Ep 123: Nighttime You Isn't the Enemy, She Just Needs Different Care
04/10/25 • 9 min
Ever notice how your resolve seems strongest in the morning, only to fade as the day progresses? By evening, that glass of wine beckons as the perfect solution to your exhaustion. But what if there's a better way to honor your nighttime needs?
This episode unpacks the truth that many women miss: your evening self isn't weak or working against you—she's simply carrying the accumulated weight of your day. Through a faith-centered approach to understanding these evening struggles, you'll discover that alcohol isn't the comfort you're truly seeking.
I share three transformative strategies that have helped countless Catholic women reclaim their evenings without wine. You'll learn how to create sacred evening rituals that invite both physical and spiritual peace, how to pause and pray when cravings arise, identify what your heart truly needs, and how to build joyful alternatives that you genuinely look forward to. These aren't just temporary fixes—they're pathways to profound changes in how you experience your evenings.
Each small choice you make creates momentum toward mornings without regret and evenings filled with true rest. Whether you're questioning your relationship with alcohol or simply seeking more intentional evenings, this episode offers both practical wisdom and spiritual encouragement for your journey. Join our community of women embracing holy self-care and discovering deeper joy beyond the wine glass.
Join me in the FIRE50 Challenge, a FREE 50-day spiritual journey focused on deepening your connection with the Holy Spirit. You'll explore daily practices, discover our unique charisms, and grow in community with others seeking God's presence in their lives.
This is your chance to awaken new possibilities, and experience the transforming power of the Holy Spirit.
I'm here for you. I'm praying for you. You are NOT alone!
Please subscribe to this podcast so you won't miss a thing!
🔥 JOIN the FREE FIRE 50 Challenge - bit.ly/4jNqoJM
👉🏻 JOIN THE FREE 5-DAY KICK START
https://the-catholic-sobriety-coach.myflodesk.com/5-day-sobriety-kick-start
👉🏻 Join The Sacred Sobriety Lab
https://sacredsobrietylab.com
Visit my Website: https://thecatholicsobrietycoach.comTelos Art Get 10% off Using Coupon Code CHRISTIE10 https://telosartshop.com/?ref=christie
Ever notice how your resolve seems strongest in the morning, only to fade as the day progresses? By evening, that glass of wine beckons as the perfect solution to your exhaustion. But what if there's a better way to honor your nighttime needs?
This episode unpacks the truth that many women miss: your evening self isn't weak or working against you—she's simply carrying the accumulated weight of your day. Through a faith-centered approach to understanding these evening struggles, you'll discover that alcohol isn't the comfort you're truly seeking.
I share three transformative strategies that have helped countless Catholic women reclaim their evenings without wine. You'll learn how to create sacred evening rituals that invite both physical and spiritual peace, how to pause and pray when cravings arise, identify what your heart truly needs, and how to build joyful alternatives that you genuinely look forward to. These aren't just temporary fixes—they're pathways to profound changes in how you experience your evenings.
Each small choice you make creates momentum toward mornings without regret and evenings filled with true rest. Whether you're questioning your relationship with alcohol or simply seeking more intentional evenings, this episode offers both practical wisdom and spiritual encouragement for your journey. Join our community of women embracing holy self-care and discovering deeper joy beyond the wine glass.
Join me in the FIRE50 Challenge, a FREE 50-day spiritual journey focused on deepening your connection with the Holy Spirit. You'll explore daily practices, discover our unique charisms, and grow in community with others seeking God's presence in their lives.
This is your chance to awaken new possibilities, and experience the transforming power of the Holy Spirit.
I'm here for you. I'm praying for you. You are NOT alone!
Please subscribe to this podcast so you won't miss a thing!
🔥 JOIN the FREE FIRE 50 Challenge - bit.ly/4jNqoJM
👉🏻 JOIN THE FREE 5-DAY KICK START
https://the-catholic-sobriety-coach.myflodesk.com/5-day-sobriety-kick-start
👉🏻 Join The Sacred Sobriety Lab
https://sacredsobrietylab.com
Visit my Website: https://thecatholicsobrietycoach.comTelos Art Get 10% off Using Coupon Code CHRISTIE10 https://telosartshop.com/?ref=christie
Previous Episode
Ep122: Swap the Booze for Bliss: Fun Ways to Unwind Without Alcohol
Ever caught yourself automatically reaching for that glass of wine after a stressful day? You're not alone. The desire to escape, unwind, and find relief is completely natural – but alcohol might not be the solution your body and soul truly need.
This episode dives deep into why we turn to alcohol as our default decompression tool and offers genuinely effective alternatives that leave you feeling better, not worse. I share the powerful concept of identifying the feeling behind the drink – whether it's stress, anxiety, celebration, or simply wanting to shut off your brain – and how this awareness creates space for healthier choices.
From creating meaningful rituals (like savoring herbal tea or taking aromatic baths) to movement practices that release tension (even just "wiggling it out"!), these practical strategies address the root needs that drinking temporarily numbs. We explore how prayer, creative expression, and authentic connection can fulfill our deepest desires for escape and relief while keeping us fully present in our one beautiful life.
The highlight of this episode is the Dopamine Menu – a game-changing tool that categorizes mood-boosting activities. This structured approach eliminates decision fatigue when cravings strike.
Ready to discover what's waiting on the other side of that drink?
Download the Dopamine Menu template and take one small step this week toward unwinding in ways that honor your mind, body, and soul. Remember – alcohol doesn't bring out your best self. It keeps you from discovering it.
Dopamine Menu: https://the-catholic-sobriety-coach.myflodesk.com/dopaminemenu
Join me in the FIRE50 Challenge, a FREE 50-day spiritual journey focused on deepening your connection with the Holy Spirit. You'll explore daily practices, discover our unique charisms, and grow in community with others seeking God's presence in their lives.
This is your chance to awaken new possibilities, and experience the transforming power of the Holy Spirit.
I'm here for you. I'm praying for you. You are NOT alone!
Please subscribe to this podcast so you won't miss a thing!
🔥 JOIN the FREE FIRE 50 Challenge - bit.ly/4jNqoJM
👉🏻 JOIN THE FREE 5-DAY KICK START
https://the-catholic-sobriety-coach.myflodesk.com/5-day-sobriety-kick-start
👉🏻 Join The Sacred Sobriety Lab
https://sacredsobrietylab.com
Visit my Website: https://thecatholicsobrietycoach.comTelos Art Get 10% off Using Coupon Code CHRISTIE10 https://telosartshop.com/?ref=christie
Next Episode
Ep 124: Warrior Words: 33 Years of Sobriety with Heather Gaffney
What happens when a terrifying wake-up call becomes the first step in a 33-year journey of sobriety? Heather Gaffney joins us to share her remarkable story of transformation—from a young woman whose bartenders knew her by name to becoming a beacon of hope for others navigating recovery and trauma.
Heather's candid revelations about her drinking period resonate with raw honesty as she describes the moment everything changed: waking up in an unfamiliar place with no memory of how she got there. That April morning 33 years ago marked the beginning of a profound spiritual journey that has carried her through domestic abuse, breast cancer, and countless other challenges with an unshakable faith.
The conversation delves into the surprising ways God shows up in our darkest moments—like Heather finding a 10-year AA chip outside a bar long before she got sober—and how these divine breadcrumbs often only become visible in retrospect. We both share how sobriety doesn't just remove alcohol's negative effects but unveils an entirely new level of spiritual clarity and emotional authenticity.
As the creator of the "Warrior Words" podcast, Heather now provides a platform for others to share their stories of survival and hope. Her practical advice on writing without self-criticism offers listeners a tangible way to process their own experiences and discover the beauty hidden within their struggles.
Whether you're questioning your relationship with alcohol or facing seemingly insurmountable challenges, this episode reminds us that hope persists even in life's darkest corners. Listen now to discover how embracing vulnerability and faith can transform your story into one of purpose and unexpected joy.
Warrior Words Podcast:
https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/warrior-words-stories-of-hope-finding-beauty-after/id1725674975
Warrior Words YouTube Channel
https://www.youtube.com/@warriorwords
Heather's Warrior Words Facebook Group
https://www.facebook.com/groups/warriorwords
Break free from alcohol with Christ-centered guidance, community support, and powerful tools. Transform your life with the Sacred Sobriety Lab. Join today at SacredSobrietyLab.com.
Join me in the FIRE50 Challenge, a FREE 50-day spiritual journey focused on deepening your connection with the Holy Spirit. You'll explore daily practices, discover our unique charisms, and grow in community with others seeking God's presence in their lives.
This is your chance to awaken new possibilities, and experience the transforming power of the Holy Spirit.
I'm here for you. I'm praying for you. You are NOT alone!
Please subscribe to this podcast so you won't miss a thing!
🔥 JOIN the FREE FIRE 50 Challenge - bit.ly/4jNqoJM
👉🏻 JOIN THE FREE 5-DAY KICK START
https://the-catholic-sobriety-coach.myflodesk.com/5-day-sobriety-kick-start
👉🏻 Join The Sacred Sobriety Lab
https://sacredsobrietylab.com
Visit my Website: https://thecatholicsobrietycoach.comTelos Art Get 10% off Using Coupon Code CHRISTIE10 https://telosartshop.com/?ref=christie
The Catholic Sobriety Podcast - Ep 123: Nighttime You Isn't the Enemy, She Just Needs Different Care
Transcript
Welcome to the Catholic Sobriety Podcast , the go-to resource for women seeking to have a deeper understanding of the role alcohol plays in their lives , women who are looking to drink less or not at all for any reason . I am your host , christi Walker . I'm a wife , mom and a joy-filled Catholic , and I am the Catholic Sobriety Coach , and I am so glad you're here .
SpeIf you like this episode you’ll love
Episode Comments
Generate a badge
Get a badge for your website that links back to this episode
<a href="https://goodpods.com/podcasts/the-catholic-sobriety-podcast-257442/ep-123-nighttime-you-isnt-the-enemy-she-just-needs-different-care-89313955"> <img src="https://storage.googleapis.com/goodpods-images-bucket/badges/generic-badge-1.svg" alt="listen to ep 123: nighttime you isn't the enemy, she just needs different care on goodpods" style="width: 225px" /> </a>
Copy