of such beautiful connections that wouldn’t have been possible without a more open, polyamorous mindset.

Id’ find myself thinking, More love is more love. Period. But then I’d return to my monogamous ways and resign to the fact that I don’t want to share my partner. Needless to say, I don’t have all the answers, but I do have a lot of questions! And this episode begs to answer those.

In this episode, I go behind the scenes of a polyamorous, non-monogamous marriage. We cover everything from what led them to open up the relationship, what rules and agreements keep them feeling safe, what tools and practices keep them feeling connected, and why this lifestyle works for them.

The tools they share in our conversation would benefit anyone in any style of relationship. If you want to understand alternative relationship styles, and how to have a deeper connection within your relationship, no matter what your lifestyle choices are, then this episode is for you.

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Multiamory Podcast
More Than Two - A Practical Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy - by Franklin Veaux

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The Secret to an Extraordinary Relationship w/ Megan Lambert

“The quality of our lives is determined by the quality of our relationships.” - Esther Perel

Relationships can be the highest source of joy and the highest source of pain for so many. But why? Why do we find it so easy in the beginning to be passionate and full of desire, but so often this feeling wanes? What proactive steps can we take to ensure a lasting connection with our partner?

In today’s episode, I talk to intimacy expert, Megan Lambert about what it means to get clear on, and stay connected to our own desire, how understanding the masculine and feminine energy dynamics inside our relationships can foster deeper desire, and how relationship coaching is becoming the new normal for proactive couples who want to keep the passion alive.

Megan has studied from some of the best this world has to offer in terms of sex, intimacy, and attraction. She lives in Bali, facilitating retreats and workshops to help women and couples to become magnetic to the relationships of their dreams.

If you’ve ever craved a deeper love, or a more passionate life, this episode is for you.

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