You’ve Achieved Success… So Why Do You Feel Stuck?
02/03/25 • 34 min
Hey Adventurers!
In this episode of The Adventure Reignition Podcast, we’re diving deep into one of the most challenging and transformative experiences high achievers face—the post-success dilemma. You’ve built something incredible—a career, a business, or a leadership role—but now you’re left wondering, what’s next?
If you feel like you’ve peaked, or that stepping into the unknown is both exciting and terrifying, this episode is for you.
Join me as I share:
✅ Why many high achievers experience an identity crisis after success and how to navigate it.
✅ The “Competence Trap”—why staying in what you’re good at might be holding you back.
✅ The 4-Step Reinvention Framework to confidently transition into a life aligned with your passions and values.
✅ How to redefine success on your terms—beyond external validation and achievements.
✅ How adventure and embracing discomfort can reignite your purpose.
This episode is for you if you’re feeling stuck, uninspired, or unsure how to move forward after reaching a career peak. Let’s break free from the comfort trap and design a future that excites you!
Episode Breakdown:
[00:01:22] The post-success dilemma: Why high achievers feel lost after success.
[00:06:38] My personal reinvention journey: Why I walked away from stability to chase adventure.
[00:09:01] The Competence Trap: Why being great at something can keep you stuck.
[00:13:11] Step #1: Slow down and reflect—why clarity starts with pausing.
[00:14:32] Step #2: Embrace the beginner’s mindset—why discomfort is the key to growth.
[00:16:00] Step #3: Redefine success—how to shift from external validation to internal fulfillment.
[00:21:12] Step #4: Take small, intentional steps—why action beats overthinking every time.
[00:24:22] The Everest analogy: How to find your next aligned adventure.
[00:26:34] Why embracing uncertainty leads to deeper creativity, purpose, and fulfillment.
Favorite Quote:
"Your best days aren’t behind you. They’re ahead. But only if you choose to take the next step."
Key Takeaways:
🔹 Success can become a prison if it defines your identity.
🔹 Reinvention isn’t about starting over—it’s about realigning with who you truly are.
🔹 The key to fulfillment is finding your next adventure, whether in career, creativity, or personal growth.
Call to Action:
🚀 Ready to start your reinvention journey? DM me "Reignite" on Instagram or LinkedIn, and let’s explore how to align your next chapter with your true self.
🎧 Subscribe & Review: If this episode resonated with you, subscribe to The Adventure Reignition Podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—it helps us reach more adventurers like you!
Final Thought:
Success isn’t the end of the road—it’s the launching pad for your next great adventure. Whether you’re pivoting in your career, seeking more meaning, or craving a bold move, I hope this episode gives you the clarity and confidence to take that first step.
Life is too short to stay stuck in comfort. The adventure is waiting—let’s go find it.
Stay daring! 🚀
Where to find your host online :
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/blaisedepallens/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blaisedepallens/
Website: blaisedepallens.com
Hey Adventurers!
In this episode of The Adventure Reignition Podcast, we’re diving deep into one of the most challenging and transformative experiences high achievers face—the post-success dilemma. You’ve built something incredible—a career, a business, or a leadership role—but now you’re left wondering, what’s next?
If you feel like you’ve peaked, or that stepping into the unknown is both exciting and terrifying, this episode is for you.
Join me as I share:
✅ Why many high achievers experience an identity crisis after success and how to navigate it.
✅ The “Competence Trap”—why staying in what you’re good at might be holding you back.
✅ The 4-Step Reinvention Framework to confidently transition into a life aligned with your passions and values.
✅ How to redefine success on your terms—beyond external validation and achievements.
✅ How adventure and embracing discomfort can reignite your purpose.
This episode is for you if you’re feeling stuck, uninspired, or unsure how to move forward after reaching a career peak. Let’s break free from the comfort trap and design a future that excites you!
Episode Breakdown:
[00:01:22] The post-success dilemma: Why high achievers feel lost after success.
[00:06:38] My personal reinvention journey: Why I walked away from stability to chase adventure.
[00:09:01] The Competence Trap: Why being great at something can keep you stuck.
[00:13:11] Step #1: Slow down and reflect—why clarity starts with pausing.
[00:14:32] Step #2: Embrace the beginner’s mindset—why discomfort is the key to growth.
[00:16:00] Step #3: Redefine success—how to shift from external validation to internal fulfillment.
[00:21:12] Step #4: Take small, intentional steps—why action beats overthinking every time.
[00:24:22] The Everest analogy: How to find your next aligned adventure.
[00:26:34] Why embracing uncertainty leads to deeper creativity, purpose, and fulfillment.
Favorite Quote:
"Your best days aren’t behind you. They’re ahead. But only if you choose to take the next step."
Key Takeaways:
🔹 Success can become a prison if it defines your identity.
🔹 Reinvention isn’t about starting over—it’s about realigning with who you truly are.
🔹 The key to fulfillment is finding your next adventure, whether in career, creativity, or personal growth.
Call to Action:
🚀 Ready to start your reinvention journey? DM me "Reignite" on Instagram or LinkedIn, and let’s explore how to align your next chapter with your true self.
🎧 Subscribe & Review: If this episode resonated with you, subscribe to The Adventure Reignition Podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—it helps us reach more adventurers like you!
Final Thought:
Success isn’t the end of the road—it’s the launching pad for your next great adventure. Whether you’re pivoting in your career, seeking more meaning, or craving a bold move, I hope this episode gives you the clarity and confidence to take that first step.
Life is too short to stay stuck in comfort. The adventure is waiting—let’s go find it.
Stay daring! 🚀
Where to find your host online :
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/blaisedepallens/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blaisedepallens/
Website: blaisedepallens.com
Previous Episode
A Life-Changing Loss at 19 : The Personal Story That Shaped My Life of Adventure
Hey Adventurers!
In this deeply personal and inspiring episode of The Adventure Reignition Podcast, I’m pulling back the curtain on the journey that shaped me into who I am today. At 19, I faced the unimaginable—losing my father in a way that forever changed my outlook on life. But from that pain grew the seeds of adventure, resilience, and purpose that now guide everything I do.
Join me as I share:
- The pivotal moments of my youth in Switzerland that laid the foundation for my love of the outdoors and football.
- How losing my father forced me to confront life’s fragility and planted the seeds for my passion for self-discovery and adventure.
- The unconventional path I took in my 20s—from quitting a “safe” job to traveling the world, exploring 17 countries, and saying yes to countless adventures.
- Why I said goodbye to a dream job in 2024 to fully embrace my calling as a purpose coach and storyteller.
This episode is for anyone searching for inspiration to embrace life as an adventure, turn challenges into opportunities, and create a life designed on your terms—not society’s expectations.
Episode Breakdown:
- [00:01:21] My story begins: How losing my father changed everything.
- [00:11:38] Moving to California at 21: Using my dad’s legacy to chase a long-held dream.
- [00:18:05] The journey of a lifetime: Traveling to 17 countries in one year.
- [00:43:03] The lesson that changed everything: Why the journey is the goal.
- [00:45:00] Saying goodbye to my dream job: Reconnecting with my mission to inspire others.
Favorite Quote:
"The journey is the goal. When I shifted my focus from achieving to enjoying, everything changed."
Key Takeaways:
- Life’s fragility is a gift—a reminder to live fully and say yes to what lights you up.
- Adventure isn’t just travel—it’s about embracing the unknown in all areas of life.
- Your challenges can shape your purpose—if you allow them to guide you.
Call to Action:
If you’ve been waiting for a sign to pursue your adventure, this is it! DM me on Instagram or LinkedIn with the word “Podcast”, and let’s start a conversation about how I can help you design a life aligned with your passions and values.
Don’t forget to subscribe to The Adventure Reignition Podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—it helps us reach more adventure seekers like you.
Final Thought:
Life is too short to live by default. Whether your adventure is climbing Everest or starting a new chapter in your career, my hope is that this episode inspires you to take that first step toward living boldly and authentically.
Let’s reignite your sense of purpose—one adventure at a time.
Stay daring!
Where to find your host online :
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/blaisedepallens/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blaisedepallens/
Website: blaisedepallens.com
Next Episode
Forget Resolutions! This 5-Step Method Will Change Your Life in 2025!
Hey Adventurers!
In this episode of The Adventure Reignition Podcast, we’re uncovering why 95% of New Year’s resolutions fail—and what to do instead.
Most people set rigid goals in January, only to abandon them by February. But what if the problem isn’t you—it’s the way goals are set?
If you’ve ever struggled with staying consistent, felt trapped by expectations, or lost motivation after the initial excitement wore off, this episode is for you.
Join me as I share:
✅ Why most resolutions fail and the hidden reason you lose motivation.
✅ The Journey of Intention—a flexible, adventure-driven approach to goal setting.
✅ Why rigid goals can disconnect you from your true desires (and what to do instead).
✅ The 5-step framework to create sustainable goals that actually align with your passions.
✅ How my biggest adventure taught me to shift from obsession over results to loving the process.
This episode is for you if you’re tired of starting strong and falling off track—and want a new way to set goals that stick. Let’s ditch the resolutions and create a year filled with meaningful, aligned action!
Episode Breakdown:
[00:01:22] Why 95% of resolutions fail by mid-February.
[00:03:10] The gym effect: Why motivation fades so fast.
[00:06:38] The danger of setting rigid, outcome-driven goals.
[00:09:01] My personal adventure story: How I almost ruined my dream by focusing on the goal instead of the journey.
[00:13:11] Step #1: Name Your Year—how to set a powerful intention for 2024.
[00:14:32] Step #2: The 7 Levels of Why—how to find deep, emotional motivation.
[00:16:00] Step #3: Define your core values—your Golden Compass for the year.
[00:21:12] Step #4: Shift from goals to journeys—why process beats results.
[00:26:34] Step #5: Set goals under your control—why small steps lead to big changes.
Favorite Quote:
"The journey is the goal. If you hate the process, you’ll never love the result."
Key Takeaways:
🔹 Resolutions fail because they’re rigid, not because you lack discipline.
🔹 True success comes from aligning your goals with your values and passions.
🔹 The key to consistency is loving the process, not chasing an outcome.
🚀 Ready to create YOUR Journey of Intention? DM me "Intention" on Instagram or LinkedIn, and I’ll send you my one-page guide to help you build a year that excites you.
🎧 Subscribe & Review: If this episode resonated with you, subscribe to The Adventure Reignition Podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—it helps us reach more adventurers like you!
Final Thought:
Most people give up on their resolutions because they’re chasing goals that aren’t truly aligned with who they are. Instead of another year of broken resolutions, let’s create a year that fuels your soul.
It’s not too late. Your adventure starts today.
Let’s go find it! 🚀
Where to find your host online :
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/blaisedepallens/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blaisedepallens/
Website: blaisedepallens.com
The Adventure Reignition Podcast - You’ve Achieved Success… So Why Do You Feel Stuck?
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Hey, everybody! Welcome to the Adventure Ignition podcast. My name is Blaise Depallens. I am the host of the show
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Thanks for listening. I am grateful and honored to have you here on the show with me. Fasten your seat belts and say yes to your life's next adventure.
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