Quickie: Overcoming Sex Negativity
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03/12/25 • 11 min
Think about your favorite meal. You can probably describe it in vivid, mouthwatering detail without hesitation or embarrassment. Now try describing your favorite sexual experience with the same enthusiasm and specificity. Not so easy, is it? That's sex negativity at work.
Sex negativity—the belief that sex is inherently bad or shameful—has been baked into our culture for generations. Like ketchup soaked into a sponge, it's hard to remove and affects everything about how we think and talk about sexuality. This Super Sex Quickie explores how this mindset creates a limited vocabulary that makes sex seem more taboo than it needs to be, leaving us awkward and unable to clearly express our desires.
I offer a fresh perspective by comparing sex to food. When discussing cuisine, we have a rich vocabulary of sensory descriptions—spicy, sweet, crispy, juicy—and we confidently express our preferences. But with sex, we're stuck with vague euphemisms like "sleeping with" or "messing around" that fail to capture what we truly want. This linguistic limitation isn't just frustrating; it's a barrier to authentic connection and pleasure.
Moving from sex negativity to sex positivity isn't just about having better sexual experiences; it's about embracing your entire sexuality and freeing yourself from outdated, shame-based messaging. It creates a world where your unique preferences are valid, where open communication replaces awkward hints, and where diversity in sexual expression is celebrated rather than judged. Through practical tips like expanding your vocabulary, practicing self-acceptance, and challenging negative messages, you can begin your journey toward a more positive relationship with sex—one conversation at a time.
For adult workshops, 1-1 coaching, or more fun insights on our blog, check out www.jordanwalkerrse.com. If you’re looking for help or resources for your teen—be it workshops, one-on-one coaching, or just some great advice—head over to www.youwontlearnthisatschool.com.
Don't forget to subscribe, share, and join the conversation with us on social media. Stay sexy, stay curious, and until next time—keep it Supersexy.
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Check us out on Instagram now!
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Or Drop us an email @
[email protected]
Don't forget to check out the podcast at:
https://www.jordanwalkerrse.com/podcast-1
or see what Jordan is up to teaching all things sex ed at:
www.youwontlearnthisatschool.com
Think about your favorite meal. You can probably describe it in vivid, mouthwatering detail without hesitation or embarrassment. Now try describing your favorite sexual experience with the same enthusiasm and specificity. Not so easy, is it? That's sex negativity at work.
Sex negativity—the belief that sex is inherently bad or shameful—has been baked into our culture for generations. Like ketchup soaked into a sponge, it's hard to remove and affects everything about how we think and talk about sexuality. This Super Sex Quickie explores how this mindset creates a limited vocabulary that makes sex seem more taboo than it needs to be, leaving us awkward and unable to clearly express our desires.
I offer a fresh perspective by comparing sex to food. When discussing cuisine, we have a rich vocabulary of sensory descriptions—spicy, sweet, crispy, juicy—and we confidently express our preferences. But with sex, we're stuck with vague euphemisms like "sleeping with" or "messing around" that fail to capture what we truly want. This linguistic limitation isn't just frustrating; it's a barrier to authentic connection and pleasure.
Moving from sex negativity to sex positivity isn't just about having better sexual experiences; it's about embracing your entire sexuality and freeing yourself from outdated, shame-based messaging. It creates a world where your unique preferences are valid, where open communication replaces awkward hints, and where diversity in sexual expression is celebrated rather than judged. Through practical tips like expanding your vocabulary, practicing self-acceptance, and challenging negative messages, you can begin your journey toward a more positive relationship with sex—one conversation at a time.
For adult workshops, 1-1 coaching, or more fun insights on our blog, check out www.jordanwalkerrse.com. If you’re looking for help or resources for your teen—be it workshops, one-on-one coaching, or just some great advice—head over to www.youwontlearnthisatschool.com.
Don't forget to subscribe, share, and join the conversation with us on social media. Stay sexy, stay curious, and until next time—keep it Supersexy.
🎧 Listen now on all major podcast platforms!
Check us out on Instagram now!
www.instagram.com/supersex_podcast
Or Drop us an email @
[email protected]
Don't forget to check out the podcast at:
https://www.jordanwalkerrse.com/podcast-1
or see what Jordan is up to teaching all things sex ed at:
www.youwontlearnthisatschool.com
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Don't forget to check out the podcast at:
https://www.jordanwalkerrse.com/podcast-1
or see what Jordan is up to teaching all things sex ed at:
www.youwontlearnthisatschool.com
Super Sex - Quickie: Overcoming Sex Negativity
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Hey there , super sexes . Welcome back to another Super Sex Quickie . Today we're diving into a topic that's been lurking around in our cultural backyards for way too long Sex negativity . Yeah , that's right . Sex negativity , which is basically the idea that sex is somehow bad . Where the hell did they get that idea from ? I know it sounds crazy because , come on , sex can be awe
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