The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers - EP191: How To Give And Receive a No, No As a Doorway to Expansive Intimacy & Overcoming Men’s Sexual Fears Featuring Cam Fraser

EP191: How To Give And Receive a No, No As a Doorway to Expansive Intimacy & Overcoming Men’s Sexual Fears Featuring Cam Fraser

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06/12/24 • 79 min

The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers

Main Topics: Consent, Sex, Intimacy, Communication, relationships, Boundaries, Sex Ed For kids, Gender Roles

Cam Fraser is a Certified Professional Sex Coach and Certified Sexologist. Being a former Tantric Yoga Teacher, his work integrates scientifically validated, medically accurate information about sexual health, with sacred sexuality teachings from the mystery traditions. As a coach, he helps men go beyond surface-level sex and into full-bodied, self-expressed, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free of anxiety or shame.

Key topics include:

⭐️ The Importance of Sex Education, Teaching Consent And Boundaries In School

⭐️ Recognizing "No": Understanding The Verbal & Nonverbal Cues

⭐️ The Fears And Insecurities We Have Around Saying “No” to Sex

⭐️ How To Gracefully Give And Receive A “No”

⭐️ How To Say No And Stay Connected To Your Partner

⭐️ Bringing The Social Ideas of Feminism Into Sex

⭐️ Why Men Say “Yes” to Sex When They Want To Say “No”

⭐️ Thinking Beyond The No And Celebrating All Varieties of Pleasure

⭐️ Different Ways To Bond And Connect With Our Partner Beyond The Bedroom

⭐️ How We Can Help Meet The Need For Intensity Without Having Sex

⭐️ What We Can Do When Our Partner Says “No”

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Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/77KwvB1o9g0QuRmul2359O?si=4T2utHvHSXuzeuOBy31cpw&nd=1

Main Topics: Consent, Sex, Intimacy, Communication, relationships, Boundaries, Sex Ed For kids, Gender Roles

Key topics include:

⭐️ The Importance of Sex Education, Teaching Consent And Boundaries In School

⭐️ Recognizing "No": Understanding The Verbal & Nonverbal Cues

⭐️ The Fears And Insecurities We Have Around Saying “No” to Sex

⭐️ How To Gracefully Give And Receive A “No”

⭐️ How To Say No And Stay Connected To Your Partner

⭐️ Bringing The Social Ideas of Feminism Into Sex

⭐️ Why Men Say “Yes” to Sex When They Want To Say “No”

⭐️ Thinking Beyond The No And Celebrating All Varieties of Pleasure

⭐️ Different Ways To Bond And Connect With Our Partner Beyond The Bedroom

⭐️ How We Can Help Meet The Need For Intensity Without Having Sex

⭐️ What We Can Do When Our Partner Says “No”

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

For Coaching: [email protected]

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe

Avoidant Man's Programme Waitlist: https://forms.gle/DLfjJpiyTukddjUM9

Connect With Cam Fraser:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecamfraser/

Website: https://www.cam-fraser.com/

Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/77KwvB1o9g0QuRmul2359O?si=4T2utHvHSXuzeuOBy31cpw&nd=1

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EP190: Creating the Perfect Date, The Science of Love, Why Love Matters & Why We Need Fathers featuring Anna Machin

Main Topics: Love, Evolution, Relationships, Neurochemistry Of Love, Attraction, Sense Of Humor, Online Dating, Fathers

Dr Anna Machin is an evolutionary anthropologist, writer and broadcaster who is world renowned for her research into the science and anthropology of close human relationships. She is the author of two books: The Life of Dad: The Making of the Modern Father and Why We Love: The Definitive Guide to our Most Fundamental Need. She has written for The New York Times, The Observer, New Scientist and The Guardian. She was last seen on Planet Sex with Cara Delevingne (BBC/Hulu) and heard on The Seven Deadly Psychologies (BBC Radio 4).

Key topics include:

⭐️ The Science of Love and Why We Evolved To Be Loving Beings

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⭐️ The Different Types of Love and Why They're Equally Important

⭐️ How To Increase Your Neurochemistry So It Can Help You On Your First Date

⭐ Top Qualities Both Men And Women Want In A Long Term Partner

⭐️ Why Humor Is So Attractive & Why It Is Important For Good Parenting

⭐️ The Negative Side Of Dating Apps: How They Feed Our Insecurities

⭐️ What Is Mate Value & How Does It Affects The Formation of Romantic Relationships

⭐️ The Illusion of Chemistry And Why It Doesn’t Indicate Compatibility

⭐️ Why Do We Attract And Stay In Toxic Relationships

⭐️ The Future of Love: Is Love And Intimacy Possible In an AI World

⭐️ Why Fathers Are Critical To The Evolution Of A Child’s Brain

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

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Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

For Coaching: [email protected]

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EP192: Exploring Masculinities, Raising Boys Into Great Men & The Struggles Young Boys Experience Featuring Ben Hurst

Main Topics: Young Men Struggles, Masculinity, Men, Societal Expectations

Ben is the Director of Facilitation at Beyond Equality and co-host of TEDx London’s Climate Curious Podcast. Over the last decade he has worked with Men and Boys around the world helping them to reimagine masculinities across schools, universities and corporate spaces.

Key topics include:

⭐️ Exploring Different Masculinities & What Does It Mean To Be A Man Today

⭐️ How We Can Create Safe Spaces For Young Men to Explore Masculinity

⭐️ The Pressures And Challenges Young Boys Experience In Our Society

⭐️ Empowering Young Boys To Become Better Men Without Shame

⭐ The Importance Of Teaching Kids Critical Thinking And Decision-Making Skills

⭐️ Why We Need to Invest In Teacher Well-Being And Growth

⭐️ Breaking The Silence On Male Domestic Violence And Rape

⭐️ How We Can Redefine Masculinity In A Way That Works For All of Us

⭐️ How Social Class Shapes Masculinity In Different Communities

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