‘Arrangements’ Anyone? -Date Fails

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01/26/25 • 37 min

CHAPTERS / TIMESTAMPS
00:00 - Intro – Late-night stream vibes & catching up with the audience
00:42 - Failed Dates Series: Backpage Anyone? – Setting the stage for the story
01:32 - Shameless plugs – Support the content & where to find me online
03:11 - What is Backpage? – The infamous website and its "services"
04:29 - Door-to-door sales & dating struggles – A personal backstory
05:29 - Down bad confessions – The moment I considered Backpage
06:16 - Co-worker influence & curiosity – How I got introduced to Backpage
07:50 - How it works – The logistics, pricing, and process of the "service"
08:31 - The realization: This is weird – Ethical thoughts & doubts
10:37 - Customer service, but make it sketchy – The "recruitment" process
11:44 - Comparing preferences with co-workers – Awkward convos & boundaries
14:15 - ROI on Backpage?! – Why they charge so much & why it works
16:24 - Businessmen, discretion & dark realities – Who actually uses these services?
18:54 - Finding a candidate – The moment of decision
20:31 - Nerves kicking in – Walking into the hotel, second thoughts
23:51 - Backpage catfish?! – The moment of disappointment
25:36 - Looking in the mirror: Reality check – "What am I doing here?"
26:42 - The exit strategy – How I got out of there ASAP
29:14 - Roasting from the boys – Getting clowned for bailing
30:43 - Lessons learned – Why I never tried it again
32:22 - Moral of the story – Do better, learn from my mistakes!
33:01 - Outro & Final Thoughts – Keep laughing through life’s struggles
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In this episode, I share my Backpage experience—or, rather, my almost-experience—and all the awkward, hilarious, and cringe-worthy details. From navigating online dating to considering "alternative" options when things get desperate, this is a wild ride of deep thought, comedy, and raw honesty. If you've ever dealt with dry spells, dating fails, or just weird online encounters, you’ll definitely relate.
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49:54 - Closing Words
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0:00 Intro – Another Edition of Failed Dates
Why dating as an introvert comes with its own unique set of challenges, funny moments, and deep reflections.
1:12 - Dating as an Introvert – The Struggle is Real
How overthinking, social anxiety, and introverted tendencies make dating feel like a high-stakes mission.
3:05 - Halloween Night – The Setup for This Hilarious Dating Fail
How dressing up as Iron Man (or half of one) led to one of my most awkward yet entertaining dating experiences.
6:48 - The Party Scene & First Interaction
When you're single, introverted, and just trying to have a good time, sometimes all it takes is the right mix of confidence, humour, and mystery.
9:50 - The “Signature Move” – Testing the Waters
Breaking down the subtle signs of attraction and rejection in the dating world and how body language plays a huge role in making connections.
12:25 - She Was Into Me... Without Knowing What I Looked Like?!
The mystery factor, dating psychology, and the role of attraction without physical appearance.
14:18 - The Reveal – Taking Off the Iron Man Mask
What happened when she finally saw my face and whether her attraction level changed. (Spoiler: My ego definitely got inflated!)
17:02 - The Reality Check – When the Beer Goggles Wear Off
Deep reflections on attraction, instant chemistry vs. long-term connection, and the harsh truth about dating expectations vs. reality.
19:30 - The Ultimate Plot Twist – My Ex’s Best Friend?!
How this situation went from fun and games to complicated real quick when I discovered who she really was.
22:05 - The Escape Plan – Trying to Get Out of the Situation
How my wingman tried to help me escape the situation with the most hilarious negotiation ever.
26:00 - Final Thoughts – The Reality of Dating, Ego, & Perception
Why dating as an introvert often means overthinking, analyzing every interaction, and making decisions based on intuition, humour, and self-awareness.
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Justin , how's it going ? Man , thanks for hopping on . Got a late night stream for you .

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