
Sex, Lies and Romance with Author Donna Gray-Banks
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01/29/21 • 92 min
Host Chandra B and author Donna Gray Banks author of erotica Ila's Diamonds (trilogy). This interview leaves no sexual question (stone) left unturned. This conversation will leave you enlightened and inspired...
THIS YEAR THE CHAISE LOUNGE is breaking episodes into 3 different categories... Dating...Building and Improving. This topic can apply to all three but Daters may get the most out of this discussion. Introduce topic Sex Lies and Romance. Is talking about Sex and Erotica taboo during the dating phase? When should it come up...should daters be open and upfront within the first few conversations or should they hold back until they know where “this” is going? For the purpose of this discussion the Lies are primarily those of omission especially when it comes to sex and romance. Whether its additional partners, a sexual desire or proclivity as well as pleasure needs/fulfillment. Discussion on how these types of lies affect the development, intimacy and romance of relationships.
the first book is about love and how we obtain it, nurture it, expound on it and ultimately lose it...then in Ila’s Diamonds II you say its an erotic look at emotional exploitation and meaningless sexual gratification that develops between men and women when true love is not the impetus for a relationship...
Why is love and or commitment seems so difficult to capture? Does sex and dating change after divorce or as we age...are we chasing that first hit...like an addict? What roles does Sex, lies and romance play after 40...does it evolve?.
Chandra B. and Guest Donna Gray Banks share a wealth of information from losing your virginity and masturbation to Oral sex and sexual fulfillment. You will gain several nuggets of wisdom throughout the episode...
Share it with your friends and especially your daughters.
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Want to know more or get in touch with Donna Gray-Banks
Donna M. Gray-Banks is the Founder and Director of the F.R.E.S.H. Book Festival (Fiction, Romance, Erotica, Spiritual and Health), one of the largest book festivals for minority self-published authors in Florida. The Festival began in 2011 and the City of Daytona Beach began sponsorship of the Festival in 2012. Gray-Banks is the author of a very successful suspense erotic trilogy, “Ila’s Diamonds I, II, and III” and is currently working on her IV novel “The House That Jack Built”. Donna is a guest columnist for Blackmeninamerica.com, the Daytona Times/Courier Newspaper and is a Book Broker.
Contact Information:
www.freshbookfestivals.net or [email protected] or www.donnamgraybanks.net or [email protected]
Host Chandra B and author Donna Gray Banks author of erotica Ila's Diamonds (trilogy). This interview leaves no sexual question (stone) left unturned. This conversation will leave you enlightened and inspired...
THIS YEAR THE CHAISE LOUNGE is breaking episodes into 3 different categories... Dating...Building and Improving. This topic can apply to all three but Daters may get the most out of this discussion. Introduce topic Sex Lies and Romance. Is talking about Sex and Erotica taboo during the dating phase? When should it come up...should daters be open and upfront within the first few conversations or should they hold back until they know where “this” is going? For the purpose of this discussion the Lies are primarily those of omission especially when it comes to sex and romance. Whether its additional partners, a sexual desire or proclivity as well as pleasure needs/fulfillment. Discussion on how these types of lies affect the development, intimacy and romance of relationships.
the first book is about love and how we obtain it, nurture it, expound on it and ultimately lose it...then in Ila’s Diamonds II you say its an erotic look at emotional exploitation and meaningless sexual gratification that develops between men and women when true love is not the impetus for a relationship...
Why is love and or commitment seems so difficult to capture? Does sex and dating change after divorce or as we age...are we chasing that first hit...like an addict? What roles does Sex, lies and romance play after 40...does it evolve?.
Chandra B. and Guest Donna Gray Banks share a wealth of information from losing your virginity and masturbation to Oral sex and sexual fulfillment. You will gain several nuggets of wisdom throughout the episode...
Share it with your friends and especially your daughters.
Email your topic suggestion or Question to: [email protected]
Subscribe to newsletter via my website at newsletter
Leave a review on Apple podcast or my website https://stormcommunicationsnconsulting.com/chaise-lounge-podcast/ or Facebook review
Music Credits
Afternoon Nap by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-official
Music promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.com
Creative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported
https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0/deed.en_US
Want to know more or get in touch with Donna Gray-Banks
Donna M. Gray-Banks is the Founder and Director of the F.R.E.S.H. Book Festival (Fiction, Romance, Erotica, Spiritual and Health), one of the largest book festivals for minority self-published authors in Florida. The Festival began in 2011 and the City of Daytona Beach began sponsorship of the Festival in 2012. Gray-Banks is the author of a very successful suspense erotic trilogy, “Ila’s Diamonds I, II, and III” and is currently working on her IV novel “The House That Jack Built”. Donna is a guest columnist for Blackmeninamerica.com, the Daytona Times/Courier Newspaper and is a Book Broker.
Contact Information:
www.freshbookfestivals.net or [email protected] or www.donnamgraybanks.net or [email protected]
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