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15. Overcoming Any Situation With The Power Of Your Why With JJ Virgin
The Not So Perfect Plan
07/30/20 • 53 min
On today's podcast, Kim and Pete welcome certified Nutrition and health specialist, speaker, and New York Times Bestselling author, JJ Virgin.
While writing her first book, JJ got the terrifying news that her oldest son had been hit by a car while walking in the neighborhood.
When arriving at the hospital, the Doctors told her that her son had a 0.2% chance of recovering and making it through the required surgeries.
The Virgin family took those odds and pursued health and wholeness for their son.
This experience for JJ holds many lessons for all of us. Lessons on resilience, the power of your mindset, and how to stay focus on your goals when your plan isn't going so perfect.
LINKS:
- Read the blog: thenotsoperfectplan.com
- JJ's Book Warrior Mom
Quick Episode Summary:
- 0:02 What to expect today
- 3:14 Welcome JJ
- 4:16 Why vision is important
- 7:08 JJ’s plan
- 8:30 When JJ’s son was hit by a car
- 20:00 The joy of helping others
- 21:59 How to protect your mind in crisis
- 27:57 What happens when people come out of a coma
- 33:55 JJ’s book launch
- 39:04 How to achieve two goals at ones
- 43:55 JJ’s advice for parents
- 48:48 Pete and Kims biggest takeaways
6. How to Rise Up in Uncertainty with Tony Robbins
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05/21/20 • 43 min
In today's episode, Pete Vargas interviews author, public speaker, life coach, and philanthropist Tony Robbins.
Between 43 years of entrepreneurship, and a rocky home life growing up, Tony has experienced the "winter" seasons in all areas of life.
Tony will give you the exact method and practical mindset shifts he has used to not only survive events like the great inflation, 911, the housing bust, COVID-19, and others but thrive.
This episode will impact the way you handle the big and small crisis that comes your way and will help the dream and plans in your heart become a reality.
"Crisis will always either destroy you or recreate you." - Tony Robbins
LINKS:
- Read the full blog: thenotsoperfectplan.com
- tonyrobbins.com
- Join the Rise Up World group
Quick Episode Summary:
- 0:02 What to expect today
- 3:18 Welcome Tony Robbins
- 4:06 why community is essential right now
- 6:29 Learn how to grow in the winter
- 14:24 The three decisions that shape every part of your life
- 16:24 Where is your focus?
- 18:50 The three patterns of focus
- 21:18 Focusing on what you can control
- 27:36 Tony’s childhood
- 32:31 The importance of a mentor
- 36:42 Serve those who are worse off than you
- 38:24 Petes biggest takeaways
We are all in this together, share this episode with someone in your inner circle who needs help overcoming uncertainty.
12. Part One: Creating Better Relationships With Yourself And Others with The Enneagram with Ian Cron
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07/09/20 • 61 min
"The Enneagram does not put you in a box. It shows you the box you're already in and how to get out of it." - Ian Morgan Cron
In today's episode, Pete and Kim invite you into a conversation with Ian Morgan Cron. He is a champion of the Enneagram, the awakener of people, and bestselling author of the popular Enneagram book, The Road Back to You.
This conversation will leave you empowered to learn more about yourself, those you love, and will inspire you to create more intimate connections.
Don't miss part two on the next episode!
LINKS:
Quick Episode Summary:
- 0:02 What to expect today
- 1:16 Why the enneagram is powerful
- 6:22 The big promise for today
- 8:17 Why Kim is excited about this episode
- 9:05 Why Pete resisted the Enneagram
- 10:07 The backstory for today
- 18:28 Welcome Ian
- 19:04 How the enneagram impacted Ians marriage
- 22:43 The best place to start with the enneagram
- 25:13 The unconscious motivation for all the numbers
- 37:33 The importance of being more self-aware
- 41:18 Where to start
- 45:52 The number one thing Ian hears
- 55:15 Encouragement to those who are struggling in a relationship
- 1:00:00 Finial thoughts
11. Life in Isolation with Lex Burgeson
The Not So Perfect Plan
07/02/20 • 49 min
When COVID-19 took the world by storm, families started sheltering in place and social distancing to keep their families safe.
While it's an uncomfortable change, there's a strange sense of relief knowing that everyone else is in the same situation.
But what if you were the only family that had to isolate? What if you were the only ones who had to cancel birthday parties, family gatherings, and think twice before visiting the grocery store.
In early 2017, the Burgeson family found themselves in this scenario after their oldest daughter underwent a bone marrow transplant from their youngest daughter.
In this interview, Kim Vargas interviews Lex Burgeson about her family's incredible journey with self-isolation, because of this life-threatening disease has lead to deeper connections and richer relationships and a life full of hope.
LINKS:
Read the full blog here: thenotsoperfectplan.com
Quick Episode Summary:
0:02 What to expect today
1:36 Lex’s plan parenting
2:39 When Lex found out her daughter was sick
7:19 How Ava is processing her illness
19:00 How life looked after the proceeder
22:02 Living a life of isolation
25:14 When the Burgeson felt safe to go out again
27::14 How COVID-19 affected the Burgesons
32:20 How the super hero sisters are doing today
38:08 How having an ill child impacted Lex’s marriage
45:47 Lex’s encouragement to you
10. Finding Your Identity: You Are More Than What You Do
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06/25/20 • 68 min
In our culture, it can be easy to link what we do with who we are.
In today's episode, Pete and Kim Vargas interview ex-Texas Tech quarterback, founder of the 806 Gathering and dear friend for 30 years, Cody Hudges.
Growing up in a small town, playing sports was everything to Cody. Being a natural at almost everything he played, he quickly became the home town hero.
But being the hometown hero comes with the weight of other's expectations for your life.
In this conversation, you will hear Cody's life journey, and an honest dialog about finding your identity and purpose is beyond the things that you do.
LINKS:
Read the full blog here: thenotsoperfectplan.com
Episode Minute By Minute:
- 0:02 What to expect today
- 2:19 Why Kim is excited about today’s episode
- 3:35 Welcome Cody
- 5:18 Cody’s dream growing up
- 16:31 When Cody got recruited for college
- 21:24 When Cody got injured and how he handled it
- 27:57 What Cody learned from ”riding the bench”
- 31:12 Cody’s last game
- 36:20 You have the power to be hopeful
- 40:00 The result of lessons learned
- 42:54 Cody’s fresh start
- 50:42 Be present where you are
- 52:07 Cody’s advice for parents
- 57:15 Cody’s advice to those living someone else’s dream for them
- 58:26 Who you need to surround yourself with
- 1:03 Pete and Kim’s biggest takeaways
9. Reclaiming Your Legacy and Creating Your Dream Marriage
The Not So Perfect Plan
06/18/20 • 39 min
A good life and a good marriage isn't something you find, it is something that you make.
In the episode, Pete and Kim interview The founders of Family Brand, Chris and Melissa Smith
Chris and Melissa share the story of how their plan started to go off track after the birth of their second child and they found themselves on the verge of divorce.
Fast forward to today, Chris and Melissa are on a mission to help families discover how to intentional culture in their home that leads to greater love, joy, and connection while reducing stress and overwhelm.
In this interview, you will hear their processes of overcoming the odds along with practical wisdom and advice on how to build your legacy and create your dream life.
LINKS:
- Read the full blog: thenotsoperfectplan.com thecampfireeffect.com
- familybrand.com
- Family Brand on Facebook
- Family Brand on Instagram
Quick Episode Summary:
- 0:19 Welcome, the Smith’s!
- 2:02 Get to know the Smith’s
- 5:37 When Chris and Melissa hit rock-bottom in their marriage
- 9:27 The steps Chris and Melissa took to fix their marriage
- 13:25 The importance of seeking wisdom in difficult times
- 16:48 Stay away from people who only have an opinion about your marriage
- 18:27 Chris and Melissa’s advice for couples considering divorce
- 21:29 Can you fall out of love?
- 26:03 How you feel now may not be the reality
- 28:44 Take your marriage from good to great
- 30:55 How the to connect with the Smith
- 32:30 The Smith family mission statement
- 36:40 Final thoughts and advice
8. Racism: The Change Starts At Home
The Not So Perfect Plan
06/11/20 • 62 min
Over the past weeks, we have seen all 50 states in America alongside 18 countries standing together and participating in the #BlackLivesMatter protest making it the largest civil rights movement in world history.
The world is crying out for a new order and peace. But where do we start?
In today's podcast, Pete and Kim Vargas invite you into a real and raw conversation about the topic of racism. You will hear from Pete's mom, sisters, nephew, and even their own son.
The Vargas family is composed of many ethnicities such as Black, White, Hispanic, and more. You will hear a unique perspective on how racism affects every person and every generation.
We encourage you to use this episode as a resource to reflect on yourself, spark conversation within your own family and community to create a better future.
LINKS:
- Read the full blog: thenotsoperfectplan.com
- Read Tashas Facebook Post
Quick Episode Summary:
- 0:02 What to expect today
- 1:44 The post that sparked the conversation
- 10:41 The need for accountability
- 16:52 Racism and the next generation
- 24:34 How to handle racism within your family
- 28:38 Three words that can bring healing
- 29:44 Racism in different areas
- 33:55 Winning the war through love
- 36:26 Raising blended children
- 43:22 Be a friend that listens
- 47:57 How the younger generation is feeling
- 57:42 How the millennials will impact the world
- 59:56 We can’t lose hope
- 1:00:45 Closing prayer
7. Sonic Recovery with Tim Ringgold
The Not So Perfect Plan
05/28/20 • 73 min
What if your favorite song was actually healing you?
According to science, it probably is.
In today's podcast, Kim Vargas interviews the Owner of Sonic Divinity Music Therapy Services and the author of Sonic Recovery. Tim Ringgold.
After experiencing multiple tragedies and personal traumas, he turned to drugs and alcohol to find comfort. After reaching a point where substance abuse couldn't mask the pain, he discovered music therapy.
Now he is on a mission is to empower people to reach for music when they are facing stress in work or life, rather than harmful substances or digital distractions.
LINKS:
- Read the full blog: thenotsoperfectplan.com
- timringgold.com
- Access the free gift Relaxation Vacation at sonicrecovery.com
- Tim’s Book: Sonic Recovery
- 0:02 What to expect today
- 1:18 Tim’s plan
- 3:30 When Tim thought the world was ending
- 8:32 Growth mindset vs. Fixed midset
- 13:57 Resilience is a muscle
- 16:02 How Tim first responded to adversity
- 21:51 How Tim handled losing five close friends
- 23:42 Music is more than entertainment
- 28:13 The process of recovery
- 33:48 The three levels of influences you need for change
- 35:35 Where to start when overcoming addiction
- 40:51 How to get someone to want more
- 51:05 What happens in the brain when listening to music
- 54:24 When Tim gets his best ideas
- 57:07 How Tim is using music to serve others
- 1:06:50 Create a power playlist
- 1:10:49 Final advice from Tim
5. Finding The Gift In Challenges with Amy Purdy
The Not So Perfect Plan
05/14/20 • 77 min
In this episode, Kim Vargas interviews motivational speaker, world-class athlete, and Dancing with the Stars runner up, Amy Purdy.
Amy has faced several challenges throughout her life. At 19, her life took a detour when she was rushed to the hospital due to septic shock. The experience would result in the loss of her legs. from the knee down. Only a few years later, near her 21st birthday. Amy received a donated kidney from her father.
Through those challenges and many others, Amy has learned the vital lesson of finding the gift in every challenge.
Listen in on Kim and Amy's conversation as they share the commonalities of their journey, re-live Dancing with the Stars, and share how to remain hopeful even when things are not going according to plan.
LINKS:
Quick Episode Summary:
- 0:02 What to expect today
- 3:36 Meet Amy
- 9:24 Amy’s near-death experience
- 16:03 Choosing to deal with it
- 18:30 Nothing is permanent
- 20:03 Being your own advocate
- 22:29 When Kim was diagnosed with lupus
- 30:00 How Amy’s mom kept her going
- 36:55 Amy and Kim’s transplant
- 43:26 When Amy went on Dancing with the Stars
- 47:00 Proving yourself right
- 53:16 The importance of challenges
- 1:03:53 Resiliency comes from commitment
- 1:09:07 Amy’s event for teens
- 1:15:16 Kim’s biggest takeaways
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FAQ
How many episodes does The Not So Perfect Plan have?
The Not So Perfect Plan currently has 19 episodes available.
What topics does The Not So Perfect Plan cover?
The podcast is about Success, Spirituality, Resilience, Religion & Spirituality, Family, Podcasts, Forgiveness, Inspiration, Self-Improvement, Education and Hope.
What is the most popular episode on The Not So Perfect Plan?
The episode title '11. Life in Isolation with Lex Burgeson' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on The Not So Perfect Plan?
The average episode length on The Not So Perfect Plan is 49 minutes.
How often are episodes of The Not So Perfect Plan released?
Episodes of The Not So Perfect Plan are typically released every 7 days.
When was the first episode of The Not So Perfect Plan?
The first episode of The Not So Perfect Plan was released on Apr 17, 2020.
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