
Deny Yourself & Carry your Cross like a Hero
12/05/23 • 38 min
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Hello Graceful Warriors! This week we are discussing-
Deny Yourself & Carry your Cross like a Hero
Carry your Cross like a HeroTopics discussed-
- Questions to ask-Matt 16:24- Three commands are in this verse. But how do we do this? What is he asking us to carry? Where do we find it? Or does it stand for something more mysterious and deeper then anything we could understand?
- what carrying the cross meant during Jesus time-To carry a cross was to face the most painful and humiliating means of death human beings could develop. If you were carrying a cross, you were on your way to be crucified.
- what do we suffer these days- we are mocked, laughed at- called names. even worse- some are arrested and put to death with no trial. (overseas). Churches shut down. What we as Americans go through is so miniscule as to what 1st century church has gone through and what the church goes through overseas-- why do we shut down from name calling?
what denial means-Gospel Coaltion states it perfectly-Denial in the New Testament is the intentional disassociation from relationship with a particular person. Another translation, then, might be to “disown” or “renounce.”
For example, this is the verb used when Peter “denies” Jesus. He denies that he knows Jesus or has any association with him.
Self-denial, then, is intentional disowning of the self, or stepping away from relationship with the self as primary. Jesus is not making a statement about whether the self is bad, but about who we are most closely associated with. Who is our primary allegiance to—him, or ourselves? We are bought by his blood. no longer are we our own but his.
Pick up your Cross like a hero
GC states- We aren’t occasionally called to pick up a certain cross; we are called to an entire way of life. We often speak of whether we are willing to “count the cost” of discipleship. But the real issue is not the costliness of following Jesus—it’s our willingness to follow him regardless of the cost. The greatness or littleness of the cost is no longer emphasized; rather, all of life is to be surrendered to him.
Got Questions- stated it perfectly-"Bearing a cross meant one was about to die, and that one would face ridicule and disgrace along the way."
Many thought the Christ would immediately usher in the restored kingdom (Luke 19:11). They believed He would free them from the oppressive rule of their Roman occupiers. Or our Govt admin now. Some hoped He would continue to provide free lunches for everyone (John 6:26). Jesus’ statement that following Him requires taking up a cross made people think twice about their motivations and level of commitment. Its about the heart not lip action. God looks at the heart.
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My Favorite Scripture- "Fear not- For I have redeemed you, I have called you by your name~ You are Mine." Isaiah 43:1
Hello Graceful Warriors! This week we are discussing-
Deny Yourself & Carry your Cross like a Hero
Carry your Cross like a HeroTopics discussed-
- Questions to ask-Matt 16:24- Three commands are in this verse. But how do we do this? What is he asking us to carry? Where do we find it? Or does it stand for something more mysterious and deeper then anything we could understand?
- what carrying the cross meant during Jesus time-To carry a cross was to face the most painful and humiliating means of death human beings could develop. If you were carrying a cross, you were on your way to be crucified.
- what do we suffer these days- we are mocked, laughed at- called names. even worse- some are arrested and put to death with no trial. (overseas). Churches shut down. What we as Americans go through is so miniscule as to what 1st century church has gone through and what the church goes through overseas-- why do we shut down from name calling?
what denial means-Gospel Coaltion states it perfectly-Denial in the New Testament is the intentional disassociation from relationship with a particular person. Another translation, then, might be to “disown” or “renounce.”
For example, this is the verb used when Peter “denies” Jesus. He denies that he knows Jesus or has any association with him.
Self-denial, then, is intentional disowning of the self, or stepping away from relationship with the self as primary. Jesus is not making a statement about whether the self is bad, but about who we are most closely associated with. Who is our primary allegiance to—him, or ourselves? We are bought by his blood. no longer are we our own but his.
Pick up your Cross like a hero
GC states- We aren’t occasionally called to pick up a certain cross; we are called to an entire way of life. We often speak of whether we are willing to “count the cost” of discipleship. But the real issue is not the costliness of following Jesus—it’s our willingness to follow him regardless of the cost. The greatness or littleness of the cost is no longer emphasized; rather, all of life is to be surrendered to him.
Got Questions- stated it perfectly-"Bearing a cross meant one was about to die, and that one would face ridicule and disgrace along the way."
Many thought the Christ would immediately usher in the restored kingdom (Luke 19:11). They believed He would free them from the oppressive rule of their Roman occupiers. Or our Govt admin now. Some hoped He would continue to provide free lunches for everyone (John 6:26). Jesus’ statement that following Him requires taking up a cross made people think twice about their motivations and level of commitment. Its about the heart not lip action. God looks at the heart.
You can send some support our way with a tip!
Head over toSupport The Graceful Warrior and like all of our gratefully received support, Your tip will be invested right back into The Graceful Warrior. Thank You and God Bless you.
Subscribe, Rate, and Review: If you enjoyed this episode of the Graceful Warrior Pod, please subscribe, rate and leave me a review on your favorite podcast platform. Your support helps me reach more listeners like you and continue to deliver valuable content on the life of the believer.
Don't forget! Friday's on The Warrior's Table. We have guests from around the world come to share their testimonies, trials, and triumphs to inspire us to keep lacing up our combat boots in grit and grace as they share their stories.
Exclusive Content:
For Exclusive content like getting a shout-out on the podcast or your website mentioned on the show, Notice of Pre-launch Book deals, head to my The Graceful Warrior website page, and Subscribe! Be sure to tell all your Church friends and family that the show is available to listen to right here!
Join me on Social to chat
Check out where you can find me on social media- https://linktr.ee/GracefulPod
Email us - [email protected] for questions, and topics, or perhaps you would like to be a guest on the show.
My Favorite Scripture- "Fear not- For I have redeemed you, I have called you by your name~ You are Mine." Isaiah 43:1
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Subscribe, Rate, and Review: If you enjoyed this episode of the Graceful Warrior Pod, please subscribe, rate and leave me a review on your favorite podcast platform. Your support helps me reach more listeners like you and continue to deliver valuable content on the life of the believer.
Don't forget! Friday's on The Warrior's Table. We have guests from around the world come to share their testimonies, trials, and triumphs to inspire us to keep lacing up our combat boots in grit and grace as they share their stories.
Exclusive Content:
For Exclusive content like getting a shout-out on the podcast or your website mentioned on the show, Notice of Pre-launch Book deals, head to my The Graceful Warrior website page, and Subscribe! Be sure to tell all your Church friends and family that the show is available to listen to right here!
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Email us - [email protected] for questions, and topics, or perhaps you would like to be a guest on the show.
My Favorite Scripture- "Fear not- For I have redeemed you, I have called you by your name~ You are Mine." Isaiah 43:1
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For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind. Timothy 1:7
Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. Ephesians 6:11
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Le'Keshia is a 15 yr Navy Vet. She is also an author of four books. Two added to a trilogy entitled Writing Your Way through Breakthrough. Her other two books are children's books- 1) A Twinkle Mystery and 2) Through Abba's Eyes.to reach Le'Keshia check her out on her website at https://iamcreativewords.my.canva.site
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Don't forget! Friday's on The Warrior's Table. We have guests from around the world come to share their testimonies, trials, and triumphs to inspire us to keep lacing up our combat boots in grit and grace as they share their stories.
Exclusive Content:
For Exclusive content like getting a shout-out on the podcast or your website mentioned on the show, Notice of Pre-launch Book deals, head to my The Graceful Warrior website page, and Subscribe! Be sure to tell all your Church friends and family that the show is available to listen to right here!
Join me on Social to chat
Check out where you can find me on social media- https://linktr.ee/GracefulPod
Email us - [email protected] for questions, and topics, or perhaps you would like to be a guest on the show.
My Favorite Scripture- "Fear not- For I have redeemed you, I have called you by your name~ You are Mine." Isaiah 43:1
Thank you for listening, if you like this episode Please comment , like and share, so others may hear the Gospel.Call to Action
1. Grab my Book from Me and save the S/H. Donate $10 here https://BuyMeACoffee.com/GracefulWarrior
Email me at [email protected] your mailing address and I will send you a signed copy of my Book- Captured By His Heart.
2. Subscribe at https://TheGracefulWarrior.com
3. For my Blogs - Subscribe to my substack- https://TheGracefulWarriorPodcast.Substack.com
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For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind. Timothy 1:7
Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. Ephesians 6:11
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