Gratitude for a Stay at Home Mom

11/21/23 • 16 min

As Thanksgiving is this week I wanted to reflect on my gratitude for my mom. My mom was a stay at home mom and was lucky enough to be able to stay home and spend a lot of time with me as a child. Many of the life lessons around manners, religion, and domestic skills such as cooking and cleaning all came from my mom. My mom's attitude towards education is also what kept me somewhat engaged as a child with school even though I did not like attending when I was a kid. Having kids of my own has also helped me realize the amount of time, effort, and pain it takes to raise kids. For these reasons I am very grateful for my mom and the effort she put into me.

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