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The 90th Percentile: An Unconventional Leadership Podcast - Episode 7: The Enigma of Positive and Negative Feedback

Episode 7: The Enigma of Positive and Negative Feedback

02/19/25 • 12 min

The 90th Percentile: An Unconventional Leadership Podcast

Would you rather hear positive feedback about your performance or suggestions for improvement? Does preferring positive feedback make you seem weak, and is corrective feedback really that helpful? Whether you’re a CEO, manager, teacher, or parent we all give and receive feedback. In this episode, we discuss the emotional complexities and science behind the positive and corrective feedback that will actually help you grow. Click HERE to register for the Feedback Webinar.

Connect with Jack Zenger on Twitter, LinkedIn, or Facebook.

SHOW NOTES:

Forbes: Why is it so Difficult for Leaders to Give Positive Feedback?

Music: Pleasant Pictures

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Would you rather hear positive feedback about your performance or suggestions for improvement? Does preferring positive feedback make you seem weak, and is corrective feedback really that helpful? Whether you’re a CEO, manager, teacher, or parent we all give and receive feedback. In this episode, we discuss the emotional complexities and science behind the positive and corrective feedback that will actually help you grow. Click HERE to register for the Feedback Webinar.

Connect with Jack Zenger on Twitter, LinkedIn, or Facebook.

SHOW NOTES:

Forbes: Why is it so Difficult for Leaders to Give Positive Feedback?

Music: Pleasant Pictures

Learn more about this topic by visiting our website.

The post Episode 7: The Enigma of Positive and Negative Feedback first appeared on ZENGER FOLKMAN.

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undefined - Episode 156: What To Do When The Boss Gives You Baseless Feedback

Episode 156: What To Do When The Boss Gives You Baseless Feedback

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Receiving feedback at work can be tough—it’s natural to feel uncomfortable when you’re told you’re not doing something well. That doesn’t make you ‘arrogant ‘ or ‘ too defensive and won’t take feedback’—it means you obviously care about how you’re doing at work, and that’s a good thing. But what happens when the feedback isn’t clear, kind, or even fair? How do you handle feedback that feels baseless or poorly delivered? In this episode, we’re tackling how to navigate your emotional reactions, respond with resilience, and stay focused on your growth—even when the feedback you get is less than helpful.

Key Learnings
  1. Pause Before Reacting – When faced with feedback that seems unfair, resist the urge to react immediately. Acting with composure allows you to gather your thoughts and prepare for a more productive follow-up conversation.
  2. Assume Good Intentions – Even if the feedback is poorly delivered or unjustified, starting with the assumption that the giver has good intentions can help frame your response in a constructive manner.
  3. Seek Clarity and Understanding – Ask clarifying questions to fully grasp the concerns behind the feedback. Exploring the giver’s assumptions, asking for examples, and finding any valid points within the criticism can help you respond thoughtfully.
  4. Follow Up and Address the Feedback – In a later meeting, recap what you understood from the feedback and outline any actions you plan to take (if necessary). If the feedback is genuinely unfounded, stay professional and avoid unnecessary conflict.
  5. Maintain Confidence and Perspective – If, after evaluation, the feedback turns out to be baseless or misguided, don’t let it shake your confidence. Learn from valid insights but also recognize when criticism is more about the giver’s perspective than your actual performance.

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Research

When Your Boss Gives Bad Feedback, Badly- HBR Article

Webinar

Zenger Folkman hosts an exclusive live webinar every month, where you can meet Jack Zenger and Joe Folkman and talk about their latest leadership development research. Find out more information and register here.

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undefined - Episode 157: Team Trust at BJ’s Wholesale Club with Scott Schmadeke

Episode 157: Team Trust at BJ’s Wholesale Club with Scott Schmadeke

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Trust is the foundation of any high-performing team, but in today’s fast-paced, uncertain business environment, building and maintaining trust has become more challenging than ever. Research shows that trust isn’t just a “nice-to-have”—it’s a leadership behavior that impacts everything from team collaboration to overall business performance. So, how can organizations create a culture where trust thrives?

In this episode, we’re joined by Scott Schmadeke, Executive Vice President and Chief Operations Officer at BJ’s Wholesale. Since joining BJ’s in 2018, he has played a critical role in expanding field and fresh operations, overseeing distribution transitions, and driving key growth initiatives. With deep experience in retail and grocery operations, including leadership roles at Albertsons and Safeway, Scott brings a wealth of knowledge on how trust impacts both teams and large-scale operations.

We’ll dive into the role of trust in leadership, how trust influences team performance, and the strategies Scott and his team use to embed trust into BJ’s Wholesale’s culture. Whether you’re in HR, organizational development, or leadership development, you’ll walk away with practical insights on how to build and sustain trust in your teams.

Learn more about Zenger Folkman Team Trust program.

Key Learnings 1. Trust Is Contagious, But Not Easily Built

Scott emphasized that trust spreads within an organization much like it does in personal relationships—it develops over time through consistent behaviors, transparency, and reliability. However, he also cautioned that trust can be fragile and easily derailed if not nurtured.

2. The Link Between Trust and Business Performance

Scott shared insights from BJ’s engagement surveys, revealing that clubs with higher levels of trust also tended to perform better. He noted that trust impacts coaching, team collaboration, and overall business success, making it a critical driver for high-performing teams.

3. Consistency Is the Hardest Trust Factor to Maintain

Among the three key levers of trust—relationships, expertise, and consistency—Scott identified consistency as the most challenging to sustain. In the fast-paced retail environment, pressures can cause lapses in consistency, which can erode trust. He emphasized the need for repeatable messaging and clear priorities to maintain stability.

4. Trust as a Competitive Advantage in Crisis Management

Discussing challenges like the COVID-19 pandemic and supply chain disruptions (such as egg shortages), Scott highlighted how BJ’s built trust with team members and customers by focusing on transparency, proactive communication, and reliability. He stressed that crisis moments are the ultimate test of trust and can either strengthen or weaken an organization’s culture.

5. Practical Steps for HR and Organizational Leaders

For HR and organizational development professionals looking to embed trust in their culture, Scott advised moving beyond rhetoric and ensuring trust is reflected in leadership behaviors, decision-making, and business practices. He highlighted the importance of structured coaching, clear communication, and ensuring team members understand their roles and expectations.

Upcoming Webinar

Zenger Folkman hosts an exclusive live webinar every month, where you can meet Jack Zenger and Joe Folkman and talk about their latest leadership development research. Find out more information and register here.

The post Episode 157: Team Trust at BJ’s Wholesale Club with Scott Schmadeke first appeared on ZENGER FOLKMAN.

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