The Truth About Girth: What Women Really Want
05/14/25 • 67 min
Is it true that girth matters more than length? Or is it all in your head... and maybe hers too?
In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we’re pulling back the sheets on one of the most common questions men obsess over: Am I thick enough?
Joining me is Dr. Amy Pearlman, board-certified urologist and sexual health expert, here to break down the science behind penile girth, sexual satisfaction, and why so many men tie their self-worth to size.
We’re covering:
🔥 What girth actually does during penetration
🧠 How penis size affects self-esteem and sexual performance
🩺 What partners really think about size (and what they crave instead)
💉 The truth about girth enhancement: risks, rewards, and what works
💡 Tips for better sex no matter your size
Whether you’re curious about procedures like PhalloFILL or just want to stop obsessing and start feeling confident in bed, this one’s for you.
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Is it true that girth matters more than length? Or is it all in your head... and maybe hers too?
In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we’re pulling back the sheets on one of the most common questions men obsess over: Am I thick enough?
Joining me is Dr. Amy Pearlman, board-certified urologist and sexual health expert, here to break down the science behind penile girth, sexual satisfaction, and why so many men tie their self-worth to size.
We’re covering:
🔥 What girth actually does during penetration
🧠 How penis size affects self-esteem and sexual performance
🩺 What partners really think about size (and what they crave instead)
💉 The truth about girth enhancement: risks, rewards, and what works
💡 Tips for better sex no matter your size
Whether you’re curious about procedures like PhalloFILL or just want to stop obsessing and start feeling confident in bed, this one’s for you.
You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/
My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannette
My free spicy handle is @annettetalkssex
Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390c
Ask a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcast
My substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/
Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com.
Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30
at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY
Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti
Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti
Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.
https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/
Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti
Connect with us
We are on all the socials:
- TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast
- LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots
- Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti
- SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life
- LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots
- SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife
- Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti
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She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
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This is your step-by-step guide to vaginal fisting done right—for real connection, full-body pleasure, and the kind of deep, slow sex that leaves her saying “holy fck.”*
In this episode, I walk you through:
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🤲 A full technique breakdown—from yoni massage to entry, external stimulation, orgasm, and aftercare
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Whether you’re brand new or just want to do it better—this is your complete how-to guide.
And in the next episode? I’ll be joined by a queer sex therapist to take you even deeper. So hit that subscribe button.
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You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/
My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannette
My free spicy handle is @annettetalkssex
Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390c
Ask a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcast
My substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/
Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com.
Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.
https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/
Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti
Connect with us
We are on all the socials:
- TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast
- LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots
- Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti
- SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life
- LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots
- SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife
- Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti
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Talk Sex with Annette (Locker Room Talk & Shots) - The Truth About Girth: What Women Really Want
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