
Tea With TJ
TJ Bolden
Welcome to Tea with TJ! A Podcast on self-discovery where our love for tea, conversation, a deeper understanding of life, and self-improvement intersect. Life is messy and sometimes you just need a cup of tea!

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07/10/24 • 25 min
Have you ever wondered what truly fuels creativity and resilience in the face of life's challenges? Join me, TJ, as we wrap up an enlightening season two of Tea with TJ with heartfelt reflections and transformative moments from our incredible guests. From the unexpected joy found on a farm to the profound revelations brought on by the pandemic, this episode is a tapestry of inspiration and hope. We'll share personal stories of overcoming rejection and finding healing through creative expression, all while highlighting the importance of being a role model for younger generations and the transformative power of shared happiness.
In this special finale, we dive deep into the emotional impact of familial relationships and the alignment inherent in storytelling. You'll hear about the resilience that laughter and gratitude can bring, and how self-assurance can be a comforting companion through life's ups and downs. We also explore the fears that keep us up at night and the inspiration we draw from our achievements, both personal and professional. Lastly, we underscore the vital importance of representation and visibility, celebrating the love we find within ourselves and the drive to uplift underrepresented communities. Don't miss this heartwarming conclusion to season two and get ready for even more inspiring stories in season three.
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Healing Within the Black Gay Community: With Jai the Gentleman from Dear Black Gay Men Podcast
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03/27/24 • 37 min
In this episode of Tea with TJ, TJ interviews Jai the Gentleman, the host of the podcast Dear Black Gay Men. They discuss the concept of healing and the different ways in which individuals can heal. They also explore the importance of uncovering and embracing all aspects of one's identity, including race, sexuality, and gender. The conversation delves into the healing process in relationships, the challenges faced by black gay men, and the need for forgiveness and acceptance.
Ultimately, they emphasize the importance of living in the present moment and letting go of past traumas. In this conversation, Jai shares his personal journey of starting the Dear Black Gay Men podcast after a breakup. He discusses the emotional stagnation he experienced and how he found inspiration to create a platform for black gay men to share their stories. The conversation also explores the importance of creating space for truth and vulnerability, as well as the evolution of Tea With TJ. Jai reflects on the lack of honest and vulnerable podcasts and shares his joy in connecting with listeners and finding beauty in the resilience of black men.
Takeaways
- Healing is a personal journey that involves confronting past traumas and embracing all aspects of one's identity.
- The healing process in relationships requires forgiveness, acceptance, and understanding that everyone is doing the best they can.
- Black gay men face unique challenges in society and need to explore and cultivate all aspects of their identity.
- Living in the present moment and letting go of past traumas is essential for personal growth and healing.
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11/15/23 • 13 min
Imagine spending just a few minutes each day to transform your outlook on life. That's what I discovered when I embarked on my personal journey with gratitude journaling, a simple yet profound practice that has become a beacon of positivity in my life. As we share a cup of tea, I recount my experiences and reveal how writing down things I'm grateful for in the last 24 hours not only helped me appreciate the small moments in life but also shifted my focus to the positive aspects.
But the magic doesn't stop at journaling. As we delve deeper into the topic of gratitude, you'll learn that it’s much more than just a feel-good emotion. It's a potent tool that can pivot our lives in extraordinary ways. I share how gratitude has deepened my friendships and brought about feelings of joy, love, and happiness that were often overlooked. So, grab your notebook and your favourite cup of tea, and join me on this enlightening journey. Let's harness the power of gratitude and make life truly amazing and rewarding.
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Savoring the Present: A Tapestry of Mindful Living and Artistic Empathy with Guest Morgan McGhee
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01/10/24 • 45 min
As I sat with my good friend Morgan McGhee, sipping on caramel delight oolong tea, we unraveled stories of artistic growth and mindful living. Morgan, a vibrant force from Baton Rouge to New York and now Chicago, joins me, in a rich discussion that meanders through our shared stage memories, to the intricate dance of mindfulness in our lives.
This talk is a journey—a reflection on the post-pandemic social renaissance where the thirst for connection meets a world still learning to be present. We openly critique the superficiality of performative self-care and emphasize authentic, intentional living. Our conversation isn't afraid to pose the hard questions, like how does one maintain a sense of purpose amidst the noise? Morgan and I don't just ask; we share our personal anecdotes of grounding morning routines, from crafting the perfect breakfast sandwich to the solace of dark, music-filled showers. So, pour yourself a cup of your favorite tea and join us in this heartfelt exploration.
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03/20/24 • 36 min
In this episode, TJ and Derric discuss the topic of insecurities. They share their personal experiences with insecurities and how they have learned to overcome them. They emphasize the importance of self-love and being present in the moment. The conversation also touches on the journey of self-acceptance and the power of authenticity.
Connect with Derric:
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03/13/24 • 36 min
In this episode, TJ and Bernard Holcomb discuss the importance of self-worth and acceptance. Bernard shares his journey of realizing that he is enough just as he is, and how this realization has transformed his life. They also explore the role of pain and self-discovery in finding self-acceptance. Bernard emphasizes the importance of therapy, medication, meditation, and finding a supportive community in his journey. They discuss the intersection of spirituality and self-acceptance, and how to navigate the challenges that may arise. The conversation concludes with insights on dealing with rejection and finding inner peace.
Takeaways
- Self-worth and acceptance are intertwined and essential for personal growth.
- Realizing that you are enough just as you are is a powerful and transformative lesson.
- Pain and self-discovery can lead to self-acceptance and a better understanding of oneself.
- Therapy, medication, meditation, and finding a supportive community are valuable tools in the journey of self-acceptance.
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Lapsang & BullS@%!
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08/14/23 • 9 min

Oolong & Fear
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09/06/23 • 9 min

Cherishing Connections
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10/11/23 • 10 min
Huddled with a soothing cup of chamomile tea, I found myself reminiscing about the authenticity of face-to-face connections and yearning for human touch that the pandemic deprived us of. As I mused over the warmth and fuzziness that a simple cup of tea can bring, I found parallels with the delicate yet profound joy of spontaneous human connections that are often missed in our bustling lives.
In this episode of Tea with TJ, we delve into the magical realm of human connections and the power of personal interactions. Is the digital world pushing us apart? Are we losing that precious physical connection to one another? Join me as we explore this pressing issue, sharing personal experiences of unexpected friendships and the nourishment they offer to our souls. Let's cherish every interaction and embrace the potential for deeper connections with the people around us. Because who knows? The next stranger you bump into at a coffee shop might just become your best friend. Let's remember: the world can be a much more rewarding place if we're open to the love and friendship that is always around us.
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10/02/24 • 39 min
Broadway star Anastacia Mccleskey takes center stage on this episode of Tea with TJ, offering a captivating glimpse into her illustrious career that began at the American Musical and Dramatics Academy. From her debut in the national tour of "Hairspray" to shining performances in celebrated productions like "Tarzan," "Book of Mormon," and "Priscilla, Queen of the Desert," Stacey's journey is a testament to passion and perseverance. Discover her unique perspective on rebounding from the pandemic, her return to the stage in "Hercules" at the Paper Mill Playhouse, and her fascinating experiences on London's West End and in "Sex and the City 2."
Ever wondered how gratitude and abundance can manifest your dreams? Anastacia and I explore this transformative concept, sharing personal stories and practical advice on harnessing gratitude to live a fulfilling life. Listen as we discuss the art of writing down goals and then releasing them to the universe, revealing how this approach can reduce the pressure and fear surrounding auditions and life’s unpredictable events. You’ll learn the value of embracing the present and how seeing abundance in the small things can lead to a more meaningful existence.
Explore the intersection of creativity, spirituality, and self-awareness with Anastacia as she opens up about her journey of self-love and discovery. We touch on the importance of solitude, energy practices for artists, and Stacey's inspiration behind her TikTok series "Hello Beautiful Spirits." From sound baths to protective energy techniques, Anastacia shares insights into maintaining balance while navigating the pressures of performing. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of personal growth, offering listeners inspiration and practical tools to foster self-awareness and inner strength.
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FAQ
How many episodes does Tea With TJ have?
Tea With TJ currently has 34 episodes available.
What topics does Tea With TJ cover?
The podcast is about Black Men, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Personal Growth, Mental Health, Podcasts, Self-Improvement and Relationships.
What is the most popular episode on Tea With TJ?
The episode title 'Healing Within the Black Gay Community: With Jai the Gentleman from Dear Black Gay Men Podcast' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Tea With TJ?
The average episode length on Tea With TJ is 27 minutes.
How often are episodes of Tea With TJ released?
Episodes of Tea With TJ are typically released every 7 days.
When was the first episode of Tea With TJ?
The first episode of Tea With TJ was released on Aug 14, 2023.
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