
The Secret That Saved Our Sex Life - Episode 66
04/15/25 • 34 min
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What if everything you thought you knew about sexual desire was keeping you from the connection you truly want?
In this deeply personal episode, we pull back the curtain on our journey through years of sexual disconnect and the breakthrough understanding that finally changed everything.
Drawing from Emily Nagoski's revolutionary books "Come As You Are" and "Come Together," we explore the game-changing concept of sexual "accelerators and brakes" – the hidden forces that either spark or stifle desire.
The most profound revelation? Sometimes, your biggest sexual brake might be your partner's approach or expectations.
Whether you're struggling with mismatched desire or simply want to deepen your connection, this episode offers a path forward.
Ready to transform your intimate relationship? The understanding waiting in this episode might be exactly what you've been searching for all along.
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Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here.
What if everything you thought you knew about sexual desire was keeping you from the connection you truly want?
In this deeply personal episode, we pull back the curtain on our journey through years of sexual disconnect and the breakthrough understanding that finally changed everything.
Drawing from Emily Nagoski's revolutionary books "Come As You Are" and "Come Together," we explore the game-changing concept of sexual "accelerators and brakes" – the hidden forces that either spark or stifle desire.
The most profound revelation? Sometimes, your biggest sexual brake might be your partner's approach or expectations.
Whether you're struggling with mismatched desire or simply want to deepen your connection, this episode offers a path forward.
Ready to transform your intimate relationship? The understanding waiting in this episode might be exactly what you've been searching for all along.
Grab Your Copy of "Come Together" by Emily Nagoski HERE
Grab your set of the Married and Naked Date Night Questions For Couples card deck HERE
Find us on social:
Instagram @marriednnaked
Facebook @MarriedAndNaked
Pinterest @marriednnaked
TikTok @marriedandnaked
Email [email protected]
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The F@#!-It List - Episode 65
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In this episode, we introduce the bold concept that is helping Tammy rediscover herself and her dreams.
We share how Tammy has spent most of her life putting herself on the back burner to help Joel and the kids reach their dreams. Decades of this left her lost and feeling like she was a sailboat without wind.
But that has all changed.
Tune in to learn what changed everything for Tammy and how Joel is supporting her in her newfound purpose and direction.
And discover a fresh idea to help us all chase our dreams like our time is limited. Because it is.
*** Update*** Since recording this episode Tammy has checked another thing off her list. How to make focaccia :) !!!!
Check out the reel that inspired Tammy to change everything.
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Not Your Usual Marriage Advice - Episode 67
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What if the classic marriage advice we’ve all heard is just the beginning? In this episode, Joel and I dive into some of the most out-of-the-box tips our listeners have shared—and we’re giving our honest take on whether they helped or hurt our own relationship.
From surprising suggestions to unconventional truths, we're unpacking what actually works (and what doesn’t) when it comes to real-life love. If you’re over the one-size-fits-all advice and ready for something real, this episode is for you.
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The Married And Naked Podcast - Marriage Secrets Revealed - The Secret That Saved Our Sex Life - Episode 66
Transcript
Welcome to the Married and Naked Podcast . I'm Tammy , founder of the blog Married and Naked , certified sexuality coach and speaker .
Speaker 2And I'm Joel , tv host , motivational speaker and the guinea pig to the lessons you're about to learn .
Speaker 1We're high school sweethearts , married over two decade
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