Transentience Rising

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01/18/23 • 47 min

Loves, if you’d had the opportunity to be in the “studio” with us as we recorded this week’s episode, you would realize how deeply touched and turned on we were by this guest. It is our sincere pleasure to introduce the Yoniverse to Ley David Elliette Cray, PhD (she/they). Ley is an author, board-certified sexologist, and LGBTQIA+ and BDSM educator, coach, and consultant. She is the founder of Transentience Coaching, a podcaster on the MŌN app, and LGBTQIA+ Curriculum Coordinator for the Sexual Health Alliance. She is currently based out of Las Cruces, New Mexico, where she watches a lot of horror movies with her cats.

In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

Ley’s origin story, and her grand rising into her authentic self in more recent years.
Blazing trails as the first “out” transgender woman to receive tenure at a Texas church-based university.
In her coaching business, Ley explains how she is not afraid to show up in her authenticity, which provides a more trusting and expansive container for her clients to transform within.
Ley describes how, for much of her life when she was trying to live from the societally expected “masculine”, it felt like she was walking around with her shoes on the wrong feet with shards of glass in them.
Challenging all of us to look at transgender issues from a whole person perspective, rather than a pronouns and genitals perspective.
We go deep...talking existential crisis associated with capitalism, and the resulting alienation we feel from ourselves.
Inkless tattoos as a form of kink...or...rather, is it an extension of a mindfulness practice?

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Website: http://www.transentiencecoaching.com/
Patreon
Instagram: @transentience.coaching
MŌN: @leydelliette

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In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

Ley’s origin story, and her grand rising into her authentic self in more recent years.
Blazing trails as the first “out” transgender woman to receive tenure at a Texas church-based university.
In her coaching business, Ley explains how she is not afraid to show up in her authenticity, which provides a more trusting and expansive container for her clients to transform within.
Ley describes how, for much of her life when she was trying to live from the societally expected “masculine”, it felt like she was walking around with her shoes on the wrong feet with shards of glass in them.
Challenging all of us to look at transgender issues from a whole person perspective, rather than a pronouns and genitals perspective.
We go deep...talking existential crisis associated with capitalism, and the resulting alienation we feel from ourselves.
Inkless tattoos as a form of kink...or...rather, is it an extension of a mindfulness practice?

The Flaming Yoni website: theflamingyoni.com

Follow Áine:

Instagram: @priestessaine
Twitter: @PriestessAine
TikTok: @priestessaine

Follow Scarlet:

Instagram: @salacious_scarlet
Twitter: @Salacious_Scar

Follow Ley:

Website: http://www.transentiencecoaching.com/
Patreon
Instagram: @transentience.coaching
MŌN: @leydelliette

Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sexualchemy/exclusive-content

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A Hotwife Enters the Yoniverse

This week, the Yoniverse gets its inaugural joint guest, and it is none other than our good friend and SlutSisterTM, Mistress K! Mistress K (she/her) is a Hotwife/Cuckoldress/Domme/Primal in a Female Led Relationship (FLR). She is non-monogamous, bi-curious, and heteroromantic. She is als a proud SlutSisterTM, a curious kinkster, a sexual health advocate, and a lifestyle blogger.

In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

How Mistress K became Mistress K...her origin story of sorts!
Discovering power dynamics and kink through a safe and loving non-monogamous container.
What is a Female Led Relationship? And what Mistress K refers to as her version of the “marriage tax”.
Language and labels in non-monogamy land...what is helpful, and where can it become hurtful?
The imposter syndrome gremlins that just won’t leave us alone at times...and how do we push through and put our fears aside to share these incredibly private details out there...and why?
Mistress K’s “famous” Twitter crush...Dr. David Ley...and the origins of #CuckWeek. Speaking of...#CuckWeek is coming up again in 2023 - kicking off on January 23!

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Blog: https://headstronghotwife.com/
Twitter: @HeadstrongHW

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Next Episode

Cucksitting + Tribal Cuckolding

Happy second annual #CuckWeek! For those of you to whom this is an unknown, #CuckWeek was born out of a conversation on Twitter in late 2021 about how misunderstood cuckolding is as a dynamic within the non-monogamy community. At that time, a group of sex educators, professionals, bloggers, podcasters, etc...decided to come together and spend a week educating the masses about what cuckolding is...and isn’t. So step inside the Yoniverse with us this week to hear our offering for #CuckWeek 2023!

In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

Before we jump right in - some definitions are in order! What is cuckolding, let alone cucksitting and tribal cuckolding?
What exposure to the cuckolding dynamic has done for each of us, and our femme expressions of dominance.
How cucksitting was born out of the bond of sisterhood for us, and how it has only deepened our relationships to our sisters.
The explosion of cuckolding in popularity.
Our individual experiences and expressions in cucksitting - who do you think is the hammer, and who is the feather?
Cucksitting as an aspect of tribal cuckolding.

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