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Money, Neurodivergent Tax & Impulse Buying | EP19

The Neurodivergent Experience

05/29/24 • 42 min

"Neurodivergent tax, also known as ADHD tax, is the impulse buying that has been a delight and a burden on me and my finances."

In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss impulse buying and 'Neurodivergent Tax'. The hosts discuss their personal experiences with impulse buying, including purchasing expensive items like dogs and sneakers, and having to pay the ND tax. They also touch on the impact of FOMO (fear of missing out) and the role of research in impulse buying.

Takeaways

FOMO (fear of missing out) can contribute to impulse buying, as individuals may feel the need to participate in certain trends or experiences.
Research can play a role in impulse buying, as individuals may justify their purchases by conducting extensive research and convincing themselves of the value.
Impulse buying can have both positive and negative consequences, ranging from the joy of acquiring desired items to financial strain and regret.
Setting boundaries and being mindful of impulsive tendencies can help manage and control impulse buying behaviour.
Sales and second-hand items can be more affordable options for satisfying shopping desires.
Parents may feel compelled to buy things for their children to ensure they don't miss out.

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Demand Avoidance, Trauma & CHaMs: What Neurodivergent Kids Are Really Facing

The Neurodivergent Experience

05/14/25 • 76 min

In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott speak with Speaker and Advocate, Asher Jenner, who shares their journey of navigating childhood struggles, school bullying and the complexities of PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), the impact of trauma on mental health, and the challenges faced by neurodivergent individuals navigating CHaMs, particularly in relation to eating disorders and rumination syndrome.

⚠️ Content Warning: Self-Harm and Suicide

This episode contains open and honest discussions around self-harm, suicidal thoughts, and mental health challenges. Listener discretion is strongly advised. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out to a mental health professional or contact a crisis support service in your area.

Here's what we cover in this episode

We discuss the misconceptions surrounding PDA, the importance of tailored treatment approaches, and the emotional toll of navigating these experiences.
The need for understanding and support for those with neurodivergent conditions, emphasizing the significance of lived experiences in shaping treatment and care.
The therapeutic benefits of dance, and the role of stim toys in managing sensory needs.
Asher Jenner shares insights on their journey, the significance of finding safe ways to express emotions, and the impact of sharing personal stories to help others.

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PDA: What Does It Look Like & How Is It Different For Men and Women? | EP43

The Neurodivergent Experience

11/14/24 • 98 min

Extreme Demand Avoidance is the new, rebranded term for what used to be Pathological Demand Avoidance. It is not recognised by the NHS yet so many Neurodivergent people struggling with navigating its demands. After this episode its pretty clear we do too!

In this super sized episode, along with guest Ashley Bentley, we delve into the complexities of extreme demand avoidance in neurodivergent adults by taking a screening test to see how much we are effected by EDA or PDA and how it is different for Men and Women. We discuss how we have used the creation of fantasy worlds as a coping mechanism, how we navigate and can be guilty of several dynamics of manipulation in relationships, the complexities of keeping up your reputation, and the impact of 'outrageous' behaviour and emotional responses that are often misdiagnosed as a 'tantrum' on our lives.

Takeaways

Extreme demand avoidance can lead to internal conflict about wanting to do things.
Mimicking others can be a natural response to social situations.
Demand avoidance can significantly impact behaviour and relationships.
Creating fantasy worlds can serve as a coping mechanism for stress.
Manipulation in relationships can be unintentional and rooted in self-preservation.
Meltdowns can occur under pressure and are often a release of built-up stress and emotions which are often misunderstood. Emotional responses can vary greatly, from crying to anger.

Ashley Bentley: Hypnotherapist, Coach & Breathwork Practitioner, Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapy

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Meltdowns & Emotional Regulation | Fan Favourite Re-Release #1

The Neurodivergent Experience

01/02/25 • 59 min

This is episode #6 of the Neurodivergent Experience, re-released while were on Hiatus. We Will be back with NEW episodes in February

Meltdowns can be overwhelming and uncontrollable experiences, often triggered by sensory overload or unexpected events. In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott share what meltdowns feel like from a neurodivergent perspective. They cover the causes and effects of meltdowns, the importance of self-care and coping mechanisms - such as stimming and finding ways to recharge - the challenges of social anxiety and the power of communication.

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Sophie James - Growing Up In An Undiagnosed Neurodivergent Family | EP16

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05/08/24 • 94 min

"Growing up in an undiagnosed family made me feel different from others and lead to a sense of being strange or weird!"

This episode of the Neurodivergent Experience discusses growing up in an undiagnosed family. Sophie James, Jordan's daughter, joins to share her experience about feeling different from other families, the challenges of navigating the school playground, the lack of support from the school, and the importance of bonding through daddy-daughter days. Sophie, shares her perspective on growing up with an undiagnosed autistic father and the challenges they faced as a family and reflect on the changes that occurred after Jordan's autism diagnosis and the newfound understanding and acceptance it brought them.

Takeaways

Struggles and successes in school can vary for neurodivergent individuals, and it's important to focus on the strengths and abilities rather than just the deficits.
Neurodivergence can impact family dynamics, and understanding and support from parents can make a significant difference in a child's experience.
Neurodivergent experiences can vary, with some individuals being more external and emotional, while others are more internal and repetitive.
It is important to lower unrealistic expectations and standards in friendships to foster healthier relationships at school.
Having a diagnosis can provide validation and support, but it is not always necessary for personal growth and understanding

Chapters

00:00 RTN Sponsor

01:18 Introducing Sophie James

08:50 Independence and Struggles in Primary School

16:23 Challenges in the School Playground

32:02 Impact of Neurodivergence on Family Dynamics

36:15 Growing Up with an Undiagnosed Autistic Father

48:25 The Shift in Understanding and Acceptance

55:30 The Impact of Not Having A Filter

01:00:11 Understanding Each Other's Differences

01:07:41 Self-Awareness and Acceptance

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Hot Topic: PIP Cuts 2025 - What the Changes Mean for You

The Neurodivergent Experience

05/08/25 • 26 min

In this weeks Hot Topic, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss the alarming new proposals for Personal Independence Payment (PIP) in the UK, which could lead to 90% of current standard daily living awards failing on renewal.

Here's what we cover in this episode:

We share personal experiences with the PIP application process, highlighting the struggles faced by those with disabilities, particularly neurodivergent individuals.
What are the implications of these changes, the internalized ableism that many face when attempting the application process?
We express our frustration over the system's failures and emphasize the importance of community unity in advocating for the rights of disabled individuals.

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Hot Topic | Nigel Farage on SEND: Ignorance, Outrage, and Eye Rolls

The Neurodivergent Experience

05/15/25 • 31 min

In this week's Hot Topic, we dive headfirst into the swirling storm of ignorance, outrage, and eye rolls sparked by Reform Party Leader Nigel Farage MP’s latest comments on SEND (Special Educational Needs and Disabilities) individuals in the UK. From tone-deaf soundbites to a complete misunderstanding of what being a victim actually means, Farage once again proves that when it comes to empathy and education, he's more out of touch than ever.

Join us as we unpack the backlash and throw in a few well-deserved side-eyes along the way. Spoiler alert: it's not just offensive—it's exhausting! If you're tired of politicians using vulnerable communities and minorities for cheap political points, this one’s for you.

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How We're Getting Through The ADHD Crisis | EP26

The Neurodivergent Experience

07/17/24 • 45 min

In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan is back from Canada and Simon has just turned 30! We talk our travels, big birthdays and the challenges of obtaining ADHD medication. We share our personal experiences with the medication methylphenidate and how it has helped manage the more disabling sides of our Neurodivergence, the lack of understanding and support from healthcare professionals, and why people should treat ADHD as a life long condition. We cover how we use stimulants like caffeine, exercise and how medication affects our brains and provide relief from the more challenging aspects of ADHD.

Takeaways

ADHD medication can be life-changing for Neurodivergent individuals, helping them manage their symptoms as it can improve their quality of life and reduce the risk of accidents and premature deaths.
The process of obtaining ADHD medication can be challenging, with issues such as limited availability, brand preferences, and difficulty in accessing the correct dosage.
Healthcare professionals should have a comprehensive understanding of both ADHD and autism to provide appropriate support and treatment.
There is a need for a more holistic approach to neurodivergent conditions, where individuals are assessed for their specific difficulties and abilities rather than being categorized into separate diagnoses.
The current system of managing ADHD medication is often frustrating and lacks empathy and understanding for the needs of neurodivergent individuals.
Mindfulness can be a helpful tool for managing ADHD symptoms, but it may need to be adapted to suit individual needs and preferences.

Article written by Columnist (and father to an Autistic Son) John Harris in the Guardian

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Hot Topic: RFK Jr Calls Autism 'Preventable' After CDC's Latest Report

The Neurodivergent Experience

04/24/25 • 36 min

HOT HOT HOT!

In our first standalone Hot Topic episode (released every Friday) we discuss and debunk the inaccurate remarks made by Robert F. Kennedy Jr (26th United States Secretary of Health and Human Services) in responding to a new report from the Centres for Disease Control and Prevention. This report claims that rates of Autism had increased to one in 31 among 8-year-olds. We analyse the claims made, the studies cited, and the broader impact of such rhetoric on public perception and policy.

Here's what we cover in this episode:

Mr Kennedy blames environmental risk factors for the uptick, he accused the media and the public of succumbing to a “myth of epidemic denial” when it came to autism. We discuss why he is so wrong!
He called research into the genetic factors that scientists say play a vital role in whether a child will develop autism “a dead end” and that autism was preventable - while directly contradicting researchers within his own agency on a primary driver behind rising rates of Autism diagnosis in young children.
The importance of accurate representation, the role of genetics in autism, and the need for advocacy and community support to combat damaging misinformation and stigma.

Resources:

A new report from the Centres for Disease Control and Prevention

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Not Just In Your Head: Autistic Anxiety Sickness

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03/13/25 • 64 min

In this conversation, Jordan and Simon discuss their personal experiences with anxiety sickness, particularly in relation to life changes and global events. They explore the impact of moving house, the nature of anxiety, and how it can manifest physically and emotionally. The discussion also touches on the overwhelming empathy felt towards global crises and the challenges of staying informed without becoming consumed by anxiety as an Autistic person. They emphasize the importance of coping strategies, practicing mindfulness and the need for community support during difficult times.

This weeks Hot Topic is John Cena's heel turn. They discuss the cultural phenomenon of wrestling for the autistic community, John Cena's legacy and its emotional resonance with autistic fans as their hero of 22 years joins the dark side.

Work with Ashley Bentley at Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapy to break free from old patterns and start living with more clarity, confidence, and connection - https://bit.ly/ashleynde

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