
The Pitfalls of Swinging - It's not all fun and games
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06/26/24 • 27 min
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Welcome to Swinger University with Ed and Phoebe! In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the often unspoken pitfalls of the swinging lifestyle. From dealing with the regrets and letdowns to navigating the complexities of consent under the influence of drugs and alcohol, we cover it all with honesty and humor.
Discover why it's crucial to understand the darker aspects of ethical non-monogamy, and learn from our personal experiences to make better choices in your own journey. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just curious about the lifestyle, this episode offers valuable insights that you won't want to miss.
Key Topics:
- The reality of swinging beyond the glamour
- The impact of drugs and alcohol on consent and experiences
- The challenges of social dynamics in swinging parties
- Strategies for safer and more enjoyable encounters
- Personal stories and lessons learned
Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
2:15 - The unspoken challenges of swinging
5:45 - Drugs, alcohol, and consent issues
12:30 - Social pressures and personal regrets
18:45 - The importance of moderation and awareness
25:10 - Navigating social dynamics and dating in the lifestyle
32:00 - The impact of environment and party settings
39:20 - Personal stories and lessons learned
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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com
Welcome to Swinger University with Ed and Phoebe! In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the often unspoken pitfalls of the swinging lifestyle. From dealing with the regrets and letdowns to navigating the complexities of consent under the influence of drugs and alcohol, we cover it all with honesty and humor.
Discover why it's crucial to understand the darker aspects of ethical non-monogamy, and learn from our personal experiences to make better choices in your own journey. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just curious about the lifestyle, this episode offers valuable insights that you won't want to miss.
Key Topics:
- The reality of swinging beyond the glamour
- The impact of drugs and alcohol on consent and experiences
- The challenges of social dynamics in swinging parties
- Strategies for safer and more enjoyable encounters
- Personal stories and lessons learned
Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
2:15 - The unspoken challenges of swinging
5:45 - Drugs, alcohol, and consent issues
12:30 - Social pressures and personal regrets
18:45 - The importance of moderation and awareness
25:10 - Navigating social dynamics and dating in the lifestyle
32:00 - The impact of environment and party settings
39:20 - Personal stories and lessons learned
3 Ways to get your question on our show:
RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/
EMAIL a recorded voice note to: [email protected]
CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.
Our Links:
📺YouTube - Like to watch?
👉Join our vibrant community: https://swingeruniversity.com/community
🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity
🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net
- SwingLinks.club - Our Links
- PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links
- EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links
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Do you love your community and want more events? Well, your beloved promoters may not be the event hosts you think they are. We reveal the dirty secrets of the swinging business and how some think it's a zero-sum game.
We discuss how some swinging businesses hurt swingers and our community because the drive for money takes priority over doing what's best for the community.
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Join us in this exciting episode as we recount our mesmerizing catamaran cruise experience at Hedonism II in Negril Jamaica! 🌊✨ Overcoming our initial hesitations due to motion sickness, we set sail on a smooth, scenic journey along the beautiful coastline. From breathtaking sunsets to swimming in crystal-clear waters, this cruise offers a perfect blend of relaxation and adventure. Discover hidden caves, interact with cliff divers, and enjoy lively music and fun games aboard. Whether you're a thrill-seeker or someone looking to unwind, this episode is packed with tips and stories to inspire your next adventure. Don't miss out on the unexpected twists and the fun we had along the way!
Key Topics:
Overcoming motion sickness
Highlights of the catamaran cruise
Cliff diving and exploring cave systems
Social activities and games onboard
Tips for first-time cruisers at Hedonism
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- Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, sexy products, and FREE swinger dating site trials
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Swinger University - A Sexy and Educational Swinging Lifestyle Podcast - The Pitfalls of Swinging - It's not all fun and games
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Why doesn't anyone talk about the pitfalls of swinging bad sex, waking up with regrets, the continual slog of hunting, repeated letdowns? As with all things in life, every good side has a bad. Don't worry, we promise to give you reasons to stay a Swinger. Welcome to Swinger University. I'm Ed. And I'm Phoebe. Join us as we explore the exciting world of ethical non-monogamy, sexual health, and sex education with an intellectual and sexy twist. All right, this episode i
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