TAO-Living with Lou Corleto

“What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson. In this episode we'll address:

what is the message for you from the TIN MAN * how to recognize that you have all you need * Lessons from a blind man * how to stand up instead of crumbling down in the face of adversity * what's inside of you is bigger than any challenge you'll face Operator's Manual. Click the link here to get free access now

In this episode- Take Action We'll cover topics such as: *Speed of implementation *Reclaim your day *Importance of morning and eve routines *Generating the energy to fulfill on your vision Take Action and claim one for the last 5 spaces for TAO_Living Retreat Click here for details

Information asymmetry-basically means when one party has much more information than the other party. And right now information asymmetry is way out of balance for most people. One of the places this occurs most often is in 'healthcare'. Listen to this episode and I'll explain. You can listen to information with your head, you can also listen with your heart and listen with your whole field. Because we all have a built-in BS meter. Most people just quit using it. As one of my teachers used to say, "think dammit, think". Versus letting other people tell you how to think (because that's how the world is being run right now. ) Let the experts tell you how to think. And these experts or government agencies don't have your best interests at heart either, which is one reason they create information asymmetry.

For instance, let's look at something like social distancing thru the eyes of a science called interpersonal neurobiology. These expert psychologists, psychiatrists, and neuroscientists, all gel in this field and they talk about the mind as not being located in the cranium. The mind is twofold, what they call embodied and embedded. Embodied meaning it runs throughout the entire physical body, physiological body. Embedded means out in the field socially. We're social creatures, when we don't have that embedded interaction, we suffer neurologically. Proven!

They can measure this through brain studies. And psychologically as well, which unfortunately is too apparent. Look around the world, look at the increase in suicides and abuses of children, women, and other folks, because of losing social interaction, and being locked up in your house for too long. At a neurological and psychological level, it's not healthy, in another area, the population of The United States is only 5% of the world's population 5%. Yet, the USA takes 75% of the prescribed drugs in the world. 5% of the total population consumes 75% of the drugs.

Where did that come from? How come we're so special? Where did we get the accolades for that distinction? Because we've been fed some stories that are really unhealthy for us, but people keep buying into it.

Are you aware that 1/3 of ALL of the drugs that the FDA has approved are then later pulled off the shelf? 1/3 That's a lot. That means somehow they were originally okay but when they were then tested in the marketplace, and people were dying, or became really ill, the same drugs that were once 'safe' are no longer safe. Dr. Dan Siegel, MD, who began the science of interpersonal neurobiology was talking about a study where they had a bunch of people who had the flu or had colds, and those that received empathy, (back to the mind being embedded) healed faster than the people who have the same cold or flu, who did not receive any empathy. They did not heal as fast. And this was reproduced, Be mindful of where you put your blind faith across the border. It's either your life and you're running it, or it's not and somebody else is. I support you to reclaim the reins of your life because it is your life. And if you give over the power of your life to someone else, they're gonna run it the way they think it's supposed to be run. If they're right, great. If they're not, you're gonna pay the consequences.

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Our message in this episode to everyone is- BE THE ONE. Be the one that says, stop the nonsense. Be the one that makes the mark in your family. Be the one that says, enough of this crap, enough of this dissatisfaction of feelings, this limited life, this, I'm going to sit in the stands and watch everybody else play in the arena and not get in the arena. Be the one that people talk about. Be the one that stands up for what's right, be the one that stands up for what's good and what's true. Despite who is there be the one that has the guts to stand up for justice and what's right. Be that one. Because we're in a state where people are so afraid, to be honest, people are so afraid to be authentic. We are not saying go and jump in people's faces, but stand up for what's right. Stand up for what's true. And what's honest. Be That One that generations beyond your lifetime talk about and say, wow, they made a stand. Be that one! My guest shares his journey from leaving the continent he was born and raised to another for a better life. * We'll ask you do you experience anxiety Sunday? * We'll remind you to remember that your current circumstances might be where you are but it's not who you are * We'll remind you to Live a life true to yourself * We'll show you how to Own your morning * We'll add a definition to Integrity- get your heart right * We'll remind you that You are the captain of your ship- it is your job Joseph Arthur has consistently exceeded expectations during his formative and professional years, to what many would describe him today as an “over-achiever.” For the last decade, Joseph worked as a successful trusted financial analyst at a Chicago-based global management consulting firm, where he was known as the go-to lead for challenging initiatives as a result of his high-performance standards. When he wasn’t burning the midnight oil, Joseph spent his time focused on Health & Business coaching, a lifestyle that eventually led to low energy and burnout. Knowing he had to make a change, Joseph evaluated his life’s plan and sought tools and programs that would help him create sustainability and balance in all areas of his life. In 2019, he left his job and comfortable income as a trusted financial analyst to become an entrepreneur. Joseph spends his time in Strategic Consulting with organizations along with Mentorship in the E-Commerce space. Joseph claims to be a retired Chicagoan who now lives in Tampa, Florida. you can contact Joseph O Arthur @ https://www.josephoarthur.com/ [email protected] The TAO-Living Experience May19-22, 2022 Click here for details

My guest for today was a career Army officer, a devoted husband and father, who spent 45 years serving his country and the elite units like the Army Special Operations Command at Fort Bragg, the 25th injury division in Hawaii, with more than two dozen deployments to places like Iraq, Afghanistan, Kuwait, Kosovo, the Philippines and Haiti. He witnessed the effects of extreme human suffering around the world, firsthand.

And 2018 When John Paul, or JP deLange, was diagnosed with the worst kind of PTSD.

He was in denial, “How could this happen to me?”, he wondered. But simultaneously, JP saw it as a gift and thoughts of PTSD never entered his mind.

Now, as a Certified High Performance Coach, and a Radical Forgiveness Coach, he's deeply committed to excellence in helping people dig deeper into achieving consistently higher levels of fulfillment, success, and life satisfaction.

He studied the neuroscience of PTSD. He has researched psychology, physiology, and spirituality, to understand what happens in the mind and body when we experience a traumatic event.

In this episode, we unpack how Radical Forgiveness can be an important step in healing from PTSD.

We explore:

• The #1 reason traumatic stress is in the shadows in western culture and how that shapes our personal narrative
• How Radical Forgiveness can speed up your healing process
• 5 health benefits of doing Radical Forgiveness work
• The #1 way we can bring PTSD into the light and promote healing on a larger scale
• And much more

JP shared the social impacts, public policy, and stigmas surrounding PTSD. What he discovered was stunning...

• 220 Veterans will commit suicide in the United States over the next ten days
• About 8,000 will take their life before the end of this year
• It’s not just the service member that suffers. Families feel the pain from its effects too
• The divorce rate among members of the military is higher than any profession (60%)
• 11-20% of service members who served in Iraq or Afghanistan have PTSD
• 55% of women 38% of men have experienced sexual harassment in the military
• Trauma that is witnessed can be just as damaging as trauma that is experienced

It was an honor and pleasure to speak with JP and I'm sure you will benefit from this conversation!

You can find JP and his work here: Instagram – http://instagram.com/hpx4vets LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/jpdelange Click here to find out if you may have symptoms of post-traumatic stress

Here’s an invitation to work with JP: