We threw out all our rules - Our first full-swap swinger experience

10/30/24 • 33 min

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Swinger University - A Sexy and Educational Swinging Lifestyle Podcast

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Ever wondered what happens when swingers take their first big leap? In this episode, we dive into our unforgettable night at an Alice-in-Wonderland-themed swinger party hosted on a sprawling ranch, complete with a private theater, hot tub, and intimate encounters. Join us as we share the highs, the awkward moments, and the valuable lessons we learned about boundaries, trust, and safer sex practices in the lifestyle.

💥 Highlights:

[0:30] The invite: How we got into an exclusive swinger group
[4:20] Entering wonderland: The Alice-themed party details
[10:15] The theater experience: A full-swap first
[14:45] Lessons in trust and safer practices in swinging
[20:00] Reflection: What we’d do differently & key takeaways

This episode is perfect for anyone curious about the lifestyle or looking to understand the importance of boundaries and open communication in intimate experiences.

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💥 Highlights:

[0:30] The invite: How we got into an exclusive swinger group
[4:20] Entering wonderland: The Alice-themed party details
[10:15] The theater experience: A full-swap first
[14:45] Lessons in trust and safer practices in swinging
[20:00] Reflection: What we’d do differently & key takeaways

This episode is perfect for anyone curious about the lifestyle or looking to understand the importance of boundaries and open communication in intimate experiences.

Top Hashtags: #SwingerExperience #LifestyleLessons #FullSwapFirst #SwingerParty #RelationshipBoundaries

Support the show

3 Ways to get your question on our show:

RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/

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CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.

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Previous Episode

Why Swingers Face Judgment: Unpacking Society’s Need to Impose Beliefs

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In this powerful episode, we tackle a pressing issue: how segments of society attempt to impose their moral beliefs on others, particularly around the swinger lifestyle. From outdated adultery laws to neighborhood outcries over private parties, we explore the various ways sexual freedom is policed and judged by those who feel they must control others' choices. We also reflect on how societal repression impacts adult freedoms, and why swinging continues to spark controversy in communities. Whether you're in the lifestyle or just curious, this episode uncovers the root of societal judgment and the fight for personal freedom.

Key topics discussed:

How societal beliefs shape perceptions of swinging
The legal and moral judgments that impact swingers
Why people feel the need to control others' sexual behavior
An outrageous story about a neighborhood's reaction to a private "Crock-Pot Party"
How swingers deal with public scrutiny and judgment

If you believe in personal freedom and the right to make your own adult choices, this episode is for you!
Crockpot party:

https://kdvr.com/news/local/sex-clubs-more-common-than-people-think-woman-in-the-lifestyle-says/amp

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2651270/amp/Swingers-party-ends-BRAWL-police-officers-wives.html

https://www.denverpost.com/2014/01/03/colorado-swingers-spice-up-sex-life-at-squirrel-creek-lodge/amp

Adultery laws: https://www.newsweek.com/map-shows-16-states-where-its-illegal-cheat-your-wife-1887307

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Next Episode

Kissing and Telling: Is Sharing Sexy Stories Ever Okay?

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In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive into the nuances of "kissing and telling" within the swinger lifestyle. Explore the origins of this concept and how it contrasts between "vanilla" and lifestyle communities. We discuss social expectations, double standards, and when sharing experiences might actually serve a purpose—like building trust, creating safety, and helping others find compatible partners.

Discover the fine line between healthy disclosure and TMI, and learn why "kissing and telling" in the swinger community is often more than gossip. Join us as we tackle questions like:

Why might it be essential to share some details with trusted friends?
How does sharing sexy stories strengthen bonds in the lifestyle?
When should you stay silent to avoid unintended harm?

Highlights:

Origins & Social Standards: Why "kissing and telling" has been taboo since 1695.
Swinger vs. Vanilla Perspectives: How relationship dynamics shape our views on privacy and openness.
When to Share: Tips for safely navigating disclosure in tight-knit communities.
Public Service Announcements: When sharing can prevent harm or protect others.

Tune in to hear real-life examples and valuable advice to make informed choices in your relationships.

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#SwingerLifestyle #KissAndTell #EthicalNonMonogamy #Swingers #RelationshipAdvice #SexPositive #SwingerPodcast #SwingerUniversity

Highlight Summary

Intro to "Kissing and Telling" - Ed and Phoebe discuss how "kissing and telling" impacts social dynamics in both the vanilla and swinger worlds.
History and Double Standards - An exploration of how society's double standards affect men and women differently.
Boundaries in Sharing - Understanding when it's okay to share details and when it's best to keep things private.
Why Sharing Matters in the Lifestyle - Reasons why sharing can help create safety, trust, and better experiences within the swinger community.
Public Safety Concerns - Examples of when sharing information serves the greater good.
Practical Tips for Disclosure - Best practices

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Swinger University - A Sexy and Educational Swinging Lifestyle Podcast - We threw out all our rules - Our first full-swap swinger experience

Transcript

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Welcome to Swinger University. I'm Ed. And I'm Phoebe. And this episode's a little different. We're gonna go way back. A little way back machine. And talk about our first full swap. It's got all kinds of juicy details and some things that you weren't proud of, but you know, stuff happens. Yeah, some lessons learned. Lessons for sure. For sure. And some things that we've figured out since then that we'll let you in on. And the dirty secret will come out.

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