The Boundless Mindset Podcast

This is an important topic for me because when I realized the meaning of this it changed everything for me. It helped me show up differently in the world.

What do I mean by know your worth?

Look around you, what do you see? Are you happy with where you’re at in life? Are you happy with your job, career, business? Are you happy with your relationships? Are you spending your time with people that honour, love and support you?

If you answered No, to any of these questions, then ask yourself:

Why am I tolerating this? And see what comes up for you.

You might find yourself coming up with reasons and rationale why you are tolerating certain things in your life because you feel like it’s necessary for you to do so.

This is another way to justify that you are not worthy of what you truly want and desire therefore, not knowing your true worth.

Your dreams and desires are your higher-self telling you your worth.

It might take some time before we come to get to the place of where we're no longer tolerating certain things in our lives. It could be today, tomorrow or years from now. And for some, they will sadly never get to that point.

So why is it important to recognize your worth?

As soon as you decide that you are no longer tolerating things that are not serving you, you start to recognize your worth.

Knowing your worth will help you align yourself with the things that bring you joy, happiness and fulfilment. Therefore, Manifesting your Magic!

You can only manifest and receive what you believe to be worthy of. As long as you keep denying your worth, you won’t be able to invite your desires.

You have to create a space for your dreams and desires in your life, and you can’t do that when you stay in situations that don’t honour your worth.

If you are finding yourself in a job that doesn’t give you satisfaction and fulfilment, then you need to ask yourself why you are tolerating this job? And you need to be really honest with yourself.

Ask yourself, If I wasn’t tolerating this, how would I be spending my time and energy?

If you find yourself that you are tolerating a relationship that’s not loving and supportive, ask yourself why am I tolerating this relationship? Ask yourself if I could have the kind of relationship that I’m worthy of describe what kind of a relationship would that be?

Once you have these honest moments of reflection with yourself, you’ll start to identify things that you are tolerating in your life because of a limiting belief or lack of self-worth that you may have about yourself.

When I was contemplating whether or not I should quit my job, I had to have real talk with myself.

I had to ask myself why I was staying at this job even though I knew it was time to move on. You see, I believe everything comes with an expiry date, and once we fail to recognize that we are beyond this point and we need to move on that’s when we stay stuck!

When asked myself this question, the answer came down to the paycheque. I had to be honest with myself and know this was the reason why I was stuck in this job.

Then the next question was, is this pay cheque worth giving up my desires, dreams and my life vision.

After this honest reflection, I couldn’t convince myself to reduce my life to a pay cheque.

This was not an easy process, but it was a necessary step that woke me up and helped me gain the clarity that I needed.

Let’s do this exercise:

List all the things in your life that you are currently tolerating

Ask yourself, if I wasn’t tolerating each of these things what would be doing/having instead?

These are the things that you are worthy of! This will help you to start creating space for what you truly desire and cultivating your self-worth.
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The first time that I became aware of the LOA was when I realized that I was experiencing lack in many areas of my life. I had no idea that I was causing myself to be in this circumstance to be this way.

I found myself in multiple side hustles, but still not financially independent. I was still struggling to pay the bills and feeling exhausted! My quality of life was very poor, I had no time for myself and my kids. I felt like I was running all the time but never reaching anywhere.

One day I was having a casual discussion with my daughters and we were discussing past events that happened, and my daughter Khadra, said to me ...”But you know mom, you allowed that to happen”

At first, it was difficult to hear that, as no one wants believe that they allowed undesirable - even painful circumstances to exist in their lives. But once I got over myself and the hesitation to accept the truth in that statement, I realized that YES in fact, I did cause that situation to happen. Without me allowing it, it would not exist! That was my wake-up call.

What is the LOA?

The LOA is one of the universal laws such as the LOG. Even though you can’t see it, it’s there working all the time!

The LOA is based on:

1. Everything is in vibration
2. Vibrations of similar frequencies are drawn together
3. You have the ability to control your vibration and the condition of your life

What’s Manifestation?

Dictionary Definition - To show something clearly, through signs or actions

“Manifesting is making everything you want to feel and experience a reality... via your thoughts, actions, beliefs, and emotions.”

Angelina Lombardo, the author of A Spiritual Entrepreneur

What you think about all day is what you will manifest into your life.

This is why you hear people say – Same shit different day! Why do we continue to experience the same things continuously even though we so desperately despise it? – Because this is what we are thinking about all the time.

Try this:

• Pay attention to your thoughts without judgement
• Notice negative thought patterns
• Shift negative thoughts to more positive thoughts

I saw my world shift when I created my vision board and allowed myself to manifest my ultimate desires. As soon as I did that, I was AMAZED how my life started to change instantly. I felt that I was vibrating at a different level! I was no longer consumed by thinking about survival, instead my thoughts became all about thriving and being boundless!

That’s how I discovered the LAO accidentally!

Because of that vision board, I created my company – The Boundless Mindset – Which BTW was inspired by the name I gave to that year – Boundless

Waking up every day to support the people I most care about, feeling inspired and fulfilled, living my life the way I choose to live - showing up BIG, BOLD and BOUNDLESS!

As we welcome the new year, I challenge you to allow yourself to dream and desire the life that you want without hesitation, limitation or restrictions. See yourself living your best life. What does success mean to you? Describe how you are feeling, your environment and those around you.
I am so excited to share with you that I will be bringing back my popular workshop; Manifest ?Your Magic this month. Click on the Link for more info and to register:
Manifest Your Magic - 2021 Webinar

Now, I would love to hear from you! What are you manifesting today?
Thank you so much for joining me today! I appreciate your time and presence.

Mindset is defined as a person’s way of thinking and their view of the world.

How’s your mindset helping you to stay aligned with your goals in life and business?

The psychologist Carol Dweck has been investigating the questions – Why some people with no apparent exceptional skills or talents become successful while others don’t. She wrote the Mindset book in which she examined this topic in depth.

Her and her team did an experiment. They worked with students and divided them into two groups. One group was praised for their ability while the other group was praised for their efforts.

When the ability group solved a problem, they were told “You did this so well! You must be really good at this!”

And the group that was praised for the effort were told “You did this so well, you must really have worked hard on this!”

After a while, the group that were praised for their efforts continued to excel while the group that was praised for their ability declined in their progress.

Professor Dweck explains that we have either growth mindset or fixed mindset.

Someone with a growth mindset, believes that they can accomplish anything with some hard work and effort. While someone with a fixed mindset believes that we are born with a set of abilities that determines how successful they are and there’s really nothing they can do to change it.

How do you know what kind of mindset you have; growth or fixed?

Think about something that you did that didn’t work out as you hoped or planned. What was your thoughts about that? Did you think that you were just not good idea and you should just not do that and focus on other things? Or Did you think that there was something you can do differently to get a better – more desired outcome?

What if I have a growth mindset vs fixed mindset? Why does it matter in my business?

Well your mindset could be either helping you get ahead or holding you back! If you believe someone is just a “natural born public speaker” or that you “just can’t speak in public” you’re holding a fixed mindset. With a fixed mindset, you avoid new challenges because you’re afraid of being judged.

In a growth mindset, you believe you can develop any ability through dedication and hard work. Because of this belief, you have a desire to learn. This enables you to embrace challenges and persevere when setbacks happen during the learning process.

How can we change our mindset from fixed to growth?

Step 1: Become aware of your fixed mindset
Listen to your fixed mindset “voice”. When you’re working on your business and trying to find opportunities, you might hear your inner voice saying “if I only had this ------------ ” or “If I was good at --------------- things would be a lot easier”. Recognize it as your fixed mindset voice.

Step 2: Recognize that you have a choice to change your fixed mindset self talk
When you hear your fixed mindset voice, you have the choice to interpret it as challenges, setbacks and self-criticism (fixed mindset) or as an opportunity to challenge yourself and learn something new, explore strategies for better results and continued growth.

Step 3: Talk Back to your fixed mindset voice
As you approach a challenge, your fixed mindset might say “Are you sure you can do this?" Answer with your growth mindset voice “I am not sure that I will get it right the first time, but with some experience and learning I will be able to know how to run a successful business”.

Step 4: Take consistent growth mindset action
Take consistent growth oriented actions. In time, this will help to reprogram your fixed mindset to shift to growth mindset.For more, visit www.theboundlessmindset.com

Do you know that we’re all born with a set of unique talents and special gifts?
Gifts that no one else has but you. There’s only one you in the entire universe.
The truth is that we all have specific purposes for being here. Our desires,
dreams, and ambitions are directly related to that purpose. And our innate gifts,
talents, strengths and abilities are there to support us with our purpose.
One of my favourite authors and spiritual leader, Eckhart Tolle says: “You are here
to enable the divine purpose of the universe to unfold. That is how important you
are!” That’s how we’re all connected to one another. You carry within you
certain unique qualities and attributes that contribute to society. Your life
matters - your business matters - everything you do has an impact.
So how do you determine your unique gifts? and how do you apply it to your life
and business? at a young age we are taught to focus on improving our weaknesses. When we get feedback, the thing that we hear the most is what we need to improve...all
the things we are not good at! But that’s not where the magic is. The magic is in
knowing and magnifying your strengths. Recognizing our talents and gifts is what sets us apart from everyone else. It’s what will give you the confidence to do things your own way and not be afraid to create your own path that’s different from everyone else.
Whatever you do, your uniqueness adds colour, texture, flavour, and emotion to
your life, your business, and the lives of everyone around you.
To discover your unique talents and special gifts, consider this:
1. Think of when you were a child, how did you spend most of your free
time? What did you enjoy doing? What types of activities were exciting to
you?
2. What lights you up and gets you motivated? What activities do you love so
much so that you lose track of time.
How to Apply Your Special Gifts
It’s important to get familiar with your zone of genius. the thing that you are the
best at and fully own it! How you show up in the world is special and unique.
Everything you do is uniquely yours - your general demeanour, your smile, how
people feel around you is truly unique and your undeniable gift.
The more you apply your whole self into your business the more authentic your
business will be. You will be able to resonate with your target market - they will be able
to relate to you, trust you and feel that they’re part of your journey and brand.
you are involved in the business that fits your vision, your values and your passion it becomes your life’s work and enjoyment.
Start listening to your gifts, strengths, talents, today - Pay close attention to your zone of genius and what brings you joy, then sprinkle it in everything you do.
For more, visit www.theboundlessmindset.com

In this episode I had the pleasure of interviewing Kawtar El Alaoui.
Kawtar is an international expert in the field of transformational education. She has more than 10 years of experience with multiple modalities and connected hundreds of people across the world with their core values, purpose, and larger positive impact in the world.

Kawtar is a faculty with Leadership That Works India and Mighty Heart facilitator with The Business Plan for Peace. Her programs focus on conscious communication, conflict transformation, cross-cultural understanding, diversity and inclusion, and soul purpose.

Kawtar bridges eastern wisdom with western methodologies and has a deep understanding of human patterns and soul journeys. Kawtar’s programs enable you to create a life where who you are, what you believe in, your work and your leadership are in perfect balance and flow, in harmony within yourself, with your environment, and in service to a better world.
Here's how you can connect with Kawtar:

• Website: https://www.conscioustogetherness.com/
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/conscioustogetherness
• Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/conscioustogetherness
• Instagram: conscious_togetherness

Love to hear from you! What are you taking away from this episode?