What Was I Thinking: Are These Thoughts Normal?

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02/23/21 • 48 min

Having some abnormal thoughts about your spouse? Thinking some things about your marriage that you’re afraid to share with your husband or wife? But, are these thoughts abnormal or do most people in marriages or relationships have similar thoughts? What are some of the thoughts that may seem weird, and how do we process these thoughts in a healthy way? This week, on The Confident Marriage Podcast, Sean and Jessica talk about thoughts people have about their marriage or spouse and what to do so these thoughts don’t lead to unhealthy behaviors. Find out how perfectly normal and common thoughts lead to misconceptions that can push you toward things like infidelity and divorce. Learn how you can’t fix your spouse or your marriage until you fix yourself, and also learn to celebrate the beautiful uniqueness of your imperfect marriage, Confidently!

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